Ukususela umntwana kubantwana olujongene phantse bonke abazali. Abaninzi kubo ngamanye amaxesha lahlekelwa umonde kunye ngokugqibeleleyo Andazi ukuba abe kule meko. Yiyo loo nto, uze ubuze imibuzo malunga ukuba benze ntoni xa hysterics umntwana. Makhe uphando.
Umntwana Wakho Enomsindo badla ngokuqala kubantwana abaneminyaka 1.5-2. I-kid izolo nje wayeyingelosi ethandekayo, iba andwebileyo neenkani, ezinako ukukulumkisela abazali babo kwesiphazamiso. Kuyinto elungileyo, ukuba kuthi ukuba ukuziphatha umntwana ebonisa akusoloko. Amaxesha amaninzi Enomsindo kubantwana kwavusa ngenxa yempilo enkenenkene, ukudinwa, sindisa ngokweemvakalelo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ogulayo, unako uyacaphuka nje ngaphandle emsi, ngelixa zikarhulumente eziqhelekileyo, oko baphazanyiswe lula okanye yokutshintshela into enye. Ngoko ke, musa ukugcina itakane udiniwe, ulambile okanye pribolevshy ukuya evenkileni (eposini, njalo njalo. D.). Kwakhona kubalulekile kakhulu ukuba zabelana iimvakalelo kunye namava, nkqu kakhulu ezintle. Ukuba udweliso lwenkqubo zokuzonwabisa iya phezu-ifumile (umzekelo, imidlalo yonopopi, kwaye ke uhambo kumyezo wezilwanyana okanye kusonwabisa), encane ekugqibeleni ukuqala ukwenza up nje imvakalelo, ukuba ngqo - ukusuka ukudinwa ngokweemvakalelo.
rhoqo umntwana ebantwaneni kwenzeka kwiindawo zoluntu ezifana iivenkile, izithuthi zikawonke-wonke. Kulo mzekelo, abazali amaxesha ngakumbi nzima, kuba kuxhomekeke kugwetywa ngayo kwabanye. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kule meko - yehla, ayeke ukuba bakope baze singanikeli ngqalelo ukuba baze abantu abadlulayo, bayacetyiswa ukuba usana ezingalweni zakhe, ukuba anike upopu okanye ukuthenga umatshini umntwana engonwabanga. Kungcono ukuba (ukuzisa) umntwana esitratweni kwaye bamnike ithuba lokuba kuphila. Noko ke, abathethise kwakhe kule meko nje nantsingiselo, kuba ekuqaleni kufuneka ukuba uphumze usana lwakho.
Umntwana Wakho Enomsindo kubantwana - nto nje iinyembezi kunye imikhwazo. kids ezininzi umyalelo ogqwesileyo ubuchule kwi ceca emgangathweni, ukuwa enga iyagqabhuka iinyawo zabo, ungakhohlwa iivoti. Ezinye Tots ukuya phambili kulwa emgangathweni okanye intloko eludongeni, ukutsala iinwele, ukukrwela ubuso bakhe, yaye ityala nokugabha (le yokugqibela, ngethamsanqa, kunqabile). Ngamanye amaxesha iintsana zikhala ngexesha sakujika okwesibhakabhaka. Enyanisweni, umntwana usenokuqalisa ebantwaneni - isenzeko Kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuba kwenzeka rhoqo kakhulu kwaye kungekho nasiphi na isizathu, ekhatshwa naziphi na iimpawu ezothusayo, kufuneka ubonise kwiimvuthuluka luvo abanobuchule.
Ukuba umntwana hysterics abazali ntoni? Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, indawo yokuqala kufuneka ukwehlisa umoya, khumbula ukuba udlule phantse kuzo zonke Tots. Okwesibini, oko kuyimfuneko ukuze bazisunduze ithuba kwiimvuthuluka badlale kuluntu (kuhle kungcono wuyeke ukuba, Kakade ke, kunokwenzeka). Ngenxa ukweyisela kule meko phantse namandla, umntwana nje abaziva. Kwaye sele emva kokuba usana luthoba phantsi, uthi kuye meko, ukuhlalutya indlela yayo, nokuveza iimvakalelo zakhe ( "uziva ukhathazekile ngenxa yokuba asizange athenge imoto"), kwaye uchaze ukuba umboniso enjalo imvakalelo akwamkelekanga ( "enoba uye kabi ememeza esitratweni akufuneki "). Unakho amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze udlale imifanekiso ngoncedo ozithandayo zokudlala nosana, kwakhona kwaye kwakhona nangokuvakalisa imeko kwaye bembonisa indlela abe kwimeko ethile (elungileyo nengalunganga).
Umntwana Wakho Enomsindo yabantwana bazame ukunqanda. Xa mixture liqalisa ukwenza phezulu, kuyimfuneko ukuba batshintshe ukwenza naziphi na izenzo ( "khangela oko beetle", "undikhuphe pack juice"). Abanye abantwana ukunceda cuddles kunye "schekotalki" ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kwakhona, musa kusoloko ukuya yomgaqo - ngamanye amaxesha umntwana unako ukunika indlela nokuthengela imoto kakhulu kakubi-lombutho, kodwa kuphela xa nodlame sele alikafiki iqalile. Ukuba itakane sele wangena ngumsindo, nokuzifica ukwenza kamva, okanye uyaqonda ukuba iinyembezi kunye Ukumemeza ngaba ngokwenene ukuphumeza lukhulu. Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile ukuba imigaqo-nkqubo onke amalungu entsapho baba efanayo. A imeko apho unina akaphenduli isikhalo, kwaye utata wam abambise enze nantoni na ofuna umntwana othandwayo, nako ukwenza azifune ngetshova ngendlela eqhelekileyo yokuntlokothiswa kwaye nsinya kubo elide kakhulu.