Ukutshaya ephupheni - yintoni ntoni oko?

Xa umntu alale, amalungu ayo kuqhubeka ukusebenza odwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umsebenzi kunye nobuchopho - ukuze abantu bakwazi ukubona lula iphupha ethile sebali, mhlawumbi umfanekiso. Uyakwazi ukubona izinto ezahlukeneyo - ukutshaya xa ulele, umzekelo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu abayi waphupha ezinzulwini zobusuku okanye ekuseni, yaye kufutshane ukuvuka kwakhe, oko kukuthi - kusasa.

Amaphupha basafunda isayensi, ebizwa oneirology. Ngoko ke, abaseki kwale nzululwazi baye babonisa ukuba yonke ubuthongo kwabantu luquka izigaba ezintlanu. Eyokuqala kuzo - ukukhanya semi-zisabonakala. Last - ngokulandelelanayo, REM efanayo, xa indoda ukubukela into. Isigaba sokuqala - kuxa umntu ekhululekile ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa xa yokugqibela - kukho unxulumano phakathi ienjini kunye nomntu abazi. Kwaye ke umongo le nkqubo - zokwazisela abanamava mathuba ezahlukeneyo. It is at amathuba enjalo indoda kufuneka banyamezele ezahlukeneyo iileta ezimibalabala, ezo zibizwa ngokuba amaphupha.

Ukuvuka phezulu, umntu unako ukukhumbula oko alibonanga isiganeko esithile, uze uqala ukucinga - oko kuya zonke ukuthini?

Kungenxa oku ukuze abe nako ukuphendula umbuzo onjalo, yaye yasungulwa eyiyeyabantu downers.

Thatha lo mzekelo ungentla - ukutshaya ephupheni lam. Xa uphupha ukuba wenza oku - kunjalo, kwixa elizayo, kuya kufuneka wenze isixa omkhulu umgudu ukuze kufikelelwe ezinye iinjongo ebekwe phambi kwenu. Ukuba ufuna nje iphupha ukutshaya, ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo uya kunceda apha. Oku kuthetha ukuba ubomi benu, kuya kubakho iingxaki eziya lukoyikise. Musa ukoyika, Kakade ke, hayi ingakumbi ixabiso - kuba akuyi kuba gqithi. Yinto funny, kodwa abantu ukuba ukutshaya ephupheni - oko kwabo nje baza ukuyeka lo mkhwa.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, inye kuphela into kunokuthetha kulo mzekelo, ke liphupha - usafuna kufuneka ukuba basebenze kuyo ngokwakho ukuba bahlukane yalo mkhwa ezimbi ukuba ugxunyekwe ienjini yakho kakhulu kunene. Ngokubanzi, njengoko usixelela incwadi iphupha, ukutshaya ephupheni - ukuba akukho nto imbi kangaka.

Kobuntu busebenza ngokwenzeka iphupha kangangeenkulungwane, oko ndazifumanela ngamava enkulu ngokwenene. Oosonzululwazi abaninzi oluphambili ifana kufutshane kakhulu isisombululo, ukudala iingcamango zabo ezisekelwe iincwadi iphupha mihla. Enye edumileyo - Miller, ngubani nangona usomashishini elula, kodwa wasebenza nzima phezu kwalo, ezama ukucacisa oko waphupha. Okanye Freud - ngaba umntu lowo nguyise lonke isikolo of psychoanalysts abayisebenzayo ingcaciso iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo ezifumaneka kwi ingqondo yomntu.

Hi nga tsundzuka i Wang - ihlabathi umprofetikazi edumileyo, ucacisa ukubaluleka amaphupha kuzo zonke iintlobo zabantu. Ngoku sinako ukucinga downers, ayayilwa ngokusekelwe yemibono izimvo zabantu abadumileyo. Ngenxa yezi zinto, sinako ukuzama ukuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo, ukuba uchaze naziphi na senzeko - ukuba kwenzeka ukuba ukutshaya ephupheni, okanye, yithini, ubone imvula.

Kukho, Kakade ke, namaphupha zomile kakhulu, ungabi lula kakhulu ukubona okanye ukukhumbula into ecacileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba into enjalo yaye akazange kuthwala umthwalo kwisemantiki. ngcono kakhulu ibiya kuba ukujonga eliqaqambileyo - ade equlathe intsingiselo ecacileyo. Ukuba umntu unako ukuyiqonda kakuhle - ngoko ukufumana umbono wokuba izinto silindele kwakhe kwixa elizayo. Ngapha koko, kukho amabali amaninzi malunga nendlela abantu ngamaphupha abo Unokufunda umtshato ezayo, okanye, umzekelo, esongeza kusapho. Musa uwajongele le miyalezo ukwazi ukuba nayo ebomini bethu bemihla ngemihla.