Zempilo, Iphupha
Kutheni umntu ekhuluma ephupheni
Umbuzo othi "kutheni umntu uthetha ephupheni" unokuphendulwa ngelizwi elinye - kukungathandabuzeki. Olunye igama liyingxaki yombingelelo. Esi simboko siyaziwa ngabantu ixesha elide, kodwa kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba namhlanje izazinzulu azizange zinikeze inkcazo yale ngxaki. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba indawo yokuthetha ephupheni ilifa. Kwaye inxulumene nokulala. Kule nkalo, ngokweengcali zenzululwazi, abaninzi abantu bahlupheka. Kwaye oku kuyingqayizivele, kuba i-5 ekhulwini kuphela yabantu abahlala emhlabeni bangathetha ephupheni.
Ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba abantwana abancinci bayakwazi ukuthetha kwiphupha. Abazali akufuneki bakhathazeke, kuba ukuba umntwana olele uthetha, kunceda ukuyiqhelanisa nehlabathi langaphandle. Ingqondo yengane ibuthakathaka kunokuba ngumntu omdala, kwaye nayiphi na isiganeko singenza ukuba abe namava. Umntwana uthetha ephupheni phantsi kwefuthe leemvakalelo ezintsha kunye nokubonakala. Kodwa ukuba le nxalenye ihamba kunye neendlongo zobusuku, ngoko sele kulungele ukukhathazeka.
Xa umntu ekhuluma ephupheni - ngokuqhelekileyo akayikhumbuli le nto. Intetho yakhe inokukhubaza okanye isicacisa, ayikho illegible okanye i-vulgar. Kungaba ukukhala okanye ukuhleka, njengengxoxo kunye nomntu okanye incoko kunye nawe.
Ukuphazamiseka kwesigaba sokulala nokuphazamiseka ebusuku kubangelwa izizathu eziphambili zezinto ezinjalo ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Abanye abantu banzima kakhulu ukuvuka xa bethetha, baqala ukukhaba nokujika. Ngokweengqondo zengqondo, ukuziphatha kakubi ngexesha lephupha kukubonakalisa umlingiswa womntu ebomini. Abo abo baqhelekileyo banobukhohlakele ngokwaneleyo. Ewe, banqanda ubudlova emini, kodwa ebusuku bahlala bekhululekile kwizinga elincinci.
Kutheni umntu ekhuluma ephupheni? Oku kuya kwenzeka ngenxa yemichiza, umkhuhlane, ukuxhomekeka kweziyobisi, ukugula kwengqondo okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi.
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