Ngaba waphupha ukuba ubambe i-fishfish ngexesha uloba? Fumana ukuba kukuphi ukuloba.

Kukho nawuphi na incwadi yokuphupha, ungayifumana impendulo kumbuzo othi "Yintoni ekuloba ngayo?". Into ephambili kukuchazela ngokuchanekileyo nokusebenzisa le ncwadi okanye le ndoda yephupha, oku okanye ukubaluleka kokulala ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yangoku yobomi.

Intsapho, i-gypsy okanye i-dream dream book

Ukuba uthatha incwadi yephupha yentsapho, ke unikwe amandla amakhulu xa ugcina inkqubo yokubamba inhlanzi. Sibone inetha lokuloba - unokuhamba ngokuthenga ngokukhuselekileyo, into eyona nto kukuba ephupheni inethiwekhi iyonke. Ukuba uphupha umnatha oqhekekileyo, ngoko kwenzeka ukuba ukuthengwa akuyi kufezekisa okulindelekileyo. Ukuyeka ukuloba ngaphandle kokubambisa kuthetha ukuba izicelo zakho, izifiso kunye namaphupha zinomdla. Ukufunyanwa kweentlanzi ephupheni kumalisela uvavanyo olunzulu, oluya kuthi lugqithiselwe xa kwenzeka ukugcina isimo esaneleyo kunye noxolo. Iikhonkco zokudoba ziyisikhumbuzo sokuba wena ngokwakho ungumdali wekamva lakho.

Intombazana eye yabona intlanzi ephilayo ephupheni ingakwazi ukufumana ubungqina obunzulu ngesibindi, uthando luthembisa ukuba uyavuya. Ngendlela, ukuchazwa okufanayo kwincwadi yencwadi yamabhinqa. Intlanzi ephilayo-enokuphila, efile-ekufeni kunye nentlungu.

Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha yaseRom, intlanzi ebanjwe ithembisa isifo kumntu obathandayo. Ukutya iintlanzi kwiphupha kuthetha ukugula. Kwaye nje intlanzi ejikelezayo, njengencwadi yencwadana yephupha, ukuphumelela kunye novuyo.

Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha yasempumalanga kwintombazana, ukuloba ephupheni kunokuthetha ukuba umama okhawuleza, ngakumbi ukuba kukho ukubanjwa. Ukuba intombazana ephupheni ilahlekile intlanzi, ngoko ngokukhulelwa akukafaneki kulindeleke.

Ukuloba i-Freud

Ukujonga ebhokisini lephupha likaFreud (nalo libizwa ngokuba yi-dream dream book), omnye unokukwazi ukuchazela iphupha. Ukubamba iintlanzi kwaye ungaboni nto ithetha ukuba uloyiko lomntu luhlazole embhedeni. Ngokukodwa oku kusebenza kulabo bantu abaye bafumana umzamo owehlukileyo kwimeko yokuqala yobudlelwane bezesondo. Indoda ebamba intlanzi ephupheni, inelisekile kwiintlobano zesini kuqala kwaye, ngokubanzi, ayinandaba nokuba iqabane lakhe livakalelwa njani ngexesha lesini. UFrud, ngendlela yakhe, uchaza kwaye uyazibophelela kuphi na amaphupha okuloba ngobomi bokwenene. Ukuloba ephupheni kuthetha ukungakwazi komntu ukunqumla kwiingxaki zemihla ngemihla ngexesha lolwalamano. Ngenxa yoko, ukungakwazi ukuphumla nokuzonwabisa, kunye nokungakwazi ukukholisa iqabane. Kwiphupha elinjalo kufuneka uhlawule ngokukhawuleza, kuba le ntsimbi yokuqala ayinokuba ngumntu ongalungileyo kwiintlobano zesini, kodwa unokuphazamisa impilo yakho.

Kodwa liphi iphupha ngokuloba kwincwadi yokuphupha i-erotic inentsingiselo eyahlukileyo. Ulwalamano oluhle nolusondeleyo, kunye nalabo ophuphayo, lubonisa intlanzi ejikelezayo ngamanzi acacileyo. Ukuba intlanzi ibhukuda emanzini amdaka, ngoko umlingani wesini, ofanelwe wena, akayi kuhlangana ngokukhawuleza. Yona inkqubo yokubamba iintlanzi ephupheni ithetha ngesingeniso esiseduze sokuthi "isandla kunye nentliziyo".

I-Herring, i-salmon okanye i-goldfish?

Ukutolika okokuphupha kwamaphupha okuloba, usenokuqwalasela intlanzi ebonwe kwiphupha.

Umzekelo, i-salmon ukufezekisa ukwaneliseka. Ukuba intombazana engatshatanga iphupha, indlela edla ngayo i-salmon, ngoko oku kusemtshatweni ophumelelayo, onoyolo kwaye ongenamdla.

Sazibona i-herring ephusheni-silindele iingxaki zemali kwaye silungiselela ukuchitha amandla amaninzi ukuzixazulula, ekugqibeleni yonke into iza kusombululwa ngokukhuselekileyo. Thatha unyango kwi-herring - ngoko uya kukhohliswa, ziphathwe-yenza isenzo esingathembekiyo.

Ukuba uyalunywa yipike ngomunwe, kufuneka uqaphele. Kodwa ukuba kukho ipayipi ephekiweyo etafileni, ngoko akufanele ukwesaba iingxaki kunye neengxaki, zikugqitha nje. Kwaye uFrud ubamba i-pike ngohambo lokuloba ukuze adibane nomhlobo omdala oza kukumangazela ngeenguqu ezenzeke naye.

Inkathazo ephupha ngokuphila kakuhle nokukhula. Into eyona nto kukuba intlanzi ayifuni kwi-hook ephupheni, kodwa ulonwabo aluyi kuhlala ixesha elide. Ukutya i-trout ephusheni - kwiindaba ezilungileyo.

I-Goldfish ephupheni ithembisa i-adventure enhle kwaye engabalekiyo, kwaye intombazana encinci ithetha umtshato ngobuninzi kunye nomhlobo wokubonakalisa okubonakalayo.