Ndiyamangala ukuba kutheni abantu kukhala?

Kuba abantu abaninzi ukulila - into yendalo. Thina kwasekuzalweni bayakwazi ukulila ngokuvakalayo. Ngoko ke, ngokutsho kweengcali, inkqubo wabonisa ngokukhethwa zendalo. Phezu ekhala umntwana kanina nje ayikwazi ukunceda, kodwa saziso. Ukukwazi ukuphalaza iinyembezi kwabonakala abantwana abaneminyaka kwiiveki 4-6, oko kukuthi, umntu efunda ukulila phambi ehlekisayo. Ngelo xesha nye - izidalwa kuphela ekwaziyo ngabom ke ayikrazukanga. Kuba izilwanyana kuba nje inkqubo reflex. Kutheni ukhale abantu?

Nature isinike zizelwe ngokukhawuleza nangokukhuselekileyo ekucoceni phezu iliso ekungcolisweni, ingxolo okanye intlungu. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba wazi ukuba kutheni abantu bayalila kungekho sizathu, kungcono ukucacisa ukuba abazange bayifumane isibi emehlweni - ngamanye amaxesha isizathu ezaneleyo iinyembezi enogonyamelo. Kodwa ikwasithi kakhulu isilwanyana - ukucoca amehlo ukuze kukhala phantse zonke ezinegazi elishushu izidalwa.

Impendulo ngqo umbuzo kutheni umntu ezizibikayo, ukususela kwinqanaba umbono bona inzululwazi psychophysiological ungakwazi ukunika. Eziphilayo W. Frey kuqhutywa uphando apho kutyhilwa ubudlelwane phakathi "stressogonnostyu 'iinyembezi yaye isixa iiprothini ukwakhiwa kwawo. Kwathi kanti loo ndoda inamandla wadanduluka ukusuka uxinezeleko, kokukhona isixa-protein equlethwe kulwelo yayo iinyembezi. Kutheni le ndlela wakhawulwa ngokwemvelo, ISAZINZULU nako ukuphendula, kodwa bacebisa ukuba eqwenga umzimba ubonisa ezinye izinto ezingafunekiyo, yaye sidala uxinezeleko.

Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo siyazi kutheni abantu kukhala, ukususela kwinqanaba umbono bengqondo, - iinyembezi zezona ndlela isebenzayo ukuze bawubuyise ubunzima liyenyuka balahle umphefumlo izinto ezimanyumnyezi. Ngoko ke, ngasendleleni, kukho amaninzi luphawulwa abafazi tearfulness njengokuba inkqubo bhetyebhetye and sensitive kakhulu. Hi ndlela leyi, njengoko uphando zizazinzulu Dutch, uthando mkhulu ngokuba "kwimeko ezimanzi" yahluke besini ngobulungisa eChile - Abazibiki kaninzi ngaphezu nabanye abafazi zehlabathi. Bona elandelwa yaseMelika, abafazi Turkish ngokwabo Dutch. Ke amadoda la iinkokeli iinyembezi inxalenye kukho abameli yesizwe American, kodwa Chinese ingakhalanga konke konke.

Enye ingcebiso malunga kutheni abantu kukhala, ukwabelana amaSirayeli. Ngokutsho izazinzulu apho bume iinyembezi umqondiso, ngokwengqondo kunye ngokwenyama yomntu ngalo mzuzu ezingafakwanga ngamandla, nto leyo ithetha ukuba sesichengeni. Kuthekani ukuba abantu bekhala? Injalo loo nto, ukuyithethelela. Xa ukwamkelwa ngulo mbono uthi xa umntwana okhalayo kusungula umnqweno reflex ukukhusela kwaye balondoloze kuyo yonke embi evela kubazali bakhe abadala kuphela.

Kodwa ngokubanzi, nantoni na isizathu sokuba iinyembezi, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba - lusisixhobo eluncedo lokuphelisa umzimba obugqithisileyo, nokuba a eyewinker elula okanye imfumba lonke iingxaki ezicinezelayo. Ngoko ke kukhala kakhulu elihlazo, kuba ngale ndlela nje balahle bazo emzimbeni lwabo - ngokomzimba okanye ngokomoya.