Ngaba inkqubo ye-Eiser ifanele okanye imbi?

Ngaba uyazi ukuba inkqubo ye-Eiser ikhona kuphela kwinjini yosesho yolwimi lwaseRussia. Sicinga ukuba le ndlela yindlela yaseJapane yokufundisa abantwana basesikolweni. Kodwa nayiphi na injini yokukhangela kumaziko angaphandle ayifumani nantoni na kwisicelo "I-system ye-Eiser". I-Wikipedia nayo ayikwazi into enjalo. Kwaye eJapan, inkqubo enjalo, kuyo yonke into, nayi. Oko kucela umbuzo: "Iyintoni inkqubo yezemfundo kaEiser?"

Emazweni asempuma kukho umgaqo othile wabazali kwimeko yokufumana amava okuphila ngabantwana. Oku kuboniswa ngokungabikho kokuphazamiseka. Ngokomzekelo, abazali baseJapan abayi kuyeka ukulwa, ukuvumela umntwana ukuba afumane amava akhe asekuhlaleni. Nangona ngenxa yokusebenzisa umgaqo-nkqubo wokungabikho kokuphazamiseka, amaJapane acinga ukuba abantwana babo babebagula kakhulu emhlabeni.

Abazali bethu, bethola amava aseJapan, bayalibala ngeengqondo ezahlukeneyo kunye neemeko zentlalo. Ukongezelela, inkqubo ye-Eisera idlulisa ngokugqithiseleyo isidingo sokususa izibhengezo kubantwana.

EJapan, akusiyo isiko lokunciphisa abantwana kwimisebenzi yabo, ngokungakhathaliseki ukuba akulimazi umntwana okanye abanye abantu. Abantwana abavame ukuhlwaywa, ukuwayeka ukuzonwabisa kwabo ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa isijeziso sikhona kwifom elula. Inkqubo yokukhulisiswa ihlelwe ngendlela enokuthi umntu unamathele kwixesha elide elincinci lokuziphatha.

Sichaza oku njengokungabikho ngokupheleleyo kwezibhengezo kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7 ubudala. Khawucinge ngenye imeko umntwana wakho afuna ukubeka intambo yocingo kwi-outlet, ngaba uya kumvumela? Ndiyathandabuze. Yaye ucinga ukuba uwela phakathi kwevenkile kwaye ufuna umdlalo. Unelungelo lokwenza njalo. Uyamfundisa kule nkqubo. Uyakuthanda njani oku?

Ukuphambuka nokubhubhisa umntwana akufani. Yintoni esiya kuyenza ngokuvumela umntwana konke, njengoko inkqubo ye-Eiser iyincoma? I-Intanethi igcwele imizekelo yale mfundo yabantwana. Andiyithandi kakhulu ukuba ibe kwindawo yamaxhoba abo bantwana. Abazali, ukuthatha uxanduva kubo, ngokungathandabuzeki kakhulu baququzelele ubomi babo. Kulula kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuthetha ukuba sikhulisa umntwana ngaphandle kwemimiselo, kunokumfundisa ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo.

Inkqubo ye-Eiser inomsebenzi oncomekayo, ofanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo kuwo wonke amazwe kunye nomzali ngamnye. Musa ukumnqabela umntwana nantoni na! Musa ukumemeza! Musa ukumgxeka ngenxa yokuzama ukwenza into engalunganga! Umntwana ngumntu omncinci! Ngaba uthanda ukuvalwa okanye ukukhala ekhelini lakho? Hayi, kunjalo. Masi ke, endaweni yamagama athi "oku akunakwenziwa," musa ukukwenza oku "," ungenzi nto ", siya kuthi" akulungile ukwenza oko, kuba ... ". Ngamnye wethu uyazi ukuba kutheni le nto okanye leyo imbi okanye ayikho, kwaye umntwana engayazi okwamanje. Chaza kuye. Sebenzisa ukucacisa kumagama alula kwaye aqondakalayo, unike imizekelo uze umvumele umntwana abhekise kwimeko ukusuka kwelinye icala.

Umntwana akumele afunde kuphela amava kubazali. Kufuneka aqonde ezininzi izinto ngokwakhe. Kodwa ukugatya indima yomzali ekukhuliseni, kumnika ithuba lokwenza konke, akunakukhetha. Kumele ukhokele umntwana wakho, uchaze kuye, uthintele izenzo ezilimaza yena nabanye. Ungavumeli! Uncede ukuqonda ukuba oku akulungile!