Dream Ingcaciso: into amaphupho ikhaphetshu

Ngokutsho izazinzulu, ehlabathini akukho abantu abangenazo amaphupha. Enoba yintoni - umdla okanye hayi ephethe intsingiselo okanye ngumfanekiso zangaphambili kunye elizayo, kumnandi okanye amanwele - sonke sibone, kodwa hayi zonke khumbula. Uluntu kufuneka imvelaphi yalo kakhulu izama ukusombulula intsinda-badala imfihlelo amaphupha, yaye ngamnye iphupha zitolikwe ngokwahlukileyo.

A iphupha apho waphupha zekhaphetshu:

- encwadini iphupha abantwana yeyona yokufika imali;

- Dream Women Incwadi ithi ukuba khaphetshu ephupheni yenye abalinganiswa ezimbi iphambili amaphupha ethu. Ukubona izithembiso zakhe ukuthanda nobuqhophololo nokukrexeza. Ukucoca kuthetha ukuba host phupha ulungisa ishwangusha ezingamaphepha iinkcitho nekukudlala ngemali;

- ncwadi iphupha Aesop xa ephendula umbuzo oko waphupha ikhaphetshu, ngokusekelwe kwimiba zabantwana (... wena abayifumeneyo ikhaphetshu ...). Oko kukuthi, iibhedi amanzi zekhaphetshu yi sengqondo uyazehlisa ukuze abantwana babo, nabo bayayamkela kwaye azisayi kuqwalaselwa uluvo lwakho. Ukucanda ikhaphetshu igqabi kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufuneka ukudibanisa lonke igunya layo ukuthumela umntwana yakho ithi gca endleleni. Ukupheka ukutya kunye razdelyvanie intloko zekhaphetshu ephupheni apho waphupha zekhaphetshu, intsingiselo ukuphoxeka elizayo, umsunguli apho kuya kubakho imbewu yakho, amava akayi kuphela eyenu, kodwa umntwana, namava akhe aya kuba buhlungu kakhulu ngakumbi. Ukucanda izikhwebu kuthetha ukunciphisa utyekelo ezingalunganga kunye nemikhwa emibi komntwana wakho, kubalulekile - ngoko ke ukuphoswa mzuzu, lidlulile ixesha ukuyilungisa. Ulahla iifolokhwe ukulahlekelwa kuthetha yokuhlukana yokomoya umntwana kuwe, maninzi amathuba okuba uhlawula ingqalelo encinane kakhulu kuye; ngenxa yoko, umntwana ivaliwe yaye wamcenga ukuba uncedo kwabanye abantu.

- ABC of utoliko phupha uchaza imvelaphi amaphupha amabi, nto leyo ekhulisa emva kokuba umbuzo othi "yintoni amaphupha ikhaphetshu", kangangokuba le emifuno yaye imele yinkcitha xesha kunye nezityalo - ngokuqhelekileyo khangela lilize inyaniso. Kulo mbono intloko kuthetha inkathazo; bayidle - ukungabi imali kunye nexesha; ukubona khaphetshu egadini - iindwendwe ezingalindelekanga, iindaba;

- sonnik bili ezimhlophe uphendula umbuzo othi, yintoni amaphupho ikhaphetshu, kunye notoliko ezahlukeneyo amaphupha ukuze ezahlukeneyo ongazikhetha. Akhule kuyo okanye wokuvuna utyelelo kukuba umntu ndikukhuthalele ngenyameko ukubona; nekhaphetshu ephupheni kuthetha ukuba lixesha amathemba akhe, nangona enyanisweni, nantoni na ukuze abe nolulahlekisayo. Ukuba ubona uhlobo ongenako ikhaphetshu, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu onothando ekhangele phambili ekubeni kunye nawe, eli phupha ubiza umntu wakhangela ukhangela umhlobo osenyongweni. Ku khongela ikhaphetshu kwimarike kuthetha, utshintsho zovuyo olungalindelekanga, mhlawumbi - kungekudala ukubulisa umntu omthandayo. Abafazi, abaye utshatile kutshanje, ngokusekelwe ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo kufuneka uzilungiselele lokukhulelwa. Yitya ikhaphetshu - oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ukuhlangabezana ezingalindelekanga, kodwa njalo ukwamukela. Ingca yolwandle ephupheni uthetha nye, ngubani elide kakhulu mnandi nokufunyanwa wakho omthandayo. Coleslaw uthembisa ezingaqondakaliyo quick okanye inzuzo usenokwenzakala ezinxulumene izityhwentywe zemali. Marinating i khaphetshu ephupheni ekuphumezeni taare izithembiso phantse kulityalwa elide-emi umnqweno, na enokuthi yenzeke kwiveki yokuqala emva eli phupha.

Kaloku, emva kokuba zonke, yintoni amaphupho ikhaphetshu? Yintoni na khaphetshu ephupheni? Ngoko ke, ukuba waphupha zekhaphetshu, akuyomfuneko ukuba uvule eninzi iphupha-iincwadi ngoko nangoko uze ushwankathele yonke ingcaciso efunyenwe kubo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukukhumbula yonke indalo ubuthongo kwaye yonke imeko yaye kuphela emva kokuba uhlalutyo ngokucokisekileyo zonke iingongoma zizonke kunye iphupha umfanekiso kunayo nga ukwakha kwizigqibo kunye nokucingela ekhangela iimpendulo lo mbuzo: ". Yintoni amaphupho ikhaphetshu"