Kuthekani ukuba nantoni abafuni?

Ngenxa yokuba kukho iintsuku xa awufuni nto? Akukho umnqweno ukuya emsebenzini, ukwenza ucwangciso ebonakala imisebenzi ... nokuba ungaxoxa nabahlobo bakho - musa awufuni yaye loo nto! Noko ke, kule imeko, nto ayimangalisi, kuba abantu - yinkqubo entsonkothileyo biosocial, apho kuthi yonke imihla amawaka zombini nokomzimba nangokwasengqondweni.

Ewe, eyoyikekayo kuso nangona nto, ukuba bacinge ukuba kutheni na le nto ufuna ukuyenza, kuluncedo. Umzekelo, kusasa losuku lweveki, xa kufuneka uvuke ekuseni ukuya emsebenzini, ebangela iimvakalelo zakho ezimbi. Kuwe ngentliziyo yam yonke ekhalazela, kodwa bamthuthuzela wumbi into efana: ". Ewe Yiza, bonke ukuze" Kwaye ujika ube engalunganga ngokuncamisayo. Isibakala sokuba awunalo akukho umnqweno baye emsebenzini uye umsebenzi akathandwa. Ngoko ke, ukuba balahle imeko odandathekileyo ezinxulumene neengcinga ezinjalo, umsebenzi kufuneka itshintshwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana a kuwe waphupha ukuba umntu, kulungile? Amaphupha Ezaliseka awuze kakhulu emva kwexesha. Kwaye ukuba imivuzo uya kuba ngaphantsi: akukho mali iya kuthelekiswa imvakalelo wanelisekile ukuba umntu ufumana, ukwenza izinto ozithandayo.

Ukuba bin okanye intaba izitya ekhitshini belinde kwamaphiko ixesha elide, njengoko uhambe ngenyameko malunga kwicala kwigumbi, ekhangela kuphela ngenjongo ukufumana ukutya efrijini, kuba ayikho - ubuvila kakhulu esiqhelekileyo, kungekhona ukuphazamiseka engqondweni phantse akunanto yakwenza. Kujongana nayo, nani kuphela ngumnini: kutsalela iingcebiso kulo mzekelo, njengoko umthetho, i ziphumo zinqwenelekayo angenako.

Okanye mhlawumbi awufuni nto yokuba bayaqotywa? Kungenzeka, emva kweeyure kosuku matimba lwela ku "ukuphumla" kwi ibandla TV okanye Internet. Kwidabi lokulwa "nichegonehoteniem" abazange ukunceda, kodwa ngokuchasene: wawandisa amandla kutshanje kunye namandla. Ngoko ke, nokuba ukuba ngaba uziva ngathi ekupheleni kosuku, zama ukuhamba yedwa. Kwakhona amalungiselelo run enkulu. Akukho mfuneko emva kweeyure elide yomsebenzi kokuphindaphinda ukuphulaphula umculo umdlali, okanye ufunde incwadi (nangona ukufunda ngokuqinisekileyo into elungileyo kwaye kumnandi - kanye ngexesha eyahlukileyo).

Kodwa yintoni ubuxoki emva ukuthingaza yokunxibelelana nabahlobo bakho? Kukho kungaba ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, ngamnye kuthi yinqobo okwethutyana ngokungathi zibuyela ngokwabo. Neencoko nabantu kwi lixesha efanayo benesithukuthezi. Oku eqhelekileyo, enoba - qavashe. Ukuba kunokwenzeka - ndisoyika, ukuxhala yaye ngakumbi ngoko, kulungile. Kuba abantu inkalo engqondweni yonxibelelwano ntonje ndingenza umsebenzi obhadlileyo. Abanye nimmangalele introverts kukuba ngokupheleleyo abafuni kananjalo ukuba basebenzisane kunye neqela okanye inxaxheba kwiziganeko ezinkulu-isikali, kwaye ngokubanzi - ukukhokela yokuphila asebenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mfuneko ukungqina nantoni na: nawe kanye njengoko wena, kodwa ngenxa yokuba kukhokela yokuphila ebonakala kuwe kakhulu ukhululekile.

Ezinye iingcali zithi, ukuba ngaba uziva ngathi uze uliphulaphule umzimba wakho; nje ukubambelela kwaye wenze nto. Vumela igumbi cwaka, kwaye ahlale esitulweni uze ujonge ngenqaku elinye. Isiphumo Kungekudala ukuba alinde: kwemizuzu 10 ukuba uyoyika ufuna ukwenza into ethile.

Enyanisweni, nkqu namdla, okuhlala ngaphezu kweveki, kufuneka kubangela inkxalabo. Xa kunjalo, ukuba awufuni ukuba ubuncinane kwinyanga enye, kungcono ukuba bafune uncedo isayikholojisti, kuba yintoni na urhulumente nga libe ukudandatheka, ngaphandle apho ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu.