Development of abantwana iinyanga 11 izakhono ezitsha. Umntwana iinyanga 11: ukukhula, isondlo

Phambi holide kudala lilindelwe zonke - ngomhla wokuqala ukuzalwa komntwana wakho esenenyanga enye nje kuphela, yaye wena bayothuka ukubona utshintsho oluphawulekayo encane yakho. Uninzi abazali umbuzo umbuzo engqondweni, njani uphuhliso lwabantwana iinyanga 11-12?

Ngoko ke ayisendim loo mali incinane ulonwabo ukuba akwazi ukwenza into ngokwabo, yaye ngubani waba injongo enye - ukuphuhlisa. Abantwana phantsi iinyanga 11 mfuneko ukondla ebusuku, engafuni kuphumla wena, akuyi kufuneka ahlambe ukucupha, ngokuba yena uya embizeni. Ukongeza, usana ukhululekile ukuba uhlale, ukhase, nkqu azame ukuhamba udle! Kuye livelise ukhetho zayo, yokudlala oyithandayo kunye umqamelo, wayezenzela ukuqaphela utatomkhulu wakhe, Malume Vanya, okanye ikati kummelwane.

Umntwana kule ubudala unako uvakalelwa kakuhle isimo kwabanye, uyakwazi ukuthatha umthetho kwaye ukuba nemihlali. Isikhumbuzo wokuqala umntwana, oomama abaninzi sele ugqibile nokuncancisa, leyo, Kakade ke, kukho uxinzelelo olukhulu umntwana. Nangona azidelekanga singenamandla njengokuba ngaphambili, kodwa kakhulu abafuna imfudumalo yakho kunye nothando. Kungenxa yoko le nto kweli xesha, abazali ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka rhoqo kangangoko ukuba ube khona ukuze kubuyekezelwe yokunqongophala zihlandlo olusondeleyo kunye nosana abe lokuncancisa.

Kweli xesha omlingo kids ehlekisayo, kulingisa ukudlala, bathi amazwi ezintsha funny kwaye enze amanyathelo okuqala.

Kuyanda kuphuhliso

sele Yintoni impumelelo zafikelela encane yakho? Njani uphuhliso umntwana iinyanga 10-11? Ngeli xesha, umntwana sele uyazi kangakanani. Yena uyaqonda oko waxelela abantu abadala ukuphendula okanye ukubonisa into. Kakade ke, intetho yakhe akazange enze ngaphandle lula kunjalo, ngenxa yokuba lo mntwana usebenzisa amagama elifinyeziweyo, ngokufuthi akha, lowo leyo ephinda. Kodwa kids iindlela ezahlukileyo ukuze ubonise oko kufuneka ngalo mzuzu.

Uyakwazi umbonise into, wathi eyona nto ibalulekileyo kule yobudala eli gama "Siphe!", Abanezimo imvakalozwi. Ukuba lwakukhula ufuna ukuba adle, uya kuwuvula umlomo wakhe ubonisa ngomnwe wakhe, ngoko pozhuet ngenkuthalo ukutya ezingabonakaliyo. Abazali kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba esweni zochuku ezinjalo, kuba nangona sebekhomba loo nophuhliso olufanelekileyo umntwana iinyanga ezili-11.

Yini umntwana:

• ukuqonda kunye nangokunyanisekileyo nemihlali indumiso;
• uzise izinto ezahlukileyo ukuze bawafake endaweni yabo;
• uAlesandire ngesandla sakhe sibingelela okanye ntle;
• amanzi akho avela ndebe;
• nzima ukubamba icephe uze uzame ukuba ukuyidla;
• indawo namalungu omzimba - indlebe glazik, umlomo, njl

Enyanisweni, uphuhliso lwabantwana phantsi iinyanga ezili-11 kwimeko nganye inokuba nomahluko.

Ngeli xesha, ubunzima usana sele amaxesha amabini ngaphezulu ekuzalweni. Ngaphezu koko, kuye linyuka, kunye nokukhula - phantse 25 cm! Uphuhliso komntwana wakho lisiwa, kwaye unganceda khona.

baby ukudla

Endleleni eya kwinyanga yokugqibela kunyaka wabo wokuqala bezelwe zosana ukudla kwakhe iguquka. ubisi Lo mama emnandi kunye novithamini-besityebi zize ngasemva, ngokuba onombilini zosana ukhula nayo.

