Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, umntwana ufuna ukunakekelwa okhethekileyo. Ungakulibali ukuba umntwana akanakuphendula imibuzo malunga nemeko yakhe yempilo kwaye akhalaze nge-malaise. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, abazali kufuneka bajonge kakuhle indlela umntwana aziphatha ngayo. Iindlela eziphambili zokuvavanya isimo somntwana - ixesha lokulala nokutya. Ubungakanani obuza kulala usana emva kokuzalwa, kunye nazo zonke iinyanga ezilandelayo?
Imigangatho yesahlulo sokuqala sonyaka
Xa umntwana usanda kuzalwa, iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala uhlala elele, evuka nje ukuba adle, okanye azive engathandeki - umzekelo, ukuba ushushu okanye ubanda. Ngokumalunga okufanayo kuya kwinyanga yokuqala yokuqala, kuba ngeli xesha ixesha lomntwana litshintsha kwiimeko ezintsha. Ubungakanani obusana obuthandayo obuthongo ngalo mhla kule minyaka? Ngenyanga yokuqala umntwana angalala kwiiyure ezingama-19. Musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana uyavuka zonke iiyure ezimbalwa ekulaleni. Ngethuba lokuvusa, kufuneka uqhube iinkqubo zokucoceka kwaye uxoxe nosana. Ngokuthe ngcembe, umntwana uqala ukulala ngaphantsi nangaphantsi - kwiinyanga ezimbini ubude bemihla ngemihla bu malunga neeyure eziyi-16. Njengoko uneminyaka yobudala, ixesha lokuvuka linyuka, umntwana uqala ukuba nomdla kwiimidlalo kunye nommandla ojikelezayo.
Xa kukufanelekile ukucinga ngemodi?
Kakade, emva nje kokuzalwa komntwana, kusekuqaleni ukuthetha ngolawulo. Kodwa njengoko umntwana ekhula, kubalulekile ukugcina ixesha lokulala ebusuku. Ubungakanani umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nobantwana abalele kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala zobomi? Umsebenzi wakho kukunyusa ngokukhawuleza ixesha eliphakathi kokutya okubusuku, kwaye emva koko uyawayeka ngokupheleleyo. Sekuqaleni ezintandathu ezintandathu umntwana usenokulala iiyure ezili-11 ebusuku. Kukho amaxesha amaninzi xa iintsana zidibanisa ixesha losuku. Ukuthintela ukuphulwa okunjalo, zama ukudlala nokuqhuba imisebenzi yentuthuko kunye nosana, ebusuku, vuka kuphela ukunyusa umntwana, uze umkhuphe kwakhona.
Ubuthongo obusana kufuneka lube lukhulu kangakanani? Ungayilungisa njani urhulumente welo suku?
Kubantwana abancinci, iinkqubo eziqhubekayo zibaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba uphumelele embhedeni, unokuhlamba umntwana, umfundele inganekwane okanye ufake ingoma ethile. Ukuvuswa kubuye kuqalwe kunye nomyalelo othile wezenzo. Sekudlulileyo kwiinyanga ezi-2-3 ungaqala ukwenza umthambo womntwana okanye i-gymnastics. Ungalibali ngokuphuhlisa imidlalo kunye neeklasi. Khumbula ukuba yonke imigaqo malunga nokuba umntwana ozelwe usana kufuneka alele njani. Ukwahlukana kwimodi yeeyure eziyi-1-2 (kungakhathaliseki ukuba, kunye nokunciphisa) kuvumeleke ngokupheleleyo. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana alale kakuhle phantsi kweemeko ezikhethekileyo, umzekelo, ukuba isisu sakhe siba buhlungu okanye amazinyo ahlaselwe. Ukuba ubona iingxaki ngokulala nomntwana, zama ukufumanisa isizathu sazo kwaye uyisuse. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, qhagamshelana nodokotela. Ungathembela ngokwakho ukujonga - akufuneki ukuba wazi yonke into malunga nosana, kodwa ekugqibeleni uza kuziva umntwana wakho kwaye uyayiqonda ngaphandle kwamagama. Abanye abantwana balala bexakeka, ngoxa abanye balala ngasemva komama wabo, kwaye isithathu sidinga ukuthula. Zama ukubeka umntwana ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye kungekudala uza kuphawula ukuba iingxaki zolawulo lwemihla zidlulileyo.