Yintoni impindezelo? Njengoko le imvakalelo kuchaphazela ubomi bethu

imvakalelo ebuhlungu aqhelekileyo xa umzimba icinyiwe ngaphakathi ngaphandle, ukutsha, ukutsha, kwaye abalazi nebula, apho akunakwenzeka ukuba aye amanqindi kukutyeba, uziva ligcwele yesibini kulo ukubaleka, akukho ukubaleka nganye ... Kodwa yintoni na ukuziphindezela? Ingaba kubalulekile ebomini bethu? Into Bathumela kuye indawo kwiingcinga yethu?

Ngokufuthi ukuba amkhaphele abantu esibathandayo, abo ezibe kufutshane kwaye ziyaxhaswa, iingoma thile wayecula imbeko yethu, wahleka kwi neentshaba eqhelekileyo. Indlela ukuxolela imela entliziyweni?

Ulwazi ngemiphumo iingcinga zabo

Yintoni impindezelo? Le meko ibuhlungu looped leyo kunqwenelwa iinzuzo elinye macala. Le ntlungu, ekufuneka ibuyiselwe umnini, njengoko imbuyekezo ezilahlekileyo KDE, izitshixo zemoto okanye emakhayeni nezacholo. Ayizi asoloko ulonwabo, kodwa ke phithi ukutshintsha indlela kweziganeko angazishiyi ukusebenza iintloko zethu logama nje ekuphunyezweni ekucwangciselwa yena. Le imvakalelo kuyingozi emzimbeni wethu aze nemiphumo noqhekeko, bamtyhale sikwazi ukunxibelelana nee-arhente zokunyanzeliswa komthetho. Kuye kwamandla ezingaphathekiyo phezu umntu, nto leyo lifana ukuthanda yedwa. Ukuba benze izinto angenakuthethwa, apho ke kusafuneka uhlawule amatyala, yaye isazela sakhe.

Ingaba kulungile ukuba Impindezelo yeyam?

Yintoni impindezelo? Na ukuba ndiyiphathe ukuziphindezela? Sondo wethamsanqa, nto leyo ethetha ukuba yintoni elandelayo eza kwenzeka nendlela ukujika isiphumo abamsulwa. Kungenisa ikratshi. Revenge - oko isono! Wamasiko uthi izikhalazo kufuneka ukuxolela abaphuli-zethu, ukuba ukulibala ulundulule, nengqondo umile ngenye indlela. Ngubani ukuthemba?

Ukuchaza iimvakalelo yakho

Revenge ... Hayi nabani nokuba nakancinane xa uziva aqala. Ngamnye kuthi uye waba ubuncinane kanye ebomini umona, ingqumbo, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa impendulo wenza kuphela ngokusekelwe ubuntu bakhe. Isizathu ukuziphindiselela, wacinga, isenokuba embi kakhulu kwaye zingabi nasihlahla. Ukuba wonelisekile kunye nobomi babo, ukuba yonke into kufuneka ukuswitsha kwaye bahlale kwenzeka ntoni, sidla musa acaphuke njengento isibhakabhaka-high, kwaye silwa yakhe namdla ndalilola kuphela komoni bahlekisa indlela yena utya .

Kodwa ukuba izinto ezahlukeneyo: kwi-Abraham, uMlawuli uyazifohloza zonke ngomzuzu, akukho luck ebomini bakhe buqu, lo mfo yaya kumhlobo ebuntwaneni, kwaye kulungile, ngenxa yomona weba umntu umntu ulonwabo, kwaye ngoku ubaleka obonwabisayo gloating - ke, thina umsindo ngeke miss ngayo wena, wamanyisa inzondo. Uze uqiniseke ukuba bafunge ukuziphindezelela ngexesha elimlungeleyo. Siza kuqala kuthwala kwindawo yangaphambili. Kwangaxesha nye siyakuphucula ngokuyilahlela umsebenzi wothiyiweyo kunye nolawulo lwabasebenzi engathethekiyo, rhoxa nezingacwangciselwanga libe kwixesha elingenammiselo kwaye uya kufumana ngokwayo umntu elimnandi ukuba bonke umona wasuka waphuthelwa ubusuku bonke. Kodwa ngaba oku kusenza ngaphantsi bengonwabanga kuka ngokwenyani na?

Thina ndikhulile

Yintoni impindezelo? Sidla uyizobe ngokwakho. Neminqweno emihle, siya ndisikhuphe lunwele razluchnitsam, ngaphakathi ubuso babo ityhefu acid okanye ubuso kokupheliswa umngcatshi kobokuqala, kodwa ngokwenyani kuwuvule kuphela ingxaki ngokuthi iyisa inkathazo ngakumbi phezu kwentloko yakhe; apho efolisiweyo isonka, ikhwazwe ngababuthuntu okanye of old lady omsulwa, kwaye zezithuthi zikawonke watyholwa zesinyanzeliso umfana kuloo ndawo imxinwa nje uzama ukufumana ngomnyango, kwaye kukho yagaleleka ATM ukuba chu wanikela imali, emangalisiwe kwaye ecela nendibaniselwano ezingeyomfuneko ... indlela nGENXA kusasa, siye ukona nje impilo yabo, psyche, nochuku, ukusola, akathembekanga, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba abantu abanjalo sukumjongela otnosittsya kwezinye, ndinkqonkqoza emnyango ukuba uvuyo elide ilindelwe?