Kuwo wonke unyaka, wena waqalisa ukusela isabelo inkwenkwana Chubby, yaye yintoni na kwindlela eya isikhumbuzo? Yazisa na ukudla? Ngayo xa umntwana iinyanga ezili-11? Development, izintlu zeenkqubo isondlo - njengokuba loo nto alahlekayo?

Ukutya umntwana phantse mnye ubudala sifana kakhulu ukutya dietetic ukuba abadala. Itakane aya kukuvuyela ukwanela amasi, gruel, amaqebengwana, iikeyiki, iziqhamo, iyogurt kunye nezinye iimveliso zobisi. Kuba nokwenziwa ngcono yokutya esiswini kunye nezincinane, Kakade ke, eqhelekileyo ukutya okunempilo kubhetele ukuba apheke konke ukutya iyabiliswa, okanye ebilisiweyo.

Ayikhuthazwa tu into yokuba umntwana ukudla kwakho ezinokubangela allergies, ezifana iziqhamo citrus (-orenji, yelamuni, Mandarin). Mhlawumbi akuyi sisabele umntwana wakho ukuze ezi mveliso, kodwa kungcono ukuba mithi.

Akuyi Kucetyiswa ukuba ukondla usana ukutya nzima ezifana nuts okanye ubisi yonke. Kwakhona, musa masenze kid eqhotsiweyo, ukutya okuneziqholo okanye irhawulwe - oku kutya imbi nokuba abantu abadala, singasathethi umzimba encinane.

Ukunyamekela ukuze ubutyebi bakho

Kakade ke, phambi kokuba usana lwakho ifuna kuye ingqalelo kakhulu ngakumbi na, ngokufanelekileyo, inkathalo, kodwa ngoku kufuneka sazi ukunyamekela ngqo njani ukuba esesi.

Kule minyaka, le mpumelelo ibalulekileyo umntwana - ekuqaleni intshukumo elizimeleyo. Kamsinya nje umntwana efunda ukuhamba, ukutshintsha kunye nemfuneko izihlangu. Ukuba ubukhe wamfaka yimpango ethambileyo, nje ukuba ukuba ifudumele, ngoku kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha izicathulo ngakumbi ukuhamba.

Ngokuba uphuhliso engcono ekhuselekileyo kwezakhono ukuhamba umntwana wakho kufuneka izihlangu kunye non-slip, esongwayo elungileyo kuphela. Esifana nesabo ezinjalo kufuneka umzobo esiqinileyo. Kwaye ukuze izihlunu ngeenyawo ukuba ziqiniswe, zikhuliswe, kakuhle, ukususa ingane ngeenyawo phezu kwentlabathi, ingca, okanye ezinye igudile umgangatho kumphezulu eqhelekileyo.

Development of abantwana iinyanga ezili-11 kuquka ezinye izinto. Ukongeza kwizakhono intshukumo ezizimeleyo kufuneka kwakhona lincede umntwana ukukuqhela embizeni. Wonke nonina, nkqu emehlweni kunye nembonakalo yobuso ubona xa ixesha umntwana wakhe kwindlu yangasese. Kodwa kusafuneka ukuba kancinane agonye umntwana wakho siziqhelisa ethetha oku, nangona umntwana sele ixesha elide womile eneminyaka iinyanga ezili-11. Mdumiseni, Nokuba nje wahlala phezu kwembiza kunye, ngakumbi, xa athe wacelwa.

I imihla ngemihla "Working" Usuku iChild

imihla ngemihla yam yonke umntwana eyahlukileyo. Ubukhulu becala kuxhomekeke umsebenzi umntwana wakho. Ekukhuleni komntwana wakhe iinyanga ezili-11 lwenzeke ngobuchule kangangoko kunokwenzeka, oogqirha babantwana ukucebisa ngokufanelekileyo ukuze enye ngexesha lokudlala yaye abanye. izakhono ezitsha ukuza umntwana ngokuthe ngcembe, yaye waba amandla ngokwaneleyo ukwenzela uphuhliso lwabo, kufuneka ibe yindlela ecacileyo azotywe kakuhle up.

Ngokomthetho 11 ngenyanga toddler uvuka kwangethuba - 7am. ubuthongo emini kuyehla amaxesha omnye okanye emibini, ngenxa yokuba umntwana uyalala ebusuku malunga 10 iiyure.

