Yintoni elona xesha lifanelekileyo ukukhawula umntwana?

umzali onoxanduva - le mikhwa eluntwini. Ngokutsho kweengcali, ziye kufika abantu abaninzi ngakumbi ukuze bakholwe ukuba babe ootata noomama kufuneka ulungiselele kwangaphambili isiseko eziphathekayo ngokulungisa impilo yabo kunye nokwakha umsebenzi oza kufumana phambili kwixesha elizayo. Kuphela emva kokuba abazali bafanele baqale ukuba akhethe elona xesha lifanelekileyo ukuze akheke. na kwenziwa njani?

Ngaphambili, izazinzulu babekholelwa ukuba ngexesha akazalani kwimpilo elizayo umntwana kwaye akakwazi kuchaphazela uphuhliso siswini. Noko ke, ukukhulelwa best bekucingelwa ukuba imvelaphi isicwangciso elingcono ekwindla - ixesha xa umzimba imazi ifunyenwe ngokupheleleyo isigxina iivithamini kwixesha lonyaka iziqhamo nemifuno, onwabele ilanga - nje bya ukuya ophatha epheleleyo kunye nazingxaki mahala baby. Kodwa ke uphando lwakutsha nje oluqhutywe yi zizazinzulu ukusuka Princeton University phakathi kuka-1994 no-2006, babonisa ukuba elona xesha lilungileyo ukukhawula umntwana - hayi ngexesha ekwindla.

Ekuqaleni, lo mbuzo ukuba izazinzulu ziye bambuza ngokwabo: "Kutheni abantwana abazelwe ebusika, babe nempilo ebuthathaka kunabo" zasehlotyeni "kuzalwa?" Ngaphambili ke babecinga ukuba isizathu sokuba - ixesha abandayo kunye umsebenzi nokusasazeka kwezifo wentsholongwane egazini okuthoba impilo umntwana nje emva kokuzalwa. Kodwa emva kokuba uphando lubonisa ukuba bhubhani umkhuhlane kunye SARS alinanto yakwenza nayo. Ngandlel 'ithile, indima engundoqo edlalwa yimiba yezentlalo noqoqosho. Ndafumanisa ukuba kwisiqingatha sokuqala sonyaka ingakumbi abasetyhini kumitha abantwana ngaphandle kwimfundo ephakamileyo, yaye engatshatanga. Kungenxa kolu didi bantu zibonisa up, ngokufuthi ngaphantsi kwe abantwana esempilweni. Kwaye esekelwe kwiziphumo, bona bazalwa kwakhona kwixesha ebusika. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukubala ixesha edalwa azale umntwana esempilweni, kwiinyanga zokuqala zonyaka ukoyika, Kakade ke, akukho mfuneko, kodwa balwela ngeli xesha ukuya ekuqaleni ukukhulelwa nawo ngokwawo awukho simse - kusekho umzimba yomfazi ngeli xesha kakhulu zonakele ubusika beriberi, kwaye kungcono ukuba ukomeleza kwangaphambili.

Kodwa yintoni na eli xesha lifanelekileyo ukukhawula umntwana? Izazinzulu ziye zafumanisa ukuba ukuze umntwana azalwe bomelele, uphilile kwaye ezinobunzima umzimba elungileyo, ukuba asebenze kwimbonakalo efunekayo yehlobo - Ngokwezibalo, abafazi kumitha ukususela ngoJuni ku-Agasti, abantwana bazalwa ubunzima nomzimba obungaphezu abanye. Ukongezelela, ngoku lixesha lokuba ukukhawula umntwana efanelekileyo, ngenxa yokuba umzimba buyasikhulula kwiinyanga zasehlotyeni, lwenza kube lula ukuba azondle ngokwazo kunye nezinto eziyimfuneko, kwaye ngexesha leeholide karhi xi ngaphantsi, leyo lula kakhulu ikhondo ukukhulelwa kwixesha elizayo.

Kodwa ngenyanga ubuncinane ezifanelekileyo izicwangciso mva May waba. Ndafumanisa ukuba abasetyhini abaye bakhulelwa kule nyanga, ithatha ukukhulelwa iveki ngaphantsi kwe ehlotyeni "beremenyushek". Oku koko wenza ngokwayo waziva, ochaphazela impilo yomntwana. Lilonke, ngoko, isithuba phakathi kukaJanuwari Meyi - oku elona xesha lifanelekileyo ukuze akheke. amajoni omzimba aba bantwana kaThixo engenamandla kakhulu, kusenokubakho iingxaki yokuva nokubona, kwakunye ukulibaziseka zophuhliso.

Ngoko ke, ukuba nje uza kuba nabantwana alinde ixesha zasehlotyeni - sidle imifuno fresh kunye neziqhamo, baphumle, ekufakeni ilanga elunxwemeni kwaye ekhululekile kwaye uqhubeke ukuya lwaluzibona ubomi obutsha, esempilweni kwaye womelele.