Yintoni isivumelwano malunga nentlawulo isondlo

Kwilizwe lethu, phantse zonke umtshato wesibini uphelela kuqhawulo-mtshato. Ngoko ke, igama elithi "isondlo" yaziwa bonke. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba ahlawule umntu ukuba umntwana elishiyekileyo bakhe ex-umfazi, kodwa ke kukho iimeko xa imali ihlawulwe abafazi ex-umyeni, lo gama umntwana wayehlala noyise.

Ngokwahlukileyo inkolelo ethandwayo, ukuba umfazi abe ngexesha, yaye umntwana - ngonaphakade, hayi zonke ubawo ufuna kwaye kumnika waphila obutofotofo. Ngamanye amaxesha oko ekhuthazwa iyantlukwano ngaphakathi phakathi amaqabane zangaphambili, maxa wambi yezizathu njongo, ezifana imivuzo ephantsi. Kwelinye icala, abazali ngubani abachaphazelekayo impilo-ntle womntwana jikelele zisayine isivumelwano intlawulo yesondlo - uxwebhu sichaza umyalelo kunye nobungakanani kweentlawulo. Isondlo efunyenwe ngokwesivumelwano, ukuze ibe ngaphantsi kwe-isondlo ezifunyenwe yi ziinkundla. Enye into kukuba kulo mzekelo bavumelane utshintsho lwento, okanye ixesha kweentlawulo.

Ngokomthetho, umzali kufuneka ukuba ahlawule ikota ingeniso umntwana enye, isinye kwisithathu abantwana ababini kunye nesiqingatha omvuzo esemthethweni ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu. Umnqweno mutual wabalingane zangaphambili angenza isivumelwano intlawulo yenkxaso yomntwana, leyo uya kuyalela ukuba iintlawulo kuya kwenziwa kuphela imivuzo esemthethweni, kwaye kwezinye imithombo yengeniso (zokuhlala eziqeshisayo njalo njalo. D.).

Enye indlela - ukucacisa imali esisigxina kunokuba iqhezu yomvuzo. Esinjalo kwisivumelwano isondlo esayiniweyo xa kukho iqabane akukho mthombo isigxina yengeniso, okanye xa unawo amandla nokuzimisela ukuba ahlawule isixa kwindawo ngentla (umzekelo, umthetho ithembele qho ngenyanga amawaka 5. Engange, kwisivumelwano uyise uya kuhlawula amawaka 15. Engange).

Ngokucelwa mutual amaqela zingaqinisekisa isivumelwano intlawulo yesondlo esikhulu isixa semali. Kulo mzekelo, kwaba yonke imali ngenxa abantwana uninzi lwabo. Umzekelo: i sibini emva kokuba ukwahlulwa kwepropati banelungelo kwisabelo ngokulinganayo indlu. Owayesakuba amaqabane unokuvuma ukuba uyise ushiya abantwana bakhe ukuba nesabelo ngendleko ukuthembela isondlo. Oko kukuthi, umfazi kunye nabantwana babeya kuhlala indlu enye, nto leyo iba ipropati yabo etyhidiweyo, kunye noyise wazisusa yemini isondlo nyanga pay.

Phantsi kwesivumelwano, awukwazi ukuhlawula imali yesondlo kunye nokutya, amayeza, impahla, ukuthenga izinto, okanye ukusebenzisa zokufundisa.

Onke amalungiselelo zisekelwe iminqweno yabantwana, ukuqinisekisa ngokwanelisayo iimfuno zabo. Ngoko ke, ngenxa yokuba isondlo akunakwenzeka ukuba ukudlulisela into okanye impahla, akuyomfuneko apho umntwana (umzekelo, ulwakhiwo lwezindlu olungxamisekileyo okanye kwincwadi wesithathu).

Isivumelwano isondlo kubameli. Kwimeko apho litshintsha imo yezemali zamaqela, ngokwesivumelwano ngokuvumelana nako ipheliswe, njengokuba uluntu izivumelwano. Unilaterally izilungiso okanye avuselele isivumelwano, ungakwazi kuphela ngokomyalelo wenkundla.

Kukho iindidi ezininzi zabantu, nto leyo kunganxulunyaniswa ukuhlawula isondlo. Umzekelo, umsebenzi kungabekwa phezu abadala abantwana eyomeleleyo kunye eyomeleleyo ukunceda abazali babo abakhulileyo, abasweleyo. Oku kwakhona isicelo amaqabane zangaphambili kwiimeko emiselwe ngumthetho. Bonke aba bantu alimentoobyazannym abemi kuqala.

Ukuba akunjalo, umsebenzi ukuze ugqithele imiphefumlo lesibini ibakala. Abadala kunye nabantu afanelekileyo kufuneka ukunceda abazalwana babo abasweleyo noodade senze. Oomakhulu banyanzelekile ukuba ukunceda nabazukulwana babo abazukulwana engathethekiyo abadala - ziqulathe nootatomkhulu imilwelwe. Abantwana beqabane kunye nabafundi kufuneka ukunceda abo basweleyo, ndibanyuse ngexesha elifanelekileyo.