Ixesha zisenokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke iminqweno bobabini usana kunye nonina. Ukuba uceba kwixesha elizayo ukuze ukuqhuba umntwana enkulisa, unako phambili kancinci, indlela drive yemini kwishedyuli ye enkulisa, ukuze kamva usana kwaba lula ukuba nezimo.

Towards bebudala bungaphantsi konyaka omnye akukho mfuneko yokuba yokudada ngemihla, khetha nje imihla ethile, xa ndakuzuza ukwenza unyango emanzini. Ngelo xesha ukucoca iintsalela mandatory.

"Zokudlala My", "Mna ngokwam", imidlalo ayithandayo?

ngokuba umntwana yokudlala ayikho nje into, uyakwazi idlalwe leyo - njengendlela ekuqondeni ihlabathi. Ngoko ke, umntwana lo angakhetha izinto "abadala" kwi zokudlala njengesiqhelo, nangona yena umntwana iinyanga ezili-11. Ukuphuhliswa yomdlalo, kodwa kunoko uphuhliso inkqubo yayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Itakane lungadlala ukugquma ipani okanye ulawulo remote TV, ekwaziyo kunye zokudlala zabo. Mazise ihlabathi nemidlalo, ukuba bamncede kulo. Uzityhila amanyathelo amatsha oko izinto ezinomdla (Kakade ke, ukuba kukhuselekile), ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba udlale nabo.

Kwivenkile, makabe bathenge emphinini - makabe wayibeka engobozini, ekhaya amnike isitya ndawonye amanzi kunye asiphe eshushu - nokuzama kuhlamba kuyo. Khumbula - wena njengomzekelo umntwana, ufuna ukwenza loo nto wena. Thatha uncedo lwakhe nendumiso, nokuba wamnika nje into yokudlala okanye ezisula etafileni bujikelwe ngeqhiya.

"Mna ngokwam." Nokuba esemncinane onjalo umntwana sele eqala kwenzeka esi sivakalisi. Ufuna ukuba ukusela indebe, kwaye lifuna isiphatho kwi ibhatyi yakho. Ufuna ukudlala ungalinikeli nabani zokudlala yakho. Abasafunda ukuhamba kukho umdlalo umdla - ukuphosa into phantsi ukuba umntu kuwuthatha up. Yaye ndiya kumvusa xa kwakhona ukuyeka.

Umama njengomfundisi. Uphuhliso wosana

Kukho umbuzo ophakamayo, mhlawumbi, bonke oomama, impendulo leyo apho ufuna i ummelwane onamava, i-Internet okanye incwadi - njengoko kufuneka uphuhliso umntwana iinyanga ezili-11. Anabafundi umntwana kweenyanga ezili-11, kwakunye ukumanyana zikamama nxaxheba zibaluleke kakhulu. Sizixhalabise kuphuhliso usana lwakho, ibhinqa ubusuku bonke zihlala kwi-intanethi ekhangela ingcebiso. Abaninzi kubo ufunde incwadi uGqirha Komarovsky kunye nezinye nababhali, ukuthenga iimagazini, ezifana "Imimiselo zophuhliso zabantwana kule nkulungwane yama-21", "Child Development iinyanga ezili-11." Komorowski, Gippenreiter, Hanhasaeva kunye nezinye ababhali babhale iincwadi elungileyo kwimpilo kunye nemfundo yabantwana. Kodwa ke icebiso engcono - mamela wena nosana lwakho!

Funda iincwadi zakhe, ekhomba umfanekiso eliqaqambileyo kuzo. Cacisa ukuba akutsalwa, alinganise izandi zezi zilwanyana kusana lula ukuba ukukhumbula. Musa angakhululeki ixesha elide kwiklasi enjalo, kuba nosana akanako ukunikela ingqalelo intshukumo enye. Thatha sekhefu umdlalo esebenzayo ngakumbi, ezifana "Ku-ku" okanye "Ladushki". Ozibiyele phezu kwezandla zakho okanye kunyikima emadolweni. Ukuba umntwana aye lokuhamba okanye ukuhambisa wena, ukudlala catch-up (kakade, bendise), itakane uya kuvuyiswa!

Kwibala lokudlala ukufundisa umntwana ukwabelana zokudlala nabanye, ukudlala kule nkampani. Ubonisa indlela yokusingatha isanti, indumiso, ukuba kwabelwana na into yokudlala nommelwane kwi yesanti.

