Xa abantwana beqala ukuncuma - bona ubuntu

Bonke abazali, isigqibo ukuba umntwana omncinci, ukuzama ukufunda izinto ezininzi, yaye xa abafundi beqala encuma. Ngapha koko, ngenxa yenceba oomama kunye abazali awona mathuba zibaluleke kakhulu ezifana igama lokuqala, uncumo yokuqala, amanyathelo okuqala omncinane kunye nolwazi yokuqala lobomi umntwana. Kodwa kuza ngelo xesha. Ngoko ke, sizama ukuqonda nesithethe ngokubanzi abantwana uze utshatise nabo ezinye iimpawu ezithi eziziimpawu omnye okanye omnye umntwana.

Kwenzeka ukuba i "iintshukumo" neemvakalelo yokuqala, leyo uphawu bonke abantwana - ulilela kunye nonxunguphalo. Ngoko ke, wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ezi shouters azalwe, kodwa yintoni ixesha umntwana iqala ukuncuma - imfihlelo, kodwa kuphela xa usaqala. Abanye abazali uthathe eziwa isibhedlele uncumo ebusweni bakhe, ngoxa abanye yibhola kunye neenyanga supyatsya yobudala. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, sinokugqiba ukuba zonke kuxhomekeke data umntwana ngamnye yemfuza, ubume kunye neemeko ubomi.

Njengoko waziwa kakuhle, nkqu nokuba sele sijamelene omdala umntu smile kufuneka ukubiza into ethile yangaphandle. Oku kunxulumene ngqo umsebenzi kwinkqubo yethu luvo kunye nezinga, ngoko xa abafundi beqala ukuncuma - beqala ukukhula, ukuqonda eli hlabathi, kumnandi okanye kukubi ipeyinti. Ezinye izinto ezibangela imincili, nto wayibeka kumgangatho yemfuza, ngoxa abanye - efunyenwe ngethuba lokukhulelwa, abanye - wayithenga iintsuku ezo ezimbalwa ukuba wayephila.

Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kuyimfuneko kwakhona ukuqwalasela kunye nalowo ndlela ezahlukeneyo iimvakalelo baby "iikopi 'kubazali babo. Oku kuthetha ukuba xa abafundi beqala ukuncuma - baye bafunda ukuba uyigcine nokuhlalutya intshukumo kunye abasabela ngayo abaphezulu kwi into ethile. Kungenxa yoko le nto uvuyo (yaye bebuhlungu), nto leyo ibonisa pipsqueak, luphawu yophuhliso oqhelekileyo kunye nokulungelelana engqondweni.

obubonakala Standard elide kweli imvakalelo, uncumo - ngenyanga enye. Ngokusekelwe isibakala sokuba abanye abantwana smiling ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe, kunye nezinye kakhulu iiveki ezi-6, yaye oogqirha benza loo nto. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba eli kweentsuku nje ezimbalwa okanye iiveki iimvakalelo loo kakhulu zingqondweni. Ngale ndlela abantwana abasabela kuphela yokuba baziva okulungileyo, ezifudumeleyo ezimnandi, bona awulambanga kwaye musa ndifuna ukulala. Amaninzi, uncumo elinjalo abasasazekileyo kakhulu kwaye ngokulula kufakwe ngeenyembezi, kuba ukuba kukho izizathu eziphathekayo.

Xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba ndincume ngengqiqo, uba ngumntu. Eqalisa ukuvavanya imeko, thelekisa imisebenzi kunye neziganeko ezenzeka ngeenxa zonke kuye. Xa wayeneminyaka eli-kweenyanga ezimbini, umntwana sele ukuba ngabom ukuhleka kangaka unyav ekhala. Noko ke, ukuze angalibali olu luvuyo ukuba ubuso encinane komntwana wakhe ngeli xesha alikafiki ngaphandle.

Kuzo zonke iimeko, xa abafundi beqala ukuncuma - oku ulonwabo entsatsheni. Eli xesha ezama lokufotha, umhla ibhalwe encwadini. Efundwayo umlinganiswa yindlalifa bakhe, ukubukela imikhwa zakhe kwakunye neencasa, kwaye ahleke ummangaliso uya kuba lula.