Umbuzo lwenyanga: zingaphi iminyaka ukubiza emkhosini?

emibuzo afanelekileyo kakhulu kwaye volnitelen lokudlula emkhosini nawuphi na umntu oselula. Imibono mbandela zahluke kakhulu enye kwenye. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba le nkonzo eyenza umntwana oyinkwenkwe, ngoxa abanye bazise iingxoxo zabo baxhasa abantu umkhosi kokuchitha ixesha labo, phantsi baze babe "nabalimi ezirhabaxa uncouth." Kakade ke, wonk 'ubani ochaphazelekayo kunye umbuzo kweminyaka emingaphi ukubiza emkhosini.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe kanjalo ukuba esi sihloko unomdla kakhulu kwabasetyhini. Ukuba unina yayindikhathaza abantwana babo ngaphezu bona. "ISibasi emlilweni" wongeze kwikholam kunye nomabonakude ukusasaza intlebendwane ukuba ukwazisa uluntu malunga ngozi, iziqalelo ze "abanye" kunye nezinye elibi kwimikhosi exhobileyo. Ngenxa yoko, le migca nefoni arhente zomthetho shushu nje imibuzo malunga nokuba yintoni ubudala ukubiza emkhosini. ERashiya, ifowuni yenziwa ukuya kwiminyaka 27 - oku impendulo abacebisi kunye neengcali kwi sifundo.

ukubuthwa

Kukho izizathu eziliqela ngenxa apho umntu onelungelo elisemthethweni deferment kwinkonzo yomkhosi. Isizathu sokuqala - kukuba ukufumana imfundo ephakamileyo. Kulo mzekelo, i conscript abawuthobeli emkhosini ngexesha loqeqesho. Kodwa kude yintoni ubudala? Ukubuthwa abathwele yonke indawo, yaye ngenxa yoko iinkampani iqanjwa zabantu ezahlukeneyo (umntu-18, yaye umntu - engama-27). Ahluke hayi indawo yokuhlala, kodwa inqubo, ezopolitiko kunye neenkolelo zonqulo kuphela.

Edidayo ngumba wokuba ukuba iminyaka emininzi Kulungile ukuya emkhosini. Xa ukhetha le ndlela kamsinya nje waphumelela esikolweni, kukho ithuba ukufumana phantsi kwempembelelo embi. Yaye kwimeko apho umntu ayakhekanga kude kube sekupheleni, loo nto ingatshintsha ukuba mandundu.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba uya umkhosi emva kokuphumelela, le nkqubo iza kucinywa ngenxa inkohlakalo yakhe, irrationality kwaye unganelangal (kuyacaca okanye real). Kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ukuthobela Awaxela, abancinane ngaphezu ubudala, ingakumbi kwezo zihlandlo xa odolo zazo angeniswa usisiyatha. Ngoko ke, abaninzi bazama ukufunda ngokusesikweni ukuba kwiminyaka emininzi njani ubiza emkhosini.

Wempi usapho

Akukho nzima ukuba baqashele ukuba abo umba usapho kwenzeka kakhulu malunga kweminyaka emingaphi de awathunyelwa emkhosini. Xa ukuzalwa komntwana wokuqala unikwa ukulibaziseka iminyaka emithathu, kodwa emva kweli xesha le ndoda kwakhona abe noxanduva emkhosini. Nzima kakhulu ukuba aye emkhosini, xa une usana kunye nomfazi abafuna inkxaso yakho, uncedo kunye nothando!

Ukuze umntwana (ingakumbi kule minyaka yokuqala yobomi) kubaluleke kakhulu ebusweni kayise. Ebudeni sicatshulwa emkhosini, Kakade ke, loo mntu uya kunikhulula usapho lwakhe, kodwa kuya kubakho kwakhona kaninzi kanye ngeveki (idla ngeempela-veki). Ngenxa yoko, oqulunqwe ukungenela umkhosi, yaye yintoni amathuba apho bangayi kuba yonke intsapho impendulo obalulekileyo umbuzo oko ubudala.