Umama ongatshatanga asisizathu sokudabuka!

I-loner iyinqanawa yomntu omnye, liqela lehashe elinye, ngulo msebenzi omnye kwintsapho. Ukuba kumyeni wakho umncinci womtshato awuhlosisi, kwaye kwisatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana ukuba "ubaba" ubala ungenanto, uze ube yedwa.

Umama ongatshatangayo asikho isigwebo, kukuvavanywa okufuneka ukuba utshathwe endleleni eya kuvuyo ubomi. Akumangazi ukuhlala wedwa, kuyatshwenyeka ukuba ungayigxinyi ukulala ebomini bakho kwaye ungayiva igama elithi "mama". Isabelo somntu siwela iimvavanyo ezininzi njengoko unako ukunyamezela nokugqithisa. Musa "ukuhlambalaza". Ukuba ulapha kule meko, ngoko kusemgangathweni lakho. Kufuneka uzinakekele kungekuphela kwakho, kodwa kunye nexabiso elincinci eliza kufuna ukuba unakekele kwaye uluthande. Kwaye ekukhuliseni kwakhe kwaye ugcine uya kufuna iimandla ezimbini kunye nomonde.

Ukuba ungumama ongatshatanga, uncedo, uncedo lwezemali kwaye uncede uza kuba luncedo kakhulu.

Ufanele ukwazi ukuba:

• Akukho mqeshi unelungelo lokwenqaba isicelo sakho sengqesho ngenxa yokuba unomntwana. Ukuba wenqaba, kufuneka ufumane iingxelo ezicacileyo malunga nesizathu sokuba unqatshelwe. Unokumangalela ukuba amalungelo akho aphulwa.
• Akukho mntu oyakukutsala ukuba usebenze ixesha elingaphezu kwemvume yakho, ade ade afinyelele kwiminyaka emihlanu.
• Ukuba ufuna, ngoko unako ukubeka ixesha lexeshana (de kube umntwana eneminyaka eyi-14 ubudala).
• Unokuthatha ikhefu elongezelelweyo ehlawulwa ixesha eli-14 kwixesha elifanelekileyo kuwe.
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ikhefu lokugula lihlawulwa ngokupheleleyo, emva kweminyaka engama-7 - iintsuku ezili-15 kuphela.
• Awunelungelo lokugxotha ukunciphisa okanye ezinye izizathu ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-14 ubudala. Ukwahlukana nokuphula umthetho oqinileyo.

Kananjalo unga:

• Ukukhulula ukufumana iisethi zempahla yengane yentsana esanda kuzalwa kunye nokutya kwebisi (ngokubhekiselele kwisinconywa sogqirha wengane).
• Umntwana wakho unelungelo lokufumana ama-50% eenzuzo zamachiza. Iinkonzo zelaphu ye-massage zikhululekile.
• Ukungena kwi-kindergarten, umntwana wakho ubizwa ngokuba ngu-turn, kwaye ufumana isaphulelo sama-50% kwisiqulatho sayo kuwo.
• Emva kokwamkelwa esikolweni, umntwana wakho uya kufumana izibonelelo zokutya.
• Unokufumana isaphulelo ukuze uhlawule zonke iintlobo zeesigidi.
• Ukuba uneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-35, unokuthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo yezindlu.

Unina ongabodwa: isibonelelo, isinxephezelo, inzuzo ngo-2013

Bonke abesifazana bayazi malunga neentlawulo zemimandla kunye neengingqi zokukhulelwa nokuzala . Kodwa kukho ezinye iinzuzo kunye neenzuzo ezenziwe ngokukodwa kubasetyhini abakhulisa abantwana bodwa.

• Kubo, ukuncitshiswa kweerhafu ezimbini kwiindleko zokunyamekela umntwana ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.
• Umama ongatshatanga ohlala eMoscow oneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala angalindela i-ruble engama-675 (umvuzo wokuphakamisa indleko yokutya). Kubantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-16 ubudala - iiruble ezingama-300.
• Umama ongatshatanga ohlala nomntwana kwindawo yokuhlala engekho yangasese unelungelo lokuhlawulwa kwembuyekezo.
• Inzuzo eyahlukileyo ngenxa yoomama abakhulisa abantwana abakhubazekileyo. Ubukhulu bayo buyi-6,000 zamaRuble.

Ezi zihlobo zeenzuzo kunye neenzuzo. Olunye ulwazi malunga nazo zonke iintlawulo onelungelo lokufumaneka kwiziko loncedo loluntu kwisixeko sakho.