Xa abantwana beqala agukat? Sifunda!

Ukuzalwa kwabantwana - kuba ngummangaliso lokwenyaniso. abafazi abaninzi, ingakumbi wayekhulelwe umntwana wabo wokuqala, nokuba phambi kokuba umntwana aqale azibuze imibuzo emininzi. uya kuba yintoni? Yintoni amehlo akhe? Xa wonke umntwana eqalisa ukuba uhambe? Xa abantwana beqala agukat? Kwaye izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo nokuvuka abanomdla. Ngapha koko, wonke umntwana yahlukile, kwaye nangona ukuba zininzi izinto esifana, elowo - omnye uhlobo. Bonke abafazi ukuthetha iiyure malunga Chad wakhe, oko akumangalisi akuthethi ukuba bakhangele phambili xa usana uthi ilizwi lakhe lokuqala - "mama". Kodwa kudala ngaphambi kokuba ukuba iintsana bazama ukudlala isandi eyahlukileyo. Ngoko xa abantwana kuqala agukat?

Emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, ixesha umama iqalisa ukubhabha ngokukhawuleza cwaka. Yonke ingqalelo swi abafazi baby, yena osoloko fussing ngeenxa zonke kuye, njengoko umgaqo, kuba akukho xesha kuyo nantoni na eyenye. Umntwana wakho udlayo, ukucupha ibala, yaye ujika ukuba wena unguye mhlawumbi ukondliwa okanye ukucupha, okanye azihlambe, okanye stroking, maxa wambi ndizilibala yokudla.

Xa ukunyamekela umntwana ngokufihlakeleyo iimpukane ngenyanga yokuqala, kufika ixesha ukuzibandakanya nayo ukuze baziqhelanise kwihlabathi ngaphandle. Kanye ngeli xesha eqalisa ukuba nomdla koko luyondelelene kuye. Yena ingqalelo omsindo, amaxesha amaninzi ixesha elide, ezama ungaziphindi. Ekuqaleni ke izandi nje ngamnye, kodwa kuya Kungathatha ixesha elithile, kwaye ziba amazwi okuqala, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba sizame ukunceda usana. Ngokuqinisekileyo nawe ngokwakho ndingakwazi ukukunyamezela ukulinda ndilindele loo mzuzu xa ethetha kuqala "ukunika". Musa ukumangaliswa, oku kudla landulelwa elide ilindelwe "kunina."

Liliphi ixesha umntwana iqala ukuba agukat - ngamnye kakhulu, kodwa into ethile ukuba kwiinyanga ezimbini phantse bonke abantwana sele ukupapasha izandi zazo, apho umama maxa wambi ukufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko daze. Amaxesha amaninzi yinto nje isikhamiso, ezifana "malunga", "e", "y", "a". Xa pronunciation ethile umntwana, ingaba kuba agukane, ingakumbi kwabo abazali basoloko iingcinga ezizele yiminqweno.

Ekuqaleni, umntwana uvelisa nje ezinye izandi, kodwa emva kwethuba iqala ukuzoba izifaniso phakathi kwabo abo balivayo ngaphandle. Abantwana badla "ihlangane" kwi ezalwa.

Xa abantwana beqala agukat ngokwenene? Ngu iinyanga ezine okanye ezintlanu, abaninzi abantwana baqala ukuzama ukubiza ezi zandi. Kodwa ukwenza ithemba xa usana lwakho balinda oku ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu okanye ukuya kwiinyanga ezisibhozo, bonke abantwana ezahlukeneyo, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba umlinganiselo izifanekiso zabo. Izandi kuqala yapapashwa abantwana inokuba nomahluko kakhulu. Ngoko ke 'intetho' ngembewu yakho iza kuya icaca ngakumbi, yaye oko kuya kuba lula ukwahlula phakathi amagama.

Ngoku icacile, xa abantwana baqala agukat kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ithetha inkqubo. Musa ukuxhala ukuba umntu waqalisa ukuba uthi phambi kokuba itakane ezi izandi emangalisayo.

Ayenzi mahluko xa umntwana eqalisa agukat, kungekudala emva koko kuya kwenzeka, ngoko musa kwakhona Ungakhathazeki.