I-Psychology yabasetyhini: iNkcubeko kunye nemvelo

Abasini nabasetyhini bajika kwiimfazwe ezingapheliyo. Abanye bathi i-psychology yabasetyhini ihluke kakhulu kwi- psychology yamadoda, abanye bakholelwa ukuba akukho myalelo wesayensi ohlukeneyo. Ngubani o lungile? Mhlawumbi zombini macala. Kodwa kuphela.

I-Amazons iqale kwaye ... iphumelele

Iingcaphephe yabasetyhini ubudlelwane buhluke ngokwenene kwindoda. Kuphela abo baphumelele ebomini babo bodwa ngaba bafazi abakha ukusebenzisana kwabo ngesini esahlukileyo kumzekelo wesilisa. Oko kukuthi, baphatha ngokukhawuleza le nkalo yobomi, bengavumeli ukuba baphathwa. Amadoda anomdla ongathandanga ukulala klushi, kodwa abafazi abaqhakazileyo, abahlakaniphile nabazimeleyo. Baya kutshata nabasetyhini abancinci, kodwa ukuba umntu unako ukufumana umgcini-ndlu, akayi kutshata nomfazi othakazelisayo. Okokuthi, umyinge weempawu zengqondo zomfazi - uphawu lokungabikho kwemali yabantu.

Ukuxhomekeka kokumiselwa

Iingcaphephe yabasetyhini ngokumalunga nemali idibene neenkcubeko zenkcubeko. Ngokwezimo zengingqi, imeko eqhelekileyo xa umntu equlethe umfazi, kwaye uchitha imali yakhe kwizinto ezinobunzima, okwandisa ukwanda kwengqondo yakhe. Yaye ngokwenene, nokuba umfazi ozuza kakuhle akanakukhathazeka, ukuba ubuncinci kuba yindlalifa eyinqobo kwintsapho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, "umvuzo" ukucalulwa kwezesondo ezifanelekileyo kutyhala ioli phezu komlilo. Lo mcimbi uqulethwe kwinto yokuba abafazi bahlawulwa kakhulu. Ukususela ekubaleni ukuba kugcinwe konke okufana nokuba umntu "unyanzelekile".

Indlela yokuhla

Ingaba i-psychology yowesifazane otshatileyo uhlukile kwi-psychology engashadile? Ewe, enamandla ngokwaneleyo. Kwaye, ngelanga, kuba kubi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, emva komtshato, kukho ukungcola, kokubili ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubangelwa umtshato kwinkcubeko yethu. Kubonakala ukuba imeko yowesifazane otshatileyo, yanda ngokuphawulekayo (ngendlela, isimo somntu ngexesha elifanayo linciphisa).

Musa ukukhawuleza

Umfazi o tshatileyo uhlala ephumla kwiindawo zakhe zokuzilahla. Kodwa ngelize. Kungenxa yokuba kwimeko yokuqhawula umtshato, abantwana baya kufuneka banikezele, kwaye kunzima ukutshata kwakhona kunye nabantwana basekuqaleni "nahlebnitsa". Ngoko inkcubeko yethu yokuhlonela uThixo ngokuphathelele umtshato iba yintlekele yabesifazane. Mhlawumbi kulula ukuba uqale ukuphatha umtshato nje njengenxalenye yobomi, kungekhona ebaluleke kakhulu? Abantwana abaqali ngenxa yokuba "kwenzeka", kodwa ngenxa yokuba ndifuna ukwabelana ngolonwabo lobomi, obusebenzayo. Kwaye kuphela, xa unako ukubonelela inzala yakho, kwaye ungathembeli "kwiinkosana"?

Sahlukile

I-psychology yabasetyhini ihluke kwi-psychology yamadoda kungekhona nje ngenxa yeempembelelo zenkcubeko. Sineemvelaphi ezahlukeneyo ze-hormonal, ubuchopho busebenza kancinci (kungekubi kakhulu, kodwa luhluke kakhulu) kwaye kukho umnqweno wokuzinza ubudlelwane. Kodwa kungcono ukudlala umdlalo wendoda, ukudala indoda imeko yokuzingela bonke ubomi bakhe. Ukuba umntu uyaba nomdla, uyashiya. Kwesinye, kuwe. Okanye utywala. Ngoko ke, musa ukukhuthaza iintlobo zabasetyhini bendalo babo - umfazi wanamhlanje, ongakhuselekanga ngokuziphatha kwemveli, kungcono ukuhlala entloko, kungekhona intliziyo.