Umntwana imali imfundo kunye nendima ngumzekelo kule nkqubo

Njani kumnandi ukuva xa umntwana omdala uthi: "Le nkumbulo limnandi ebuntwaneni bam bayazalana ukuhamba, apho kum ukuba ubawo Ndandikuthanda oko xa wandixelela into ukufunda, xelela nento ukufundisa" Kakade ke, hayi .. wonke kwaye ayisoloko abantwana yaba akakhathazeki kunye nokukhanya. kodwa ikakhulu kuxhomekeke kuphela kwindlela phezulu yaba ntle eziphathekayo yosapho apho wakhula umntwana phezulu, kodwa olunjani iindlela zoqeqesho kusetyenziswa kubazali.

Kule ubudala ulwazi lweThekhinoloji kube nzima ixesha elide ukuze uthethe kwiindlela zemfundo ukuba abazali nootitshala zisetyenziswa. Kodwa inye into icacile, ukuba abathanga singayilungisi intliziyo umntwana, akayi kuzuza kuzo. Kumashumi eminyaka yakutshanje, indlela zemveli ezifana umyalelo ngomlomo, ilizwi elibhaliweyo, ifuthe ubuhle, yongeza ezinye iindlela ezininzi zemfundo. Oku, umzekelo, ezamahala indlela kwezemfundo, okanye njengoko ibizwa ngokuba, - indlela zibhuqe. Njengokuba kude njengokuba yena elungileyo okanye embi - ukuthi yenza akukho ndlela, ngenxa yokuba bonke balungelwe bona kunye ngempumelelo. indlela free lemfundo kuthetha kungekho sikhokelo ukunciphisa inkululeko womntwana. Ngoko ke indlela kuphela ukuba udaka ulwazi, oluba psyche usana buthathaka. Ingaba lo mntwana uza kumelana umthwalo onjalo? Ngaba iya kuba luncedo?

Ukuze imfundo kuthetha ukuzisa inzuzo efunekayo, kufuneka ukukhawulelana nentsebenzo ethile. Ukuze wenze oku, kubalulekile ukuba sicinga ngalo mbuzo: "Ndifuna ukubona umntwana wakho Ngubani na - okanye umntu buthathaka-ezithandwa wokuzingca boyisa iingxaki?" Mixture, ngubani usakhumbula zihlandlo abonwabileyo yobuntwana noyise okanye unina abe umntu ngempumelelo yaye bonwabile. Ngelo xesha, imfundiso noqeqesho zizinto bengenamandla ukuba abazali bengavumelani ngala mazwi imicimbi. Ngoko ke, lo ngumzekelo - enempumelelo kakhulu kwaye nangokwamkela zobuzali zinzima.

Ukuze ukwazi into efunekayo, ngamaxesha kuhle ukuba sibe ngumzekelo nikufanele ukulandela. Nokuba imfundo kuthetha ukuba nempumelelo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baye babekholelwa ngokwenene koko befundisa umntwana wabo. IBhayibhile imigca ezimangalisayo: "La mazwi ndikuyalela wona namhlanje, aze abe sentliziyweni yakho uze uwabethelele, bethetha ngazo xa ekhaya kwaye xa uhamba endleleni" (. Incwadi "Duteronomi", 6: 6) . kula mazwi iphela umgaqo obalulekileyo kakhulu ukuba abazali kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba oko ufundisa, kufuneka kuqala abe sentliziyweni yakho.

Ukwenziwa ubuntu kwinkqubo yemfundo yabantwana kwenzeka ngokuqhubekekayo yaye ngokuba ingqalelo ngakumbi ihlawulwa ukunxibelelana umntwana, ngcono.

kakuhle kakhulu xa umama kunye notata bafuna ukuba bachithe kunye nomntwana wakho ixesha elingakumbi, abantwana bazive kulungile, nto leyo ithetha ukuba bavakalelwa ukuba ibalulekile kwaye bazive bethandwa.

Ukongeza, ukuba umntwana ungalibali ukuba badumise, oko kuya kuba negalelo yokuba uya kuqulunqa self-nokuzixabisa.

Nje musani ukuya kugqithise xa ebubini olitshijolo, yena ufanele ohlwaywe, kodwa ukwenze oko ukuba uyayiqonda - yena umfo lowo, ngenxa yokuba bemthanda.

Box, esibekela abazali kunye nemali imfundo kufuneka ingqiqo umntwana ngayo lokhuseleko, hayi umda.

Lo ngumsebenzi ophambili mlonyeni bonke abazali nootitshala abathatha phezu uxanduva bekhulisa abantwana, yaye ngaloo ndlela ngekamva labo.