Umtshato xa umfazi wakhe okhulelweyo: i bokuqonda inkqubo

Asingabo bonke abantu abahlala kunye ubomi. Yintoni kwatsala iqabane kusasa ulwalamano, iqalisa ukubacaphukisa, kukho uxinezeleko kunye ndlongo. Ngenxa yoko, iintsapho ezininzi phula phezulu, kwaba inkqubo kunokuba ezingemnandi kwiinkqubo mtshato. Ukuba omabini amaqabane kubona intlonipho omnye komnye, kaninzi komtshato wenziwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle ucutho. Noko ke, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba inzima kakhulu ngakumbi xa intsapho abantwana abaselula. Ke ukuba lo mtshato ngexa lokukhulelwa? Indlela yokwenza kule meko, nge naziphi na iinkqubo zomthetho kuyimfuneko ukuba kudlula esi sibini ukuba ashiye umthetho?

isici zomthetho

Phantsi Code loSapho, uqhawulo-mtshato wenziwa mhlawumbi enkundleni okanye kwi-ofisi umbhalisi apho umtshato wangena. Kwimeko yokugqibela, uqhawulo-mtshato kuvunyelwa kwiimeko ezininzi:

• Xa indoda nomfazi ufuna ukuhamba;
• ukuba indoda nomfazi musani nabantwana;
• xa amaqabane abanazo omnye amabango zohlobo zemali kwaye musa zifuna ukwahlulwa ngenkani impahla.

Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko, izibini ezitshatileyo kufuneka uye enkundleni. Nokuba isibini onomntwana, kodwa bagqiba yonke imiba ngoxolo, iinkundla kufuneka atyumbe isixa yenkxaso yomntwana. Divorce ngexesha lokukhulelwa kule meko kungekho ngaphandle. Umntwana sele apho, kodwa into yokuba akazange azalwe okwangoku, ayitshintshi le meko.

Noko ke, uhlolisise onke amabali.

Divorce ngexesha lokukhulelwa yiyo indoda

Umyeni enokw umtshato angenise umzimba lezomthetho ehambelana nendawo isimangalo. Noko ke, kule meko, oko kuyimfuneko ukuze afumane imvume ngumfazi wakhe. Kamsinya nje isibini bafikelele kwisigqibo eqhelekileyo, ukuba isicelo @UnathiKondile kwetyala elimisiweyo.

Xa kuxoxwa inkqubo ngokutsha iya kucela umyeni wayo, ukuba ufuna makangahlukani nendoda yakhe. Ukuba itshintsha ilungelo lakhe engqondweni enkundleni, loo ingqalelo komtshato ngethuba lokukhulelwa iyakunqunyanyiswa. Ijaji angala ukuphinda-ukuvula ityala kude kube lelo xesha de umntwana ziinyanga ezili-12.

Ngaba indoda imale umfazi wakhe owayekhulelwe ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe

Ngokomthetho, iqabane ingaba yinto umqalisi lo mtshato, lo gama enye isiqingatha yakhe ukwimo umdla. Kakade ke, ukuze angenise isicelo ukuba abasebenzi arhente kufuneka athathe. Noko ke, phezu umnxeba kuqala, okanye umfazi nasemacaleni wayesoloko wala. Xa iqabane zinika ubungqina obungenakuphikiswa kwinkundla ukukhulelwa kwakhe, isigqibo ngowama-100% yamatyala ziya kwenziwa egameni layo.

Le nto ikhona ukuze ukukhusela abasetyhini kwindawo ziyingozi ukusuka yokothuka ezongezelelweyo luvo. Ukongeza, kukho iimeko apho emva kokuba umntwana azalwe indoda watshintsha isimo sakhe, waza wahlala kuhlala isiqingatha yakhe.

kuqala umfazi Divorce

Ukuba umfazi uvakalelwa ukuba uthe wazala umntwana kude indoda yakhe, kwimeko apho inkundla liya kuhlangana umfazi. Umfazi unelungelo esivakalayo isicelo umtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa unilaterally. nomyeni wakhe ingafuneki.

