Yintoni kuchaphazela impilo yengqondo besikolo?

Yintoni impilo yengqondo? Ungashiya amagama. Okokuqala, lithuba lokuba ukwakha ubuhlobo oluhle nabanye yaye uzive self-ezaneleyo kunye umntu wanelisekile. Yintoni na isizathu? iseti yemfuza okanye uphuhliso ezithile manqanaba. Yemfuza, Kakade, akwenziwanga kwaba irhoxisiwe. Kodwa phantse ubani uphuhliso lwabantwana ekunene unako ukukhula ubuntu entle, ukuba impilo yengqondo eyiyo.

Ngaba I ukukhetha ngokwekhrayitheriya apho kunokuqatshelwa iqondo ngokuvumelana okanye umntwana? Ewe. Kukho eziliqela iimpawu, zihlangene bakwazi ukubonelela uhlolo yonke psyche. Nazi ezona ziphambili:

• ukukwazi ukuqonda wena;
• umbono ngokwalo njengomntu omhle;
• nokukwazi ukulawula;
• ivulekile ngokweemvakalelo kunye noontanga babo;
• ukukwazi ukuvelana kwaye amncede nabanye abantu;
• ukukwazi ubumbe kumaxabiso zabo kunye nezicwangciso.

Kodwa ukuba ukulinganisa njani impilo yengqondo? Ingaba kukho norm apho kulwela? Ewe. Umntu ekwaziyo kuphela hayi kwimo engqongileyo, kodwa unako self-uphuhliso kuyo negalelo ekuphuculeni yayo, kungathathwa iqhelekile ukuqinisekisa impilo nentlalo nangokwasengqondweni ngamnye. Okunye kanye ukuba athi: kuba umntu, ukukwazi ukutshintsha ngokwayo uze utshintshe bume babo lula yabo.

Xa kufikwa kuphuhliso psychology of ngamnye, endaweni yokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe ngayo kuphuhliso komntwana. Njengoko kunjalo ebuntwaneni psyche babona bantu babuthathaka kunye novelwano njengoko umntwana i elula atshabalalise psyche, Ibuthele kunye ngoko kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Ngapha koko, njengokuba sisazi, zonke iingxaki zengqondo ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela izinto ezinokuchaphazela kakubi ngokwengqondo impilo yabantwana.

Unobangela ngokwengqondo disorder uba ungquzulwano, kodwa hayi bonke. Umntwana, okhulele kwindawo ngokupheleleyo impixano-free, kunokuba ubunzima ezingakumbi zokuzilungiselela lwentlalo kwixesha elizayo, kunokuba umntwana okhulele phambi iingxabano zezakhiwo. Kule mzuzu ebalulekileyo, kuba ungquzulwano kunokuba yingozi, ukuba ubuntu etshabalalisayo.

iingxaki etshabalalisayo kungakhokelela underestimation singaba- ngabanye, ukuyilwa izakhiwo ezahlukeneyo, ukungazithembi. Impixano eyodwa etshabalalisayo phantse wonke umntwana uyakwazi ziphile kwaye ulibale. Kodwa njalo ke kukhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni engqondweni yomntwana, ukuba iingxaki ebomini, ukusabela bangonwabi.

reactions Long bangonwabi nga libe ixhala bangonwabi engqondweni yomntwana xa elinye iqela onyanzelwayo ungquzulwano etshabalalisayo. Ixhala okubangelwa, yena, kujongela ngakumbi kwimpilo yengqondo abafundi, ezikhubazayo akwaziyo ukwenza kunye ovelisa singenamandla namandla. Kunye nokukhathazeka uboniswe ngokupheleleyo size ukubonakala kuphela xa uviwo ekhethekileyo kwengqondo.

Cinga izinto ezinokukhokelela ekubeni nexhala yesikolo ukumelana:

• umthwalo uqeqesho ebalulekileyo;
• ukungakwazi ukugcina up nekharityhulam;
• ekukhuleni kwemfuneko abazali ukuya ekuphumeleleni umntwana zemfundo;
• non-yokusonga ulwalamano kunye nootitshala omnye okanye ngaphezulu;
• utshintsho rhoqo phakathi kwabasebenzi.

Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu abadala nabo zibaluleke umntwana, musa ukuxolela ubuthathaka encinane, nto leyo ebangela umonakalo omkhulu bakhe nokuzixabisa. Kwaye lo mzuzu kuyingozi kakhulu. ukugxeka ngaphandle indumiso (nkqu impumelelo lincinane) ithoba impilo nangokwasengqondweni umntwana ekuyiphuhliseni tinhloko, ukuba ngqwabalala okanye, phezu koko, ukusilela ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo ngokwabo, nkqu isiphumo mbi phezu impumelelo kophuhliso.