I Pursuit of Happyness: yezenzo - lo ...

Fedor Tiutchev ngokuchanekileyo watsho - umntu akakwazi kwangaphambili indlela ilizwi lakhe ivakala. Akukho mntu owaziyo ukuba akangebuyi isenzo yayo. Kwaye sisoloko ukuqonda ukuba enze into elungileyo? Noko, ngokuchanekileyo, lo gama ukuthini? Iintshukumo - kuba yinxalenye yobomi bomntu, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuze baqonde iimpawu zazo nokuba zezantoni na.

Yintoni na isenzo?

Phantsi isenzo kubonisa inyathelo ezithile sizibophelele ngokuzithandela. Izenzo - yinto isigqibo yomntu, okuqulathwe olumisela semthethweni kunye nokuziphatha.

Kwakhona, isenzo ekubhekiswe kuwo ngohlobo oluthile ukuziphatha ngamnye, nto leyo ukhetho ekujoliswe kunye neendlela zokufikelela kuzo. Ngamanye amaxesha le qhinga inokuba ngokuchasene nemigangatho zentlalo.

Ngenxa yoko, oko kuqatshelwe ukuba izenzo - oku inyathelo ngabom, okulinganiselwa njenge yesazisi yokuziphatha womntu, nokubonakalisa ngokwayo sengqondo bakhe kubantu, uluntu kunye nendalo.

isenzo okumisele

Inyathelo ngalinye lenziwa ziincindi ezininzi:

• Injongo. Yintoni ukhokela umntu ukuba athathe amanyathelo.
• Lwela. isenzo ngasinye injongo ethile. Le peculiarity yale njongo esibonakaliswa ifuthe layo phezu izilangazelelo zabanye abantu.
• Ukuguqula into. intshukumo nganye unefuthe ubuntu okanye neqembu yakhe, nto leyo ngokwahlula nto esukela kuyo intshukumo lomntu.
• Kuthethwa. Oko kukuthi, iindlela apho ukwenza iintshukumo ezithile: igama okanye nangezenzo.
• Process. Isenzo ngokwayo.
• Isiphumo. Iinguqulelo eziye zenzeka umntu okanye indalo yakhe.
• Evaluation. Ukuthotyelwa iziphumo yezizathu ekuqaleni.

Izenzo - akukho nje izenzo kufezwa ngumntu yonke imihla, yaye izinto zibe iinjongo ezithile kunye nempembelelo bomntu okanye uluntu.

kwimiba yokuziphatha

Xa kuziwa izenzo, ukuya phambili njalo kuza ingxaki yokuziphatha. Yintoni na isenzo yokuziphatha? Le isenzo uxanduva kwaye abazi, nto leyo alichaphazeli yokuzikhethela kunye nomdla kwabanye abantu.

Kubomi, ingqiqo ukuziphatha yi zinenjongo Balandela ndawonye. Ukuba sithethe yokuziphatha, oko icala yobomi, nto leyo ehambisana kunye nezenzo zabantu, ezenziwayo kunye nesenzo lokwenene. Ukubukela indlela abanye abenza umntu ivelisa umgaqo othile kuye yokuziphatha, leyo kuthiwa yokuziphatha.

inyathelo yokuziphatha usoloko ixabiso ethile yokuziphatha. Ixhomekeka iintshukumisa iziphumo isenzo.

Amandla norms yokuziphatha

Ukuze siqonde ixabiso yokuziphatha izenzo, kuyimfuneko ukuba aqale ukujonga, uphantsi kweempembelelo nayiphi yokuziphatha, uphelele. Ukuziphatha:

• "Good." Oku kuquka imiba efana nokuhlonitshwa, ububele, nemfesane, ukuqonda, nenkathalo.
• "Abangendawo." Yeyiphi eyona olusekelwe kwinkcazelo self-begodu nokuzingca.

yokuziphatha kuphela ukubonisa abantu kufuneka ukuba sikhokelwe yokuziphatha "ezilungileyo". Eqonda ukuba izenzo zokuziphatha okubi kugwetywa uluntu, umntu uva imfuneko ukunyaniseka, ukuthembeka, nembeko kubantu abadala, senze ngobulumko, advisedly nangokuchanekileyo. isenzo ngoko yokuziphatha - isenzo ukuba unalo ixabiso ethile yokuziphatha kwaye kakuhle baqonda kuluntu.

Le ke inkalo nemigangatho yokuziphatha: bonisa umntu isenzo okuhle kokubi.

Man - lo izenzo zakhe

Izenzo kunye nabantu - la magama amabini kuhlangene. Kubomi kusoloko kufuneka wenze izigqibo, ukwenza ukhetho benze izinto. Uthe ke, intsebenziswano enkulu zentlalo kunye nabanye abantu, umntu usoloko nefuthe nakwizibetho zabo.

Ukuthatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo, efuna ukufumana ulonwabo kunye nokuphumeza ofunekayo, ngamanye amaxesha silibale ngayo ubukho enye. Ikhokelwa i "ububi", ukuziphatha lokuzingca, benza okuchasene nomthetho yokuziphatha.

Yaye nje ityala enokuchaphazela okusingqongileyo. Akakukhathalele iingxaki zabanye, ubukrwada ngengqondo, ukungafuni ukuthatha naziphi na izigqibo kunye nezenzo - izenzo, kakhulu, zezo ezisekelwe ukonqena, namdla okanye bachase. Esi sicwangciso kwakhona ngokuba izenzo kakubi, njengokuba oku kunefuthe elibi kwabanye.

Kodwa loo nto zonke; nditsho ilizwi - kuba sisenzo. Njani nje cwaka kwaye ndijonge kude xa umntu kufuneka amazwi akhuthazayo. Lula sohlwayo, unako kuthuka sidanile, nkqu nokuqaphela. Kwaye kunzima ukufumana amagama ngokunyanisekileyo wovuselelo okanye indumiso. Kuba zonke ilizwi, kakhulu, kukho isenzo. Yaye ngokufuthi into enjalo kuthetha okungakumbi kunokuba amanyathelo.

Kuba wonke umntu kufuneka abe umtya uphelayo izenzo zakhe kunye namagama. Ezinye zazo bafanelwe izenzo intlonelo, abanye nkqu ufanelwe isuntswana ingqalelo, kunye nezenzo ezithile inokuchazwa ukuziphatha kakubi. Kodwa kufuneka lungabi nakubekwa bala le, kuba sisiseko yezenzo sesona sizekabani ethile. Phuphumani ke ngumba ezinxulumene injongo enye - bonwabe.