Ukususela kwiliphi ixesha elide lokufundisa abantwana kubhodweni. Kuphi ubudala kunye nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni?

Umama ngamnye ulandelelisisa ukuphuhliswa kwengane yakhe, exhalabele ukuba uyadla ngokufanelekileyo, nokuba uqale ukukhwela, uhlale kwaye uhambe ngexesha. Ukwazisa ngokugqithisileyo ukukhwela, ukhula oluvela esifubeni kwaye ucinga ngokukhawuleza nangentlungu. Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo ihlawulwa kwiinkalo zokuhlambulula umntwana. Nangona okwangoku ukusetyenziswa kwee-diapers ezivuselelekayo kwenza kube lula ukugcina ulusu lolutsha lucocekile kwaye lumile, kungekudala okanye kamva ixesha lifika xa umzali ecinga ukuba: kuvela kwiminyaka yobuphi ukulungiselela umntwana kumbindi? Fumana impendulo echanekileyo akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele. Kodwa ukuqonda yonke imiba kunye neemfihlo zempumelelo okanye ukuhluleka kwimiba enoxanduva kuya kunceda eli nqaku.

Ukulondolozwa, ukucoceka okanye ukungenzi nto nje?

Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kuphi na ukuba kutheni le nto iqhubela phambili ejikeleze into ebonakalayo elula kwaye eqhelekileyo, idibene nenombolo elula yomntwana-ibhodwe. Emva koko, akukho mntwana ongazange afunde ukusebenzisa le nto elula.

Nazi izizathu eziphambili ezikhuthaza oomama abatsha ukuba bafundise abantwana kakuhle.

1. Bafuna into kwaye bayibonakalise kumntu. Qala ukwenza oku, umzekelo, ukusuka kwimiba yokuba bonke abantwana abaqhelekileyo sele bezibuza bona "pi-pi", kwaye umntwana wabo "akabi nakakhulu kunabo bonke." Ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuchasene noko, iimammy ifuna ukuma phakathi kwabahlobo babo. Emva koko, bonke abantwana bahlala bembethe i-diapers, kwaye imvumba yabo "ikhethekileyo"!
2. Omnye ufuna ukugcina imali ekuhlambuleni iimpahla kunye nokuthenga i-diapers eyabiza okanye nje nge-diapers ekhathele ukudibana.
3. Isizathu sesithathu. Umama ngandlela-thile funda, ukuba emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka ethile umntwana sele ehamba ebhodweni, kwaye wayethusa. Ingaba umntwana wakhe emva kophuhliso?

Umzuzu obalulekileyo

Abanye oomama abanakuthandabuza ngokupheleleyo ukuba yiyiphi iminyaka efunekayo ukuba bafunde umntwana kumbindi. Bazolile kwaye banokuqiniseka ukuba yonke into iya kwenzeka ngokwayo kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Oku kungcono. Okubi ngakumbi, xa, ngokuchasene noko, abazali baxatyiswe ngokungathandabuzeki malunga nenyaniso yokuba umntwana akanakukwazi ukujamelana nayo, kwaye bayesaba ukwenza imizamo yokufundisa embizeni. Emva koko, ukuba isiphumo sibi, siya kuba neengxaki ezininzi kunye neengxakini ukuba umntwana wakho akahambelani nemimiselo ethile yophuhliso.

Ukuba uzibuza ukuba yeyiphi ubudala kunye nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni, kufuneka ukwazi ezimbini ezibalulekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba olu lwazi olukhethekileyo olubaluleke kakhulu kuluntu kwaye luqwalasele ukulungelelana komntwana ukuba afunde ukuqonda nokulawula iminqweno kunye nezenzo zalo ezihambelana nale nkqubo. Ukulungela kuza kunye nokukhula okuthile kwe-psyche.

