Umtshato waseChekem - amasiko kunye nezithethe

Inkqubo yokudibanisa iChechens kukuba insizwa inika umtshato intombazana. Ukuba uyavuma, umnika inkwenkwe okanye umkhonto. Lo mthi uthetha ukuba uhlala ngoku - uyintombazana. Ngokuyimfuneko phambi kweentsapho, umtshakazi nomyeni bayavumelana ngokuqeshwa komhla womtshato. Ukuqala umtshato, ohlala iintsuku ezintathu, khetha uLwesithathu, ngoMgqibelo okanye ngeCawa, ngokuqhelekileyo emva kokuphela kokuhlwayela okanye ukuvuna. Imibhangqwana yaseChechen yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bemihlali abakhulu kunye nabazali babo, kodwa yonke idolophana. Imvume yokugqibela yokuziphatha kwabo inikezelwa ngabadala. Baya kubona ukuba amasiko omtshato waseChechen, obizwa ngokuthi i-lovzar, ayahlolwa.

Imvume kuphela yabadala ifunyenwe, ikomkhulu lomtshato elikhethekileyo liqala, elibandakanya, njengokulawula, izalamane kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo bomyeni. Bamele bachaze ngokucacileyo yonke imeko yombhiyozo kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Imitshato yaseChekeni yinto yokudlala yangempela. Yaye zonke iimbopheleleko mazibekwe ngaphambili. Kuze kube ngubani oya kumela apho nento oyithethayo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungakhubeki naziphi na iindwendwe kwaye ugcine kakuhle izithethe.

Umtshato waseChechen, ngokwesiko, uqala ngento yokuba abahlobo bomyeni bamthabathe ekhaya. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwizithethe zezinye iintlanga, umtshakazi kufuneka athenge umtshakazi ngokugqoka ingubo yomtshato emhlophe. Abahlobo bamhlawula kuqala kwibadala, abaye bamiselwa njengabadala belifa, endlwini yomtshakazi. Ixabiso le-ransomaly-kalym iyavunyelwana kwangaphambili. Kwaye ke iintombi kunye nezihlobo zomtshakazi ziyakhusela umendo wokulungiswa kunye neentambo baze bafumane intlawulelo.

Emva koko umtshakazi uqhutyelwa imoto ngokuya kwidolophana kwindlu yomyeni. Ukutshata ngemitshato yaseChechen kuye kwamukelwa ixesha elide ngeemfudu emoyeni.

Kwivolanda umtshakazi ulindele umama wendoda yakhe ezayo enekende yeesekese ezandleni zakhe. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba intlanganiso kunye noninazala kamva, omnye uvavanyo ulindelwe. Ngomyinge wendlu yomyeni umatshini uphelelwe (usetyenziswe ukuba ube yi-burka) kunye nomhlaza. Kukholelwa ukuba xa umtshakazi esusa ngokucophelela ezi zinto kwicala - kulungile. Ukuba uhamba nje - uyisiyatha. Emva koko umama womyeni uyaphatha kwaye umema umkhwenyana-mkhwenkwezi endlwini, ammisele ngeesekese. Nantsi intombazana ihleli kwindawo ehloniphekileyo kwaye umntwana wengane, ngokomthetho, owokuqala omnye weendwendwe ezihloniphekileyo, uziswa. Kumele amthathe ezandleni zakhe aze adlale naye. Esi siko somtshato waseChechen sisisifiso esingokomfanekiso sokuzalwa kwabantwana abasempilo, ngokukhethekileyo amakhwenkwe.

Umthendeleko uqala, apho umyeni okanye umtshakazi athatha inxaxheba. Ngomhla wokuqala umyeni usuke ephuma endlwini, ehleka kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Umtshakazi usekwindlu yomyeni, kodwa akafanele ahlale phantsi namhlanje kwaye akhulume kuqala kunye nabahlobo kunye nezihlobo zomyeni. Imibhangqwana yaseChechen, okokuqala, ayikho imthendeleko, kodwa imidaniso yomtshato. Yonke imithendeleko ihamba kunye nomculo wabaculi beendwendwe kunye neemidanso zeendwendwe. Yonke iChechen ifunda ukudanisa ngokukhawuleza xa iqala ukuhamba. Indoda engazi ukudansa ibhekwa ingacatshulwa kwaye kwanezinga elithile liphosakele. Imitshato yaseChechen, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko enzima yexesha lokugqibela, zama ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwabathathi-nxaxheba. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho zimpikiswano phakathi kwabantu abancinci, iindwendwe ezihloniphekileyo, kunye nabancedisi bakhe, ilindi.

Umtshato waseChechen uhlala iintsuku ezintathu. Ngentsasa yosuku lwesithathu, iindwendwe zikhokelela umfazikazi echibini. Ukunyenga amanzi, abahlobo bomyeni bayaphonsa amaqebelengwane emanzini, bawaphephe. Umtshakazi uthabatha amanzi kwaye awubeke endlwini - ngoku ukhuselwe ngonaphakade kumanzi. Ukubhaliswa komtshato kwenzeka kuphela ngosuku lwesithathu lomtshato. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata banokufumana imeko yomfazi kunye nomfazi omncane.