Yiya kwagqirha?

Musa ukuphaphazela ukuba usana sele akakafiki wahamba ngokwabo. Ukuze oku yobudala ukuya yi emphinini okanye ebhedini, kwisingqengqelo kuhle. Zama ukuqhuba umntwana kwi "elizimeleyo" ehle kakhulu, ukuphuhlisa umkhwa ehamba hayi ukugaqa.

Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukufumana ngeenyawo zakho, qiniseka ukuba adibane podiatrist. Ugqirha unakho ukumisela yokuthanjiswa kwezonyango okanye imisebenzi ukunceda ukuphuhlisa kwemilenze. Musa ukulibala ukwenza umyalezo ikhaya nakwimithambo yomzimba.

Ngexesha kusasa okanye ngokuhlwa bath ungenza yokuthanjiswa amanzi - zako rezultativen.

I - umntu

encane yakho ubhaqa inyaniso entsha, kwaba - uchazo eyahlukileyo. Uye imagi yakhe, iipleyiti, icephe, mhlawumbi ingubo yakhe ayithandayo okanye ebhedini. Umntwana uqala ukuqonda ukuba - indoda labucala. Ngenxa yale ukuqonda, ukuze, umzekelo, musa ukuqala idlala umntu kunye, kwaye emnyango nje elandelayo, ngokwahlukeneyo.

Isiyalo. Ewe okanye hayi?

Ingaba kuyimfuneko ekukhuliseni umntwana kwi ubungozi siphelisa lokudala nokugcina ingqeqesho? Kaloku, ewe hayi. Itakane uyaqonda into oyithethayo, kwaye ngokukodwa ukuba 'ukulibala' ukuba umnike into ezitokisini.

Kukho lokuqala lasungulwa njengomntu ngamnye, ngoko ke kubalulekile kakhulu ukwenza nezithintelo kuphela amathuba kakhulu ngokwenene okanye yingozi. Musa njalo ukuthi "hayi." Endaweni yoko, ndixeleleni ntoni. Ukuba itakane rips amahlamvu emithini, chaza ukuba ukwenza oko akulunganga, kuba umthi egula. Vumela umntwana ukuze baqonde oko iingenelo kulo mthi ukuze ebantwini kwaye iinzuzo okukhuphileyo kunye, ukunkcenkceshela kuyo. Kakade ke, abantwana abaninzi abayi kukuqonda oko, kodwa ngoncedo yezenzo umboniso uya kukwazi ukucacisa kuye oko kulungileyo noko kubi. Le ndlela uya ukufikelela nefuthe ngakumbi ukuba nje kunkqangaza: "Musani ukubachukumisa iinkuni! Akunakwenzeka! "

Development of abantwana iinyanga 11 - umlinganiselo bonke ezahlukeneyo!

Yonke umama ukhathazeka kakhulu ukuba usana lwakhe lisasalele emva kuphuhliso, ukuba unako ukwenza phantsi imithetho. Ke yena weza le mithetho? Kukho umlinganiselo iirhafu, kodwa kunzima ukucinga bonke bephela. umntwana ngamnye ezahlukeneyo, kunye nophuhliso yayo, ngokulandelelanayo, kakhulu. Ngoko ke musa ukuphaphazela ngoko nangoko ukuba umntwana wakho akwazi ukwenza loo ngokulula ebuya evela nengane kummelwane.

Yiyiphi enye into echaphazela uphuhliso umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-11? izakhono ezitsha, kwakunye izinga yophuhliso ixhomekeke ekubeni akhawunti usapho usana lwakho - junior okanye abaphezulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abazalwana noodade abakhulileyo, abaphuhlisa ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba ngumzekelo phambi kwamehlo akhe. Kwakhona waphawula umahluko izinga lophuhliso phakathi amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana - kwiimeko ezininzi, amantombazana kwezinye iinkalo zobomi, akhule ngokukhawuleza.

Eli xesha - ixesha emangalisayo! Nandipha zonke umzuzu yale ebuntwaneni elimnandi usana lwakho, khumbula amazwi akhe funny, ukuthatha imifanekiso mathuba ezahlukeneyo, ukudlala kwaye wonwabe! Ezithembisayo uthando uya kumnceda umntwana wakho ukuba ukuphuhlisa kakuhle kwaye ngokukhawuleza.