Imisebenzi abantwana entsatsheni

Ukuba umntwana kufuneka enze imisebenzi yasekhaya, akubangeli impikiswano ngabazali. Kodwa iimbono malunga nto afanele ukuba yiyo, ukuphikisana ezininzi wabalaselisa. Abanye abazali owonithemba amatyala umntwana ezibandakanya kwakhe izidingo: ekucoceni emva into yokudlala kunye nezinto ukugcina izinto zabo zicocekile. Abanye bafuna luxanduva abantwana aba imisebenzi eqhelekileyo yentsapho, nto leyo eyayiza kujolisa ekuncedeni utata okanye umama. Alithandabuzeki elokuba, unika uxanduva umntwana, kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo kwiimpawu ubudala nobuchule bakhe.

Ukuba abazali abakwazi nombono imisebenzi yabantwana entsatsheni, akuthandeki ukuba ziya esebenza yonke imihla.

Wenza ntoni na?

Abazali abaninzi lo mbuzo limnqakathi. Kodwa ke sisihloko entsonkothileyo kakhulu. Ezi ndlela zilandelayo kunokwenzeka:

• Kuzo zonke usapho kufuneka kubekho umsebenzi abantwana, umntwana ibihlaba ukusebenza nzima yaye ichaneke. Kunye nesimo sengqondo esinjalo kwimisebenzi ukuba senziwa similise isenzo nje, ezixabisekileyo ngokwayo yaye akanalo orientation practical. Ukuba ukunyanzela wangaphandle uya kutshitsha, ityala elo liya ukwenziwa.
• Ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya Ufundisa umntwana ukucwangcisa, emncedayo uzibekela usukelo, ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezithile ukukunceda ufikelele kwezi njongo. Kamva, umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba izinto wazibeka, ukonga ixesha awayeza kusetyenziselwa uphendlo lwabo.
• Uxanduva bafundisa abantwana ukuba babale imikhosi yazo. Okokuqala, abadala ukuyibiza sentlalo umntwana ntoni. Ukuba ufuna ukufaka ukuze umntwana, kufuneka umsebenzi ezimbaxa zibe yayo eziliqela. Umzekelo, ukuba buyisela umatshini ukuqokelela iityhubhu, iincwadi zibekwe, njl
• Wasekhaya ufundisa umntwana self-discipline. Ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya abantwana bafunda ukwakha yokusebenza isimo sabo. Oku a hlela kakhulu.
• Ukuba eyethu imithwalo kunceda ukucacisa ukuba umntwana ukuba i ilungu ebalulekileyo entsatsheni, njengoko kuzisa ekukwazini ukuphila nemalanana.
• Ukuganga up on yasekhaya, umntwana ufunda ukuqonda ubomi njengento yenkqubo yamanyathelo ohlukileyo athatyathiweyo.

Imisebenzi umntwana: ukuphathisa njani igunya?

Kwakhona isimo sakho ukuba imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ukuba umntwana uvakalelwa ukuba umama ongathanda ukuba bakhuphe inkunkuma, kufuneka asinakulindela ukuba ngothakazelelo. Kuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kwalo msebenzi eya kusapho. Bekuya kuba mnandi ukwazisa izinto yomdlalo: indlela uya kukhangela tyaba, ukuba iiveki ezimbini, bakhuphe inkunkuma, kwaye xa iinyanga ezintandathu?

Amaxesha amaninzi kufuneka ukubulela umntwana, ukugxininisa ukubaluleka yonke into ayenzayo ukuze intsapho.

Sebenzisa obu buchule bulandelayo abantwana noxanduva babe namava umdla:

1. Cela umntwana ukuba ukuswitsha athile iindima kunye namanye amalungu entsapho. Myeke simazi nezinye iintlobo, lunzima kakhulu lomsebenzi.
2. Vumela umntwana ukuthenga ukukhetha indlela lula wasekhaya. Ukuba oko kubalele ahlambe izinto zabo okanye uhlambe izitya, amnike imali ukuthenga emigutyeni zokucoca okanye ulwelo.
3. Yenza i element ubuchule kumsebenzi wasekhaya. Oku kunokuba salads rhoqo yokupheka. Nika umntwana zokupheka sewulungile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye bakhuthaza imifuniselo okupheka ezizimeleyo.

Kubalulekile ukuba isigqibo ubona imisebenzi abantwana kubazali. Ukuze wenze oku kufuneka ukwakha inkqubo yokusebenza ithatyathwa iinjongo ngokupheleleyo, ngokudibanisa ezahlukeneyo kule nkqubo emsebenzini. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala malunga ngumzekelo kwaye ube nomonde.