Ingcamango yeengcali

Akukho dokotela wezilwanyana uza kuthi xa ukufundela umntwana ngendlela efanele. Kucingwa ukuba kuyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuqala le nkqubo xa umntwana efika kwiinyanga ezili-18. Esi sigqibo sisekelwe kwiimpawu zomzimba zomzimba, ukususela ngaphambi kwalo nyaka, ukucoca kunye nezitishi kunomlingiswa ocacileyo. I-crumb ayizivezi ukuzaliswa kwamalungu angaphandle kwaye ayikwazi ukulawula izenzo malunga nokukhupha kwabo. Kuthetha ukuba, ngokwemvelo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba "unokukwazi ukujamelana naloo shishini" nangaliphi na ixesha, kwaye akunandaba nokuba wayenzani ngaphambili. Ngoko, inqaku elithi "intshwenyelo yomntwana" yinyaniso. Kuyaqondakala ukuba ngaba abazali bomntwana bachitha ixesha labo nomgudu wokuphuhlisa ikhono eliqhubekayo. Oku kwenzekayo xa bengayazi ukuba ubudala bafundela kubani ibhola.

Ukuba sithetha ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga isayensi, zonke iinkqubo zilawulwa yingqondo, apho kufika khona imiqondiso ethile. Ukuqaphela ukuhanjiswa kwemiphumo enjalo kwinkqubo yesantya umntwana uza kusondela kwiminyaka emibini. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana baqala ukuva ukuzaliswa kwe-rectum ngaphambilana kweso sivakalelo sokuba kufuneka ukhulule i-bladder.

Unokumisela njani ukuzimisela komntwana?

Oomama abaninzi banqwenela ukuphulaphula isiluleko sezilwanyana, esisoloko siphawula. Ugqirha onolwazi uya kukwazi ukuthetha ukususela kwinqanaba leembono zesayensi ukusuka kwiphi iminyaka ukuqala ukufundisa umntwana kwibhoba elingcono. Uyakwazi ukuvavanya imeko yenkqubo ye-nervous, izinga lokuphuhliswa kwengqondo lomntwana, kwakunye neenxalenye ezibandakanyekayo kwiinkqubo zokucoca kunye nokuchasana. Ugqirha uya kubuza malunga nezakhono kunye nempumelelo yentsana kwaye uncedise ukufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ingaba lixesha lokumazi ibhodlela.

Ngokuqhelekileyo eli xesha lixesha lixesha apho i-crumb ingakwazi ukuhlala ngokuzithemba kwaye ihambe, ibonise impawu okanye izandi efuna ukuya endlini yangasese. Xa eqonda kwaye eyazi indlela yokwenza imiyalelo elula, ubonisa ukunganeliseki ngeempahla ezimanzi, ufuna ukukhupha okanye ukubeka iipenties, xelisa abantu abadala.

Ezinye iimpawu zokulungela umntwana

1. Ngamaxesha angama-2 okanye ngaphezulu emini.
2. Iimpawu zentshukumo zengxube ziyabonakala kwaye zihlala zihleli.
3. Xa kulula ukucacisa ukuba umntwana wenza ukunyakaza kwamathumbu okanye ukucima (ukuhamba, ukubonakalisa ubuso, ukuyeka ukudlala).

Kakade, akuyiyo yonke le miqondiso ifanele ibe. Oomama abanononophelo kunye nabanonophelo baqhele ukukwazi ukuzimisela kwaye banqume ukusukela kwiliphi ixesha ukuba bafunde abantwana kubhodeni.

Ukususela kwimfundiso yokuziqhelanisa

Kulo mntwana kubalulekile ukuba uqeqesho luqhutyelwa kwiimeko zendalo nezokuzola. Akwamkelekanga ukwenza i-crumb yenze into ethile, ukuba engabonakali umnqweno, ukumbhikisha, nokummangalisa. Kuyafana nokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Musa ukuqala ukuba: umntwana uyagula okanye ufunyenwe kwakhona; Intsapho yakutsha izalisekisa; Ngaba wayefudukela kwelinye igumbi okanye ngeengxaki. Kwiimeko ezinjalo akubalulekanga nakwimfuneko, ukusuka kwiliphi ixesha eliqhelekileyo ukuba afunde abantwana kubhodeni. Kungcono ukuyeka ukuqeqesha uqeqesho, ukuze ungabonakali umntwana ukuba uxinzeleleke ngakumbi.

Bambalwa ukuqwalasela into yokuba akufanele udibanise iiklasi eziliqela. Okokuthi, ehleli embizeni, umntwana makangaphazamiseki, umzekelo, kwiimidlalo, ithelevishini okanye ukutya.

