Stockholm syndrome ekhaya

Kwabonakala Ingqiqo "Stockholm Syndrome" ngo-1973 emva kokukhutshwa qela nabafo abazizibambiso, elalithinjwe abanqolobi ebhankini. Eli gama libhekisela inkangeleko nexhoba kunye umhlaseli ubudlelwane obuhle ngokweemvakalelo. Le nto yenzeka e Stockholm xa ibanjwa wayesakuba iintsuku ezintathu eyayibanjelwe ebhankini ukwakha bambalwa abantu. Emva kokuba kukhululwe nabafo beza ukuziphendulela mthetho. Ngokutsho kwabo, boyika amapolisa ngaphezu izenzo kwabanqolobi.

Stockholm syndrome ngoku uthathwa ukuba babe luncedo kakhulu kwiimeko ezinxulumene ne ukukhululwa nabafo. Ukuba phakathi kwabantu abo zafakwa kunye nezaphuli ukuseka ubudlelwane efudumeleyo ngokweemvakalelo, amabanjwa ziya kuba kusenokwenzeka ubuncinane ukwenza iintshukumo krwada kwaye ukwazi ukuphepha nengqumbo terrorist. Ngelo xesha umoni elifanayo kuya kuba nzima ukuba ukumenzakalisa okanye ukubulala umntu, ukuba lowo ilungile.

Kunokuthiwa ukuba amapolisa ehlabathini lonke yamkele lokusekwa syndrome phakathi abductor kunye nexhoba.

Stockholm Syndrome kungenzeka iintsuku 3-4 emva bathinjwa-nokuthatha. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka, ukuba umgrogrisi alubonisi ndlongo ityala ngokungeyomfuneko, kodwa kunoko, ukuzama ukuzithethelela yokuziphatha yakhe phambi amabanjwa. Kulo mzekelo, nabafo nako ukuphichotha indawo yabo ibe lidini eyimfuneko ngenxa entle.

Ngokutsho bengqondo, Stockholm syndrome ayilo ngezifo, kwaye eqhelekileyo kwengqondo basabela kukuzikhusela kule kwiimeko kakhulu. Ndiyila umbono omuhle malunga abagrogrisi, abantu bazive ngcono abathinjwa elide.

Le mbono, nto leyo nelithi elithi "bathinjwa syndrome" yagcina lisetyenziswa ukuchaza iimeko ezibandakanya isini ubundlobongela kwiintsapho. It is a umbuzo ukuba abafazi abaninzi iyayilwa umyeni wakhe kuqhubeka ukuhlala naye, kwaye sigcina imbonakalo eziqhelekileyo.

It is a umbuzo ukuba abafazi abaninzi ukubetha amadoda abo, hlalani nabo, kwaye sigcina imbonakalo eziqhelekileyo.

Abasetyhini ndingemkanga ukusuka amadoda abo babeka ukuba ihlazo kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngenxa iindlela ezithile ezibonakalisa indlela yokuziphatha kwixhoba. Kwaye, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, ebizwa ngokuba yi-bafunda azilutho. Oku kwenzeka kwiimeko apho ngokuphindaphindiweyo umfazi izama ukutshintsha imeko, Ndafika kwisigqibo sokuba oko akunakwenzeka, kwaye baxolelaniswe ngokupheleleyo Isiphelo sakhe.

Ukongeza, amaxhoba ukuziphatha okunjalo ezinokubangelwa alternating amaxesha sohlaselo kwaye ukungabikho kwalo. ukunyuka Ingxabano kwaye ufikelela kwindawo ethile, emva koko amandla iluhlobo lwe yegadi inyathelo ngobundlobongela. Okulandelayo iza isigaba inguquko (ukwabizwa ngokuba 'honeymoon "), xa umhlaseli ifuna ixhoba ukumxolela afunge ukuba ezinye ngeke akwenze. Ukuba umfazi ixhomekeke emphefumlweni amadoda, evuma ukwamkela uxolo bakhe, yaye zonke iqala kwakhona.

Noba indlela, umhlaseli kunye nexhoba abaxhomekeke omnye komnye. Le ndoda, nogonyamelo, uvakalelwa amandla akhe phezu abafazi, yena wento engekhoyo ubungangamsha. Ibhinqa isikakhulu weyisekile ukuba angabi nako ukuphila yedwa. Ukongezelela, abaninzi besini wamhle ekuthinjweni nemvukelo zentlalo esithi umfazi, ukuba yedwa, ubomi bakhe akazange athathe indawo. Enye into egcina omama indoda ukutshabhisa, babe ngokukodwa kubudlelwane ekhaya lwabazali, apho sibeka iindlela ezisisiseko.

ezinjalo ukuba ubudlelwane co-abaxhomekeke kunye ngumlinganiswa kabuhlungu, yaye zibizwa ngokuba "nendlu Stockholm Syndrome."

Ngendlela, ukuba sibe ngamaxhoba abafazi kuphela kodwa abantwana.

Eyona ndlela kule meko enzima uqhagamshelane ixhoba kwiziko ukusebenza nabantu abaye phantsi ugonyamelo.