Ukuxilongwa ngokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwabaselula: ukuvavanya. Ukuthintela ukuziphatha okuzibulala kwabaselula esikolweni

Namhlanje ingxaki yokuzibulala kwentsha ibaluleke gqitha kuluntu. Kukho izizathu ezininzi, umzekelo, ukunyanzeliswa kwengcinezelo yengqondo engabonakaliyo yomntwana kwingxenye yoluntu kunye nabeendaba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bangaphantsi koxinzelelo oluqhubekayo ngendlela yokulindela okukhulu kwabazali nabafundisi besikolo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ulutsha luyifumene ilizwe labo lobuhlobo kunye neemvakalelo.

Omnye uvakalelwa kukuba ngamnye umntwana kufuneka abe yingcali entsimini yemathematika kunye nesayensi yekhompyutheni, akwazi ukucula nokudansa, atye, athethe iilwimi eziliqela kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Kwaye kuthekani ngomntwana onoyolo kwaye ongenasiphako? Oko kukuthi, ukuxilongwa kokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwentombazana kusekwinqanaba elincinci - kuyimfuneko ukumnika iimeko eziqhelekileyo zobomi, kwaye umngcipheko uya kuhlahloka.

Ukukhula

Le yinto yesibili engakwazi ukuhlaziywa. Ngaloo izolo, umntwana wamthobela zonke iimfuno zakho, kwaye namhlanje waqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ubomi bakhe bulawulwa ngokupheleleyo ngabantu abadala, kwaye akukho phantse kuye. Ukuphazamiseka kuyaqhekeka, kwaye inqanaba lokuxhalabisa nokunyanzeliswa kwakhona kuxhomekeke kwindlela oyisingatha ngayo, kwaye ngoko ingozi yokuzibulala.

Ezi zizinto ezisisiseko kubazali abafuna ukuqonda ukuba kuxhomekeke kangakanani ekuqondeni kwethu, ukunyamezela kunye novelwano. Ukuxilongwa ngokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwabantwana abaselula banomsebenzi ongeyonto eninzi yezikolo zengqondo ezifana neyethu. Emva koko, umntwana uchitha ixesha elide ekhaya. Ukuqwalasela ngokucophelela - oku kukuqinisekisa ukuba awuyi kuphinda ulahleke iibhena ze-alamu kwaye uya kukwazi ukuphendula ngexesha.

Iimpawu ezingafaneleki zishiye ngaphandle kwengqalelo

Enyanisweni, zibonakala kwiso iso, ngenxa nje yengqesho yabo, sihlala singazihoxisi. Oontanga, ootitshala nabazali-bonke mabaqaphele utshintsho lomntwana. Ukuxilongwa ngokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwentombazana iqala ngokuchanekileyo kunye ne-oddities ephawulweyo. Ezi zi:

• Ngokubanzi ukucinezelwa, ukungabi nentshisekelo kwinto. Umntwana okhulayo uvuka ubunzima ekuseni, enomzamo obonakalayo ebuthela esikolweni kwaye kwicandelo, ulungele ukuchitha lonke ixesha lakhe lokukhulula ekamelweni lakhe.
• Izimvo zengqondo ngesihloko esithi "Ndiyathanda ukuba andizange ndizalwe."
• Ukukhathalela ngamandla ngokufa, ukubukela iifilimu kunye nomxholo onikwe.
• Inkcazo engaphantsi. "Andiyonto into," "Ngaphandle kwam kuya kuba ngcono."
• Iimeko zokudandatheka, inkulumo ethi "Mshiye yedwa" insimbi ephazamisayo, engenakukunyanzelwa.

Ngaloo ndlela, ukuxilongwa kokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwabantwana abaselula kuyabakho kwintsapho. Ukuba ngabazali banokusola, unokuza kubonisana nomsebenzi wengqondo yengqondo, ukwenzela ukuba avumelane malunga nokuxilongwa ngokujulile kunye nesisombululo seengxaki.

Inyathelo lokuqala: Ukuvavanya

Ngokuqinisekileyo, isazi sengqondo se-psychologist asikwazi ukubiza umfundi umbuzo othile ngqo, umzekelo, "Ngaba ufuna ukuzibulala?". Ngoko ke, nokuba sibone iimpawu ezibonakalayo zokuguquka kokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane umxholo wenkohliso. Ngenxa yale njongo, ukuthintela ukuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwabantwana abaselula esikolweni. Ezi zifundo ezizodwa, ngexesha lokusebenzisa iindlela zobugcisa zobugcisa. Abantwana banikezwa ukuba bafake ukufa, kwaye ke badibanisa idatha encinci kumaqela amancinci. Ingqondo yengqondo kulo mzekelo inomdla kwindawo yokuqala, yintoni umvakalelo ngamnye owenzayo ubeka umzobo wakhe. Kwiimeko ezininzi, imibala emnyama, imigca ebukhali, ukudweba ngeenkcukacha ezintle kunokuthetha ngokubanzi.

