Unyango of Alcoholism: Motivation ibe ngumqathango

Butywala - sisifo esibi, ubungqongqo nguBani ngebande zizifo oncological. Kodwa ke, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukumelana nesi sifo kunokuba. Oku kufuna iimeko ezimbini: koncedo lobungcaphephe kunye nenkuthazo kakhulu malunga nesigulane eso. Imeko yesibini akusoloko ingqalelo zizalamane nabahlobo alkgolika, abadla zama yokuphatha ukusela ngaphandle ulwazi lwakhe. Kodwa unyango enjalo butywala akakwazi kuzisa iingenelo. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, oko aggravates kuphela ingxaki ngokuzifaka kuyo ngokwabo kunye nezalamane, abasoloko "co-oxhomekeke". Kulo mzekelo, uncedo therapist ifunwa bonke ababandakanyekayo kule ngxaki; kwaye ezinxilisayo, kunye neqembu yakhe. Kungenxa yoko le nto lixesha kubaluleke kakhulu ukufuna uncedo abaqeqeshiweyo: therapist ululeka kwaye kugqirha akuyi kunceda kuphela unyango yomguli, kodwa kuya kwenza kube lula ukuba siphephe iingxaki ezingakumbi.

Ngoko ke inyathelo lokuqala ekudalweni kwempembelelo - ke ukuqonda ingxaki umntu onesifo ngamakhoboka otywala. Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba izigulane badla ubunzima anosognosia butywala, ngamanye ukwalela le ngxaki. Olu hlobo yokusabela omzimba, ukungafuni ukuba ubone kwaye ukuvuma ingxaki yakhe. Kodwa ukusabela onjalo okwazi nje ukutshabalalisa umntu. unyango lwe- butywala akunakwenzeka ngaphandle prinaniya iingxaki izigulane zabo. Inyaniso yokuba utywala - oku nje ingxaki ukuphazamiseka pathways, kodwa kuphazamiseka kakhulu kwengqondo. Ukujongana naso kuphela inxaxheba kwisigulana, ngoko ke unyango lwe butywala, ukongeza ukusetyenziswa kwamayeza ibandakanya nonyango lwengqondo. Umsebenzi we therapist - ukubuyela isigulane ukuba ubomi obuqhelekileyo, ukunceda ukufumana izizathu kakhulu ngoba enqaba ukusetyenziswa kotywala, ukunika ithuba lokuba ukuqhelana azilinganise zhizni.Pered eqhelekileyo uqala unyango lwe butywala, isigulane kufuneka uzibuze: "Kutheni kufuneka ubomi ephilileyo nto ke endiyifunayo kuye ? " Iimpendulo zale mibuzo kufuneka ibe izizathu zokwala utywala. Kuba umntu lo ezixhasayo iba intsapho, abantwana. Kuba abanye - umsebenzi, izinto kakuhle-ntle. Umntu esoyika indlela aza impilo kwaye ube ukhubazekile, kwaye ezinye amathemba vopotit amaphupha abo self-ukuqonda. Kodwa ke nantoni na isizathu, kufuneka longamele umnqweno basele, kuphela kwimeko unyango butywala anokuba lukhuthazo rezultat.Kogda wafumana, lo therapist uqalisa ukusebenza isigulane, ngokufuthi nokutsala kunye nezalamane ngubani na unyango butywala ngempumelelo ngakumbi. Ukwenza ngendlela eyakhayo, ukuququzelela ukuziphatha lwabo therapist ukuba ngenene ukunceda wakho omthandayo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba alkogolikku kunye nosapho lwakhe, ukuba umntu ngamnye ithuba lokuba abuyele ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kodwa lo mnqweno ukuze baphile zhinyu eqhelekileyo kufuneka longamele umnqweno ukusela utywala ngayo.

Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu esakhokelela butywala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, a kwabanga uba ingxabano nzulu, elithanda azikhange zikhunjulwe le ndoda ngokwayo. Kwaye oku, nathi, kunokunceda ululeka ingcali. Ukuze ukuqonda oonobangela nangokwasengqondweni butywala, ukuze kufuneka ukuba iseshoni enye. Lo ngumsebenzi kakhulu ukuba wenziwe kwaye ngotshintsho izityalo zengqondo yesigulana. Ngaphandle kwesi sifo kuya kuba nzima ukuba siphumelele, ngenxa yokuba lokufunyaniswa "butywala" - ukuba ubomi. Ngoko ke, umntu uya kuba kude ekupheleni kwemihla ukulawula wena uze wenze ukhetho esixhasa ngendlela yokuphila esempilweni.