Ukuba iqabane ndivuma nxamnye umtshato, ungaya enkundleni uze uzame ukucela umngeni ibango umfazi wayo; kodwa igama ubukhulu obu abunikiweyo iperi yokuba isigqibo sokugqibela idla ngokuba akukho kweenyanga ngaphezu 2-3. Ukuba umntu wasetyhini lowo kwindawo enomdla kwaye ifuna umtshato, ngoko 99% ye-mtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa linge umfazi wakhe kwenziwa ngoko nangoko.

Kwezinye iimeko, ijaji ugqiba ukunika sibini ngenyanga reflection, xa ebona ukuba umfazi ufuna umtshato phantsi kweempembelelo yemeko luvo kunye nokungaphumeleli hormone. Kodwa ukuba gadalala sabhalwa nomfazi, okanye umfazi wavuma ukuba umntwana lomnye umntu, ngoko loo mtshato luthatha indawo ngoko nangoko.

amaxwebhu afunekayo

Ukuze ufake isicelo mtshato ukukhulelwa (xa omabini amaqabane bayavuma), kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela iphakheji lwamaxwebhu. Ukongeza isicelo, kuya kufuneka:

• iikopi zokundwendwela;
• Isiqinisekiso esisuka kwisibhedlele engqina ukukhulelwa;
• mpepha ziye zinikwe amaqabane ngexesha lomtshato;
• imali umsebenzi karhulumente (700 engange);
• ireferensi esiqinisekisa imeko yemali wabalingane.

Ukuba kuyimfuneko, inkundla ingafuna kunye namanye amaxwebhu. Konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko ezithile.

Isondlo emva komtshato

Ngokutsho komthetho, umfazi omithiyo emva kokuba ukuqhawulwa komtshato amalungelo afanayo njengoko ex-nomfazi kunye nomntwana. Ngokufanelekileyo, kumele ukufumana isondlo kumyeni wakhe ngexesha zonke iinyanga 9 kunye neminyaka eli-18 emva kokuba wosana olo azalwe.

Noko ke, amaxesha amaninzi inkqubo yokumisela i-mali kufuneka indoda wokuqala ukuba ahlawule isiqingatha kobokuqala, imisiwe. Njengoko umthetho, emva komtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa umfazi wakhe uya ukuya kwiminyaka-3, lo gama inkundla imisela yokuhlawula amatyala abantu. Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba indoda akuyi kufuneka ukuba ahlawule isixa esipheleleyo, ukususela kumhla kupheliswa umtshato.

Amaninzi, inkqubo ubalo inkxaso umntwana kwalibaziseka ngenxa yokuba abayeni babo bayala ukunikezela ex-nabafazi nabantwana engekazalwa. Kulo mzekelo, umxube inengqondo kakhulu ibiya kuba umfazi ukuba ufake isicelo ukuseka lukatata enkundleni. Ukuba kuvela ukuba ngokwenene owayesakuba ngumlingane lowo uyise womntwana lowo, ngoko ke aye kwezinye iingxoxo ngenxa yokwala ukuhlawula.

Amadoda kufuneka athathe ingqalelo elinye caveat ebalulekileyo. Ukuba indoda yamgxotha umkayo nje kokuba kungokuvumelana (hayi wamitha), kwaye iintsuku 300 emva kokupheliswa umtshato Umfazi xa athe usana, ngoko ke inkundla kayise ex-indoda iya kuba ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngako oko, izibophelelo afanayo kwezomthetho (maintenance) kungenziwa ebekwe kuyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto nabameli azilukhuthazi ukungena nolwalamano oluhle namaqabane akhe wangaphambili emva kwaloo mtshato.

Inxalenye enzima kwiinkqubo mtshato - ukuba ukuya kuyo. Eyona nto kunzima ukumelana yokothuka kukho mfazi ilindele usana. Kulo mzekelo, iisayikholojisti Siyaleza ngamandla uku kutyelela nabameli kuphela kodwa iingcali aya kunceda ukujongana nomba yokuziphatha mtshato.