Indlela ukuba athathe uvavanyo - amanye amacebiso

Uvavanyo kunye nokuhlolwa ulalelwe ngonaphakade. Ngaphandle ubaxo, sinokuthi kwi impucuko kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini ananye nzima ubukho bomntu rhoqo. Iimvavanyo ukukhangela ukulungela kunye nolwazi uqale abancinane. Ukuze alunasiphelo. Khumbula zakho jim-hooter phambi kokuba athathe uvavanyo - nokuba zidanga okanye yokungena ... Kodwa oku nje kwasekuqaleni. Okulandelayo iya kuba kwiseshoni umfundi, idiploma, umntu wesibini, wesithathu, imfundo ephakamileyo, izidanga, MBA ... akumanqanaba ezininzi umsebenzi kuya kuthatha ukuhlolwa ngolwimi lwasemzini. Indlela ukuqonda oko Amaqhinga ukuziphatha kunye yoqeqesho ukukhetha?

Kakade ke, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe indlela uviwo, kufuneka isigqibo imiqathango imiba ziya kuchaphazeleka. Njengomgaqo, nkqu kwiimvavanyo wokuhluzela lokugqibela setting kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo aphelela kunye nolwazi ezifunekayo zicaciswe kwangaphambili. Yintoni ekufuneka ukuba uthathe iimviwo sokwamkelwa, nathi, ungakwazi ukufumana phandle ngaphambi kwexesha. eyunivesithi nganye okanye akhademi, Kakade, imithetho yayo kunye neemfuno, Noko ke, unako kwaye kufuneka ufumanise scope kunye namagama lwemibuzo kunye nemisebenzi, ukuthenga iincwadi kulungiso ubuncinane isithuba sonyaka omnye phambi kokwamkelwa kwabafundi.

Nantoni baxelelwa uhletywa kunye namabali abanamava abafundi ukuba ayinonophele njani uvavanyo ukuya utitshala ethile, kuyimfuneko ukuba ukulungele na. Ukuqeqeshwa - ecwangcisiweyo yaye ezolile. Kuba ngobusuku enye, asiyi balinge iintaba ukufunda iincwadi amahlanu. ootitshala abanolwazi ziqala ikhondo yabo ibali malunga ukuthatha indlela uviwo ngalo mbandela. Kuthiwa izimanga ngaphandle.

Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba uyamazi ukuba ayinonophele njani iimviwo, kwaye ukulungele kwi-100%, thina omzimba ukusuka zinto ezikhathazayo. Umbhali ayihlali nje ukuba ubone indlela abafundi balungiselelwe baye basilela kuphela kuba titshala uqal sengqondo okanye isimo embi. Eneneni, abantu thina sonke, yaye kunzima ukuba yenziwe kutitshala zizibakala epheleleyo. Iimvavanyo ngokwemo iimvavanyo ezibhalwayo okanye ikhompyutha waza wathumela ngaso ukuphelisa "nemeko yomntu" kunye nokuhlolwa olungafanelekanga. Noko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uthathe uvavanyo - ngomlomo okanye ezibhaliweyo - to ingoma.

Enye iingcebiso kakhulu eqhelekileyo uthi: musa ukuvumela ngokwakho ukutshona. Kuthetha ntoni oku kuthetha ku umkhuba? Nokuba akunyulwanga ukuba ulungele yonke umthamo umbandela, niyakwazi ukuba omnye, ababini, abathathu okanye ngaphezulu ngeentsontelo. Kunye nobugcisa ukuba indlela ukuhlolwa, kangangokuba, ukuba bafundise mhle kuFeliks nolwazi ukuze bakwazi ukufihla ukungazi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lo mbuzo uqulunqe, xa ungaqinisekanga impendulo, zama ukuphuma ngesihloko esiqhelekileyo. Ezifanayo kunye nemibutho, ukuthelekisa.

rhoqo mood nangokwasengqondweni umfundi bazithembe okanye umfundi ingenza umhloli. Kwelinye icala, ukubonisa ukuba kule ngxaki, zidideke, ngoko nangoko ebangela sengqondo esibi. Thetha kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kwakhona, nangokwengqondo isebenza ngcono kunokuba ekusoluleni "amakhalane" ubuncinane amazwi umfundi ngenkani tu. Makhe umhloli uya kukuxelela "enkosi ngokwaneleyo 'yaye akayi kuzama ukuba incoko.

Enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba a imbonakalo ecocekileyo. iimpahla sekukudala, inkangeleko rumpled esingenakucaciswa yi kukuba "ukulala ubusuku bonke, yaye wafundisa." Phambi kokuba uthathe uviwo, kufuneka nje yokulala kufika ezicocekileyo. Kwaye musa ungayibaxi kunye nadlamkisayo. Basenokuba isiphumo kakhulu, kwaye endaweni ehlise, uphulukene nje ukuzibamba. Kwaye umthetho ibalulekileyo: Khumbula ukuba naluphi na uviwo - oku ke isiphelo sehlabathi na isohlwayo, hayi ubomi ukutshintsha isiganeko, nangona kaninzi oku kubonakala. Oku nje kwesiphumo nqanaba ulwazi oluthile. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ayonto ibalulekileyo - uvavanyo lokwenene wanelisekile kunye nobomi.