Ukuthintela ukuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwabaselula esikolweni kubandakanya impikiswano apho abantwana bayamenywa ukuba bahlukane ngamaqela amaninzi baze baxoxe ngazo zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki zendlela yokuphuma ebomini. Vumela iqela elinye lizame ukubonisa ukuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela yena, kwaye okwesibini - ukufumana iingxabano malunga nale (uxanduva, inkolo kunye nokunye okuninzi). Ngokuqinisekileyo, isiphetho esiqhelekileyo sesifundo kufuneka ukuba ukuzithiba ngobomi kukusebenza kakubi, ubuntwabuntwana, ukuba isisombululo seengxaki sihlala kwinqanaba elithile. Ezi zifundo ziza kunika izinto ezimangalisayo ekubonweni kwengqondo yengqondo yesikolo.

Indlela ngamnye

Emva kokuba izifundo ezivulekile ziqhutywe, kunokwenzeka ukuba ziqinisekise izigqibo ezenziwe malunga nomlinganiselo wengozi wokuzibulala ngabanye besikolo basebenzisa iindlela ezizodwa. Ukunikezela kwabo kuphetshiwe, ngendlela yovavanyo jikelele. Kule meko, cela abantwana, ngamnye ngabanye ukuba bafikelele kwiziphumo. Qinisekisa ukuba unike ixesha, ubonise kwiimakhishithi. Ngoko unokwenza incoko yomntu ngamnye.

Sakhetha iindlela

Njani ukuxilongwa ngokuzibulala kwabantu abaselula? Ukuvavanya kunokubandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ezahlukeneyo, ngasinye esichaza ngqo okanye ngokungathanga ngqo ukuba umntwana kufuneka asebenze ngabanye. Iqela elikhulu lokuqala liyiendlela zokucinga:

• Ukubonisa iimvavanyo;
• Imibala yombala nguLusher;
• Pictograms;
• Rorschach amatye.

Ngamnye kubo kunzima kakhulu ekusebenziseni, kodwa unikeza izinto ezibonakalayo kumcwaningi. Impendulo yodwa kukuba emva kokuvavanywa kuya kufuneka ukuba ube nencoko yomntu ngamnye kwisifundo ukuqinisekisa ubungqingili bakho. Emva koko, ukukhethwa kombala okanye ukuma kungathintela imeko yezempilo okanye imva yesikhashana, amava kweso siganeko.

Iindlela ezicwangcisiweyo

Kulula ukuyisebenzisa nokuqonda, kodwa ngelishwa, unokufumana iimpendulo ezithandekayo kuluntu. Xa ufumanisa ukuziphatha kwentsha yokuzibulala, kuyinqweneleka ukusebenzisa izixhobo ngaphandle kokubhekiselele ngqo kwizinto abaphanda ngazo. Umzekelo, i-questionnaire yengozi yokuzibulala ingathiwa uvavanyo nguRazuvaeva, ngegama lomlobi. Ivumela ukutyhila umgangatho wesakhiwo seenjongo zokuzibulala. Ukongezelela, ezinye iimvavanyo zisebenziswa:

• Ukuchonga izinga lokuzithemba.
• Imibuzo engama-18 yeCattell.
• Imibuzo ye-accentuation and psychopathy Shmishek.
• I-questionnaire enobudlova.
• Isilinganiselo sokuxhalabisa.
• Isilinganisi sokumisela izinga lokudandatheka.

Ukuxilongwa kwengqondo yokuziphatha ngokuzibulala kwintsholongwane kufuneka ibe ngabanye. Ukuba ingcali iyabona ukuba kukho imfuneko yokuba kuthunyelwe izenzo zobundlobongela ngokwakhe, ngoko kufuneka iguqulelwe kwifomu nganye. Umntwana ufuna uncedo kwaye uya kuvuyiswa ngesandla eseluliweyo.

Ukulungiswa

Le yunithi ebalulekileyo kunye enkulu ngenxa yokuziphatha kokuzibulala kwabaselula kuyaphenywa. Ukuxilongwa, ukuthintela, ukulungiswa - oku kulandelwa ngamanyathelo amathathu alandelayo, angayi kukulibala isazi senzululwazi yesikolo. Ngoko, amanyathelo okulungisa kufuneka aqhutywe kwimizi yomntu ngamnye kunye neqela. Kwaye kufuneka uphando lusebenze kunye nabazali bakhe. Bamele badlulisele iinyaniso ezilula ukuba intombazana enesipili kunye nenkani ifuna uthando, nangaphezulu. Ngoko ke, unxibe kwaye uwanga, uhambo oludibeneyo ukuya kwi-cinema kunye nendawo yokudlala, kwi-cafe kunye nebala lezemidlalo - le yindlela efanelekileyo yokubuyisela ukukhanya kwamehlo novuyo lobomi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo uva kubazali amagama anje athi "senze ntoni ngaphandle kwakho", "ungowona mhle", "Ndikufutshane", "ndiya kukunceda", kulula ukuba le minyaka ilukhuni iya kudlula.