Imeko loluntu uphuhliso umntwana kokuya esikolweni nokuba elivisayo. Ingcinga, inkcazo kunye abalinganiswa of

Kuwo onke amanqanaba ubudala kukho kuphawu kuphela kwabo imeko lwentlalo zophuhliso. Le - iwonga ekuhlaleni komntwana ngamnye kule indlela yonxulumano eyamkelekileyo kuluntu. Yeyona imeko ekuhlaleni nophuhliso zijongwayo xa ugcwalisa ubomi bomntu luphawu olukhethekeliyo Umxholo:

• ulwalamano olukhethekileyo kunye nabantu nangoko zingqonge umntwana;
• phambili, ngqo le nqanaba nophuhliso lwemisebenzi (yomsebenzi, ukufunda umdlalo okanye ingxoxo).

Ngalinye ixesha yobudala luquka inkqubo ethile amalungelo kunandipha itakane, kunye nemisebenzi ukuba kufuneka enze njalo. Ngoko ke, imeko yentlalo lophuhliso - ayikho nje into engqondweni, ibe zabafaki olunzulu olusisiseko ukuyilwa umntwana. Ngokuba, ngenxa yakhe, ukuma ngokomgangatho entsha.

Njengoko iintlobo imixholo yazo? Oku ngokuqhutywa ngumdla kwakheka kwi isiseko amava ixesha elide zembali kuthathelwa ingqalelo iimfuno zoluntu mihla.

Nawuphi na umntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphuhliso ayo kunye nokulungela bafikelele kwiminyaka ethile iya kunikwa phantsi athatyathelwe indawo zoluntu. Ngaloo ndlela lungena inkqubo ngeemeko eziya kuqinisekisa uphuhliso yayo elizayo kunye nohlobo umsebenzi kweli phakade. Ngoko ke, lo mntwana lijongene byi; ke kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba athobele la magama okanye hayi. Kuphela kulo mzekelo uya kuba nako ukuva ngengqondo kwaye bekhululekile ngokweemvakalelo.

Ngenxa yoko, imeko bentlalo Uphawu uphuhliso indibanisela iimeko zangaphandle zangaphakathi iinkqubo ezendeleyo kuzo zonke izigaba ubudala.

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Ngenxa yokuzahlula ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokwasengqondweni umntwana eneminyaka abantu abathathu, kukho ezifuneka ezithile ngenxa yokuba kukho uphuhliso olutsha imeko loluntu eyodwa. Itakane ngoku okwesihlandlo sokuqala ukuya ngaphaya usapho lwabo nokuseka umgangatho entsha kolunxulumano kwindawo nabanye abantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Kutheni kuyimfuneko?

Umntwana uzama 'ukungena' ehlabathini abadala, ukucamanga kwabo abathwali iindima zentlalo. Kungenxa yoko le nto olukhula ngokukhawuleza kwisifundo-nxaxheba-ukudlala imidlalo kunye nabanye abantwana zezihange, ugqirha, umqhubi, ugqirha, njalo-njalo. Abakwisikolo sabantwana ebalulekileyo "ngenisa" ehlabathini abadala, ngoko ke "ngumzekelo" kuba uphuhliso enkulu engqondweni.

Imeko bentlalo elivisayo unengxaki eyahlukileyo kancinane. Le yobudala sisiseko inguqu ukusuka ebuntwaneni ebomini uxanduva ezizimeleyo. Ngoko ke, i indawo "eliphakathi" ngolo hlobo istampu ebalulekileyo ekuhambeni eli thuba.

Okokuqala, qala utshintsho ezisisiseko yokwakheka kunye nokomzimba. Kwiminyaka nje embalwa, umzimba umntwana uba umntu omdala, kunye nendima ethile lophuhliso ngokwesondo.

Okwesibini, kwinqanaba eyahlukileyo ulwalamano amiliswe noontanga kunye nabantu abadala. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi leendibano kunye nosapho, kuba ngokwenyama nangokomoya ubomi imenza ukuba ihlabathi ngaphandle. indawo yokuqala ngoku esiyi ubuhlobo kunye noontanga, ezo izinto ezifanayo. Zakhiwa ngamatsha kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwaye nobunzima kakhulu, njengoko benehlombe imisebenzi ezimanyeneyo kunye nemixholo abasondeleyo kubo abakwishumi elivisayo. Ngokweemvakalelo karhulumente ukhululekile umiselwa ukuba okanye hayi idityanisiwe naliphi iqela koontanga.

Ngoko ke, ukuqinisekisa uphuhliso ngokupheleleyo umntwana, kufuneka unikeze kuye "efanele" imeko lwentlalo yophuhliso.