Ingaba kufuneka uqale ukuziphindezela kwakhe?

Isixhiba akayi kwenza umntu onwabe, akukho mthetho okanye ngumphindezeli wazo, kodwa utshabalalisa zombini ubomi. Uya kuba bathinjwa kwiimeko ebezingalindelekanga, kwaye abanye uqale uya ukwenza intlekisa zomsebenzi simahla. Maxa wambi kuyimfuneko ukuba bacinge ekucombululeni iingxaki efunde ngoxolo. Kodwa ukuba uqinisekile ukuba akukho khetho yakho, ngoko ke kufuneka uhlole njengotshaba ngokufanelekileyo. Awukwazi ukuya edabini ngaphandle ingqondo! Ungcolisa, indoda eligcisa uya alindele ukuphikiswa-hlaselo, kwaye ukuba ngaba asisoze silinde ukuba ixesha elithile, uya kuba yokudlala bizkit ezandleni zakhe ambalwa, wambeka yena ungumntu ombi bonke ukubona. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bazabalazela umthetho, musa uwajongele utshaba kakubi mkhulu wenza kunawe, ngenxa yokuba indawo kuphela ukubuyela.

Ukuba isicwangciso sakho kuluhlu ingxelo zolwaphulo-mthetho kunye ixesha elide lokuvalelwa, flip iingcinga malunga ukungcola eyoyikekayo, leyo ebekwa Iikhowudi embambano nawolwaphulo-mthetho. Ngaba nani nifuna ukuba ukwenza imeko zabo ezikhohlakeleyo kunayo, yaye ubeke phezu ikamva eliqaqambileyo umnqamlezo omkhulu? Ngaba sancedakala phofu? Sekunjalo, ngaba uxobule ububi izalamane nabahlobo, ebuhlungu oko yakhe ayikho elungileyo, ingakumbi ukuba akunjalo, baye noxanduva lokubhiyozelwa ebila egazini lakho.

Indlela ukuba balahle umnqweno ukuziphindezela?

Revenge - ukuziva elibi. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuphelisa le novelwano lingcolileyo, ukuze aqale kuyeka ukuba neentloni iingcinga zakhe nokuba yantlitheka ixesha elithile lobomi msebenzi, nokuba ngaba lobuqu okanye inxalenye yayo. Zama ukuthumela amabi ukuphonononga into entsha, sebenzisa ixesha lakho simahla ukuswitsha. Qala bawuphikisa ukulwa nabanye kunye neminqweno yabo. Oku kunceda ukucamngca, yoga, iintlobo ezithile umsebenzi oyimfakamfele womluki. Liyeke elidlulileyo, zama ukulibala zonke izinto ezimbi ezenzeka kuwe, nokuba ukuvula iindlela ezintsha. Gcina idayari, i interlocutor blog iileta imbalelwano imeyile, rekhoda ilizwi, okanye idinga ngengqondo.

Utshintsho elide elindelwe

Wakuba wenze isigqibo ukuba bakulungele ukuya kunandipha ubomi yaye kutshintsha, kufuneka ngoko nangoko uqale ukwenza. Ngapha koko, xa amazwi enyaniso kuphela izenzo zakhe, yaye ukuba uzikhulule de ngomso, ayisayi kubakho. Inyathelo lokuqala kukuba ukuthetha luxanduva engeyomfuneko ezinkulu yethu iphelile intliziyo, ingqondo, umphefumlo, kunye namagxa. Uhlaziye into eyenzekayo malunga nokubuyela leyinene kuphela ukwamkelwa bunyaniso kuya hlobo. Thina, bantu - zonke izidalwa eziphilayo, abakwaziyo ukucinga nokuqiqa, sikholisa yintlungu nokubandezeleka, kodwa kutheni ukuze wasixhoma phezu kwabo? Mhlawumbi, ekuphela kwendlela - ayeke ukucinga ngento ntoni njengento buhlungu kwaye baqale ukuqonda mzuzu yonke - kuba yinto entle ezizodwa.

uphilisa ixesha

Ukuze alwe kukho impindezelo, kuthatha ixesha elininzi neenzame. Asiyiyo ingqele eqhelekileyo, kuba kwiveki bangabi saphakama xa uchitha ngokulula ugqirha emiselweyo iipilisi ulale iintsuku ezimbalwa kwibhedi efudumeleyo. Esibhedlela Ngokuqinisekileyo efunekayo, kodwa ke wulawuleni ebantwini ngexesha kuya kuba luncedo. Wakuba sokwehlisa sifunxe ngaphakathi elungileyo wena, ubomi iya kutshintsha. Ungaze ukuziphindiselela! Yiba nobulumko izenzo zabo neengcinga!