Ngubani oqalayo? Intetho, iifoto, imizekelo

Namhlanje, makhe sixoxe malunga nokuba ngubani oqaqambileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, igama lisendleleni namhlanje. Ngoko abantu babizwa ngokuba baziphatha ngendlela ethile. Ingqungquthela yokuqulunqa iya kubhidliza xa siqala ukuhlalutya.

Nentsingiselo

"Inkwenkwezi" ligama eliyinkimbinkimbi, njengomzekelo, "ugqirha oyintloko". Ukuba isetyenziswe ngokugcwele, ngoko, siyaxolisa, sifumana ibinzana - "i-old fart". Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu ababizwa ngokuba yingozi ngabantu abadala. Kodwa akunjalo. Ngokomzekelo, banokuthetha ngabantu abadala asebekhulile, ngokutsho kwabanye, abakhuthele kakhulu kwintlalo yoluntu okanye ngokwesini. Ngubani oqalayo? Nguyena ongenanto ukuhambelana nemibono yolu luntu olubizwa ngokuba ngumdala. Ngokomzekelo, umntu omdala ushada nomfazi omncinci nomhle, enokuba ngamathuba angama-99% aya kufumana kubantu abalinganiswa nomlinganiselo wokugxekwa ngesimo sencazelo ecacileyo, esiyiqwalaselayo.

Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba imisebenzi yentlalo yabantu abadala kakhulu, ithi, amashumi anesithandathu, iphinda iqondwe luluntu njengento enenzondelelo. Akufuneki ukuthetha, abantu abangaphezu kwe-45 banokuzijonga njengabo bashicilelwe ekusasazeni, kuba zonke izivakalisi zomsebenzi zithi: "Musa ukudala kunama-45". Ukuba umntu akanethamsanqa, kwaye wayesitratweni ngo-46, kwaye akananto akwenzayo kunye ne-intelligentsia yokudala, ngoko ke isigqibo sakhe singumsebenzi ongaqhelekanga okanye ubomi ngenxa yeenzuzo zengqesho. Kuthekani ngabo bachitha ixesha elide kwihlabathi, iminyaka eyi-15 edlulileyo? Ngaba bonke aba bantu banokuzijonga njengento engcolileyo? Ngokusekelwe kulo mbandela, kunokwenzeka ukuba uphendule umbuzo othi ngubani okhwelwe yinkwenkwezi, ngale ndlela ilandelayo: "Nguye oneminyaka engaphezu kwe-45". Ufuna ukuhleka, kodwa ufuna ukukhala, kodwa ukuba ufunda iintengiso, kuvela ukuba oku akusiyo intloni, ubuncinane eRashiya.

I-Starpperstvo yimeko yengqondo

Emva koko, yintoni enye endiyithethayo. Uluntu, okanye kunoko abantu abahlala kulo, baneengcamango ezikhethekileyo kungekudala kuphela, kodwa nangobutsha. Kwaye abantu abatsha, abaziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba bebaneminyaka yabo, bajongwa njengabadala. Ngokomzekelo, umfana, uthi, uneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, ulahla oontanga abaselayo, abomsi kunye nokuziphatha ukubola, kunye ne-99% iya kuthiwa yi-starter.

Kodwa kukho ubuqili. Ukuba indawo "yindoda endala" iyindlela enobuzenzisi, ngoko ke, igama lesidlaliso lilungile, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo indawo ejikelezileyo yendlela ayifuni, oko kukuthi, bonke bayabizwa ngokufanayo, ngokubhekiselele kulowo mntu uthethayo, ngokukodwa ngokungabonakali kwisishukumiso sakhe sangaphakathi. Ukubeka nje, musa ukubuza isizathu sokuba acinge njalo, kwaye kungenjalo. Ngoku kuyacaca ukuba umbuzo othi ngubani ongokoyihlo, ongeyinto elula njengoko kubonakala ekuqaleni. Ubudala kule meko yiparameter yesibini ephambili. Into ephambili kukuhlangabezana nokulindela kwabanye.

Uluntu "ulutsha" alufuni ukwazi nantoni malunga nobudala

Siye saqaphela indlela enobungqungquthela kuyo yonke indawo kunye nendawo yonke "indawo yokuphila esebenzayo", "indlela yokuphila enempilo" kunye nezinye iinkalo zobuninzi obunomdla ziyafakwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo abantu abafuni ukuhlupheka, cinga ngeentlungu, ukuguga kunye nezinye iingxaki. Kutheni? Kwaye ngokukhawuleza abo basemhlabeni baya kuphila ngonaphakade, kuba kungenzeka ukuba ihlala ikhona. Sifakela umfanekiso we "starpers", oye wenziwa ngokoqobo ngezinto eziphilayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, namhlanje akuyiyo imfashini ukuguga, kufuneka uhlale usemtsha ngokude kunokwenzeka. Izinkanyezi zethu ezithandwa kakhulu zineenkwenkwezi zize zithathe i-vaccinate ngokubhekiselele kwiminyaka yabo yezinto eziphilayo. Kodwa ukuguga kunokuba ngumhle okanye umdlalo. Nangona kunjalo, iyeza lenza konke okusemandleni ukucima imilinganiselo yexesha ebusweni nasemzimbeni womntu. Kukho ingxaki enye kule nto: imisebenzi ayisoloko iphumelele.

Ekugqibeleni, yinto enye kuphela: ukuguga akufanele ukwesatshwe, kuba akunakwenzeka, kwaye oku kusemgangathweni.