Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuze ndiyenze isifiso sam sizaliseke? Ukuphunyezwa kwezicwangciso

Njengomnye ummandla waseMpumalanga, owaziwayo kwimbali njengoKumkani uSolomon, wathi, umnqweno ongazaliseki ixesha elide, uyaphazamisa intliziyo. Akukho mntu uza kuthethana nale ngxelo. Enyanisweni, iphupha elidala elikhangayo kwaye lahleka njengengqungquthela, okanye, umzekelo, uthando olungabonakaliyo lunokubangela ukuhlushwa kakubi. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba umntu uzama ukwakha iiplani ezininzi ngekamva, kodwa ngelo xesha awaziyo ukuba wenzeni. Ukuze unqwenela ukuzaliseka, kufuneka athathe amanyathelo amanqaku ekhonkrithi. Zeziphi na? Ngokwemvelo, nganye imeko yodwa, kwaye eli nqaku aliqukethe imiyalelo yomfundi ngamnye. Nangona kunjalo, iminye imithetho ekhoyo ikhona.

Ayikho yonke iminqweno enokuzaliseka. Masizame ukuzihlukanisa. Ngoko, kukho iminqweno enokuyenza. Zisekelwe kwiinkalo ezithile kwaye ngoko ke ziyakwazi ukugqitywa kunabanye. Kukho iminqweno engaphezu kwamafu. Ngokumalunga nendoda ethanda ukuzithobela amaphupha anjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwa uyakha i-air lock. Le minqweno iyahluke kukuba ayinakwenzeka, kwaye ukuzama ukuyizalisa kuya kuzisa iingxaki ezininzi. Unokunika imizekelo yeenqweno ezinjalo: zizityebi ngolunye usuku, fly kwi-excursion ku-Mars kunye njalo.

Kanti elinye iqela leeminqweno - abo abanako ukufikelela. Baye bazaliseka ukuba izinto eziphuphayo zininzi. Ngokomzekelo, umsebenzi olula ngokukhawuleza wayefuna ukuthenga i-yacht kunye ne-villa chic kwindawo ethile kwiiItary Islands. Kodwa, njengokwimeko yokuqala, kungcono ukuba angazami ukuqonda oko akufunayo, ekubeni kuloo ndawo ehlala kuyo. Elinye iqela lifuna umnqweno. Umzekelo: umntu uvela emsebenzini kwaye ubona imoto epholileyo ummelwane wakhe ocebile uthenge. Yaye iphupha lokuba nelo lifanayo. Kule meko, iinjongo zokuthenga imoto entsha yavela ngokukhawuleza.

Umnqweno ofezekileyo uyisishukumiso sokwenza isenzo. Kule meko, umntu, ngokusekelwe kwimeko yakhe, uyazi ukuba yenzeni ukwenza isifiso sifumaneke. Umntu onokwenene unokubeka inani leenjongo, wakhe isicwangciso kwaye uqale ukuphumeza. Oku kuyahlula kumntu ohamba emafini aze akhuphe umoya. Ngoko, yintoni enokuyenza ukuze wenze isifiso sifumaneke?

Okokuqala, kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba yiyiphi intswelo ebomini, Yintoni ekufuneka uyenzele. Emva koko, kufuneka ube neengqiqo ekuphuhliseni izicwangciso zekamva kwaye uqonde ukuba wenzeni ukwenza isifiso sizaliseke. Kufuneka, okokuqala, ukuyiqulunqa ngokuchanekileyo, ukuchonga iinjongo eziyimfuneko kuwe. Okwesibini, cinga ngokucacileyo oko uzimisele ukukwenza, okanye kunoko, umphumo wokugqibela wezenzo zakho. Umzekelo, unokucwangcisa imihla yokuzaliswa kweenjongo zakho kwangaphambili. Umzekelo, ufuna ukuthenga (okanye ukwakha) indlu elunxwemeni. Dweba kwisiqwenga samaphepha, bhala umhla wokuthengwa kwekottage engezantsi uze uxhoma iphepha kwindawo evelele eludongeni. Enye inyathelo elongezelelweyo lixhoba elicacileyo. Akufanele uyilibale malunga noko uzimisele ukukwenza, kwaye akunjalo ukuba uyiguqule yonke into ngokukhawuleza. Yintoni enye efunekayo ukuzalisekisa umnqweno? Ngokuqinisekileyo, izenzo eziphathekayo ziyimfuneko. Ngaphandle kwabo, abayi kuzuza iziphumo. Qala ukwenza izinto ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba uzibekele iinjongo ezifanelekileyo. Yixabise ixesha lakho, lilinganiselwe kuwe nangona sonke sifa. Ukuba ufuna into ethile, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo awufuni umthwalo kwaye uyesaba utshintsho, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela. Khumbula ukuba ngokungaqhelekanga ithuba linikezelwa kabini. Ngokuqinisekileyo kanye, kwaye kufuneka ukuba ibanjwe. Ngoko, musa ukulibala ukuba wenzeni ukwenza isifiso sizaliseke.