Ukubulawa - 'kuba' yaye 'nxamnye' kuluntu namhlanje

Suku ngalunye abantu abaninzi bacinga ngayo ukubulawa, kodwa uluvo lwabo ngokwesiseko ziphikisana. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba into entle, kwaye abanye - ukubulawa ekufuneka aluvumelekanga ngokungqongqo. Kutshanje, amazwe aseYurophu, ezifana Belgium, eNetherlands, Luxembourg, ngokusemthethweni isigqibo sokuba kwizazi ezifuna bendlela abantu bathethe phandle, uphulaphule izimvo apho uluntu kwamkelekile. Kukwanjalo uya kuba US States of Oregon ne Washington. Kodwa phantse onke amanye amazwe kunye US ithi abamelene, ecinga ngayo ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Ukubulawa eRashiya kwakhona akuvumelekanga kwaye wohlwaywe ngumthetho.

ingqiqo jikelele

Ukuze siqonde ukuba ukubulawa na, kwaye ngokuchasene nokusetyenziswa leyo ngokufuthi wavakalisa abantu kufuneka bawuqhele ezinye izibonelelo ezisisiseko. iintlobo ezimbini ukubulawa zingahlukaniswa - iyasebenza kwisixando sokwenziwa. Xa uhlobo nje ibonelela ukwaliwa unyango, nto leyo exhasa isigulane, kwaye esebenzayo - lawuleni kwawo nawuphi na iziyobisi okanye izenzo ukuba bufutshane ubomi yesigulane ukwenza. Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba umahluko phakathi vukele kunye ukubulawa ngokuzithandela. Ukuba isigulana abazi, nguye lo ilungelo lokufikelela esigqibeni sokuba ngaba ukuqhubeka siphila okanye hayi. Ukuba akunjalo, ngoko ke isigqibo idla kuthathwe ukuba izihlobo zakhe.

ngamacala amabini ingqekembe

Enye yeengxaki impikiswano zezonyango mihla ukubulawa, iingenelo neengozi usebenzisa kunjalo akukho lula ukufumana. Kwelinye icala, inkqubela zonyango Bazamile ngempumelelo isigulane nokugcina ubomi bakhe ngoncedo izixhobo ezikhethekileyo kunye neziyobisi, kodwa bambalwa abantu bacinge ngaloo nto, ukuba umntu ufuna ukuba uhlobo ubomi, ukuba akukho themba achache. Ukongeza, ngethiyori, umntu ngamnye unelungelo ukulahla ebomini ngokokubona kwakhe. Kodwa enyanisweni kwenzeka ukuba abantu benze xa bathe baba imilwelwe, andisakwazi ukwenza nantoni na ngaloo nto, yaye inceba izalamane, ngaphandle unelungelo lokuba nezinto ezizezakhe ubomi babo iyanqanyulwa.

zokuziphatha

Ingxaki ephambili ukubulawa - cala yayo yokuziphatha. Abachasi nenkqubo bathi, enyanisweni, ukubulawa i ukubulala esiqhelekileyo, nto leyo ithetha ukuba iqela elithile labantu ukufumana ilungelo lokugqiba, umntu kufuneka ubomi okanye hayi, yaye enze ngokungqinelana isigqibo sayo. Abaxhasi ukubulawa, ngokuchasene noko, bakholelwa ukuba ivumele umntu ukuba ulawulo lokugqibela ikamva labo, yena unelungelo.

ubomi bokwenyani

Practice ubonisa ukuba ipesenti encane abantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-40 ubudala ucinga ngokufa kwakhe, yaye ingxaki efana ukubulawa, iingenelo neengozi nalapho kukho izizathu ezininzi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo kufuneka azihlole ngenyameko. Abantu of pre-retirement kunye nobudala umhlala kwakhona kunqabile ukuba ucinga ukuba baya Bayayigqiba imihla yabo yokugqibela, oko kuchazwe nomqondo ka ngabemi Russian, abakholelwa ukuba iingcamango ezinjalo kuba 'uthandana nomntu intlekele "ngayo. Nale meko efanayo kubangelwa, kwaye inani irekhodi eliphantsi kwimiyolelo ukuba sibhalwe eRashiya, njengoko abantu abanomdla kancinane koko kuza kwenzeka ntoni emva kokufa kwabo.

Ubomi lwenzelwe kukuphathela uvuyo ubukho ngamampunge, kuxhomekeke koomatshini ubomi inkxaso ukuba nabani umntu onwabe. Kumazwe amaninzi iintsapho zehlabathi banyanzeleka nje lokuqhawula izigulane ezivela izithuthi, ngoko ke musa ukuba eninzi imali yokondla zabo. Kulo mzekelo, isisombululo egqibeleleyo bekuya kuba sisigqibo ngokuzithandela phambili isigulane ukuba uyavumelana nkqubo, kunye namaphepha ukutyikitywa ukuba babambe ukubulawa kwisixando sokwenziwa. Kuba kunye umntu ngamnye uya kuba nezizathu zabo. Kumazwe amaninzi, le ngcamango kuhlangene ukuba iziko umnikelo: kumazwe Western aseYurophu, ezo ke wayethanda ukuba abezopolitiko zethu kunye namagosa babekholelwa ukuba wonke umntu, othe ngexesha ubomi bakhe liye lakhupha uyaphika, unako ukunikela.