Indlela yokuququzelela umntwana lokuphola in zivaliwe

Yintoni na enawe umntwana ngethuba leeholide, indlela ukulungiselela lokuphola luncedo. Ngexesha leeholide zasehlotyeni, ingakumbi umbuzo etsolo othi, mandenze ntoni na umntwana xa abazali emsebenzini? Ukuze umntwana akakho ndidikwe, kunye iholide yakhe ukuba ukhumbule kuye ixesha elide, ungayithumela khona inkampu yabantwana emaphandleni okanye elwandle. Xa yeminquba yoonyana phantsi kweliso kootitshala kunye noogqirha, badle rhoqo kwaye bagcine imo imini. Oku plus enkulu yale holide. Kwakhona, abantwana kuchitha iiholide zabo kwiinkampu, ngokuqhelekileyo Ungafumana okuninzi abahlobo abatsha kunye nezihlobo, uluvo ezi hambo ngokuqhelekileyo kuhlala ngokusisigxina. Ezi nkampu zikholisa zibekwe ngaphandle kwesixeko, ukubonelela umoya kunye nolonwabo elimangalisayo yaphandle. A okunye okuhle kweminquba iya kuba uhambo emaphandleni kunye nezalamane.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ehleli ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba ucinge into aya kuba exakeke ngelixa abazali babo emsebenzini. Masikhumbule ebuntwaneni bakhe, khumbula turntable kunye ntaba namabali, leyo waphulaphula ngomoya bated ukuba izihlandlo ezimbalwa? Ngoku kukho enye indlela ethile yokuzonwabisa ezinjalo, le audiobook kunye iintsomi. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise lo mdlali. Ukuthengwa neencwadi ezishicilelwe emacwecweni kuye iintsomi okanye ezinye iincwadi, ezifanelekileyo yobudala bakhe. zokuzonwabisa Ezo zifundo zinokudityaniswa kunye ukulungiselela unyaka wesikolo olandelayo. Buza ukuba uncwadi lanikwa ukufunda phezu ehlotyeni, ukufumana audiobook kunye noncwadi, kuya kuba ayilolongezo elikhulu izinto zokufunda. Ngokuba ngoku kukho inani elikhulu leencwadi ibhalwe ngobuchule ezirekhodiweyo kunye ngohlobo edlalwa eziviwayo, nomculo okanye nje kakuhle ukufunda yi abadlali abaqeqeshiweyo zetekisi.

Fundisa iintlobo ezintsha zokuzonwabisa umntwana wakho. Mhlawumbi kulukuhla macrame, mhlawumbi origami. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba puzzle umdla okanye umbala. Thenga umntwana wakho embalwa ibhodi ngokuhlangeneyo imidlalo ukuba belikhona ithuba lokudlala nabo kunye nabahlobo bakho. Fumanisa ukuba ukutya kwiziko yezolonwabo abantwana bakho lesixeko, apho umntwana akwazi ukuhamba apho baze badl nayiphi "kwizangqa" ekuthiwa. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba kunokwenzeka, chitha nomntwana wakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka, hamba naye iimovie iithiyetha iifilimu zabantwana nokwenziwa. Ukunciphisa ukuba ezu, okanye athathe i ndakhwela phezu ephalisa epakini, umthiye naye emsebenzini. Ayikho into ibe luncedo ngakumbi umntwana ezibalulekileyo nonxibelelwano oluhle kunye nabazali.