1. Ukutyala umntwana ebhodweni ubuncinane amaxesha amabini ngosuku. Kodwa ngaphandle kwenzondelelo (imizuzu emi-5-10). Ngaphandle koko, kuya kuphazamisa ngokukhawuleza.
2. Isihlandlo sokuqala singatyaliswa ngqo kwi-diaper, i-panties, i-pantyhose okanye i-slide (ukuze kungabangeli ukungahambi kakuhle, umzekelo, ekudibanisaneni kubanda).
3. Ukuba akukho niphumo phakathi kwemizuzu emi-5-10, pha kamisa i-crumb, makudlale kude kube lixesha elizayo.
4. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, unokuzama ukutshala kwikhombi ngaphandle kwe-diaper.
5. Nika umntwana ibhodana xa uqaphela ukuba lixesha, cindezela. Ezinye iintsana zifihla ekhoneni, phantsi kwetafile, xa zifuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese. Kodwa qaphela, ungangesabi umntwana, mhlawumbi uya kukunqanda ukuhamba.
6. Kufuneka uyeke ukusebenzisa i-diapers emini. Emva kwayo yonke into, umntwana uyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumanzi, kwaye akayiqondi into ekufuneka ahambe ngayo ebhodweni. I-crumb esetyenziselwa i-diapers kunzima ukufundisa. Ngaloo ndlela kulula ukuba umntwana ejwayele ukusuka kwimihla yokuqala ukuma iimpahla. Emva koko, ukuba kuchazwa, akayithandi imvakalelo yamanzi amanzi. Kwaye umama angaba neengxaki ezimbalwa xa esombulula ingxaki, indlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni kunye naluphi ubudala.
7. Qiniseka ukumema umntwana ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese ngaphambi kokulala. Kwakhona kusebenza ukutshala umntwana ebhodweni emva kokutya nokulala. Musa ukumnika ezininzi izixhobo zobusuku bobusuku.

Ukubonakalisa uvuyo lwabazali, xa i-crumb ijika phezu kwebhodeni ukwenza into yayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ithinta iziphumo zokufunda. Umntwana akayi kucinga ngephutha ukuba isimo sengqondo somama kuye asixhomekeke kwimpumelelo yakhe.

Iingcebiso zokuFunda

Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba kutheni imbiza iyadingeka. Umntwana ungumzekelo ocacileyo. Abanye oomama bambonisa indlela yokusebenzisa ipeni ngedoli okanye ithoyizi elithambileyo. Abanye abazali bathabatha iimvumba zabo kwindlu yangasese ukuze banokucinga indlela abadala abahlangabezana ngayo nemfuno yabo. Umntwana omncinci akasaboni ukungafani ngesondo malunga nendlela oku kwenziwa ngayo. Kanti abanye babonisa indlela i-diaper esebenzayo eya ngayo ebhodweni.

Ubuni besazisi

Ngamanye amaxesha unina wamantombazana ukhathazekile ukuba ngoku kwangena umntwana engena ebhodweni. Nangona kukholwa ukuba zikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngokwenene, akukho mmahluko kulo mbandela. Indlela yokufundela inkwenkwe nentombazana ebhodweni? Ukuqala nini? Apha, kwimeko nganye, kufuneka kubekho indlela ethile. Ezinye imithombo ineenkcukacha ukuba kunzima kubafana ukuba baphathe imisipha yabo ngexesha lokucoca ngenxa yeempawu zabo zomzimba.

Endaweni yokugqiba

Ukugqoka i-diapers okanye ukungabuthwali umntwana, kwaye ukusuka kwiphi ubudala ukufundela abantwana kwi-pot - le nto yodwa. Kukho nawuphi na, iingcamango zendalo zemvelo ziveliswa, kwaye ukuveliswa kwentswelo kunye nokuqonda imfuno yokukhupha izitho zentshukumo eqhubekayo xa kubonakala ngendalo.

Ngenxa yoko isiphetho - xa umntwana ephuhliswa xa umama ethatha isigqibo sokuqalisa uqeqesho, kuzakufuneka iinzame ezimbalwa, iinzame kunye nexesha ukuphumeza umphumo wokugqibela - usebenzisa ibhokhwe ngenjongo ekujoliswe kuyo.

Nangona kunjalo, ungakhathazeki ukuba awukwazi ukujamelana neengxaki ixesha elide. Kuphela umbuzo womonde nexesha. Ngoku siyazi ukuba yeyiphi ubudala kunye nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ebhodweni.