Ngoobani iindlalifa kwinqanaba lokuqala?

Nkqu nabantu abangawaziyo kwimithetho ekhoyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ndikuvile ibinzana elithi "kwinqanaba lokuqala iindlalifa", "iindlalifa lesibini ibakala." Ngubani iquka?

Umthetho uvumela umyoleli ukuba ushiye impahla yakhe nakubani na. Asiyiyo yodwa mntu, kodwa abantu zomthetho, nkqu kumazwe angaphandle - ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubhale umyolelo esixhasa umntu okanye umbutho. Ke ngoko yonke impahla, ngokwentando kunye ukuthanda kwalowo unqophisileyo, kuya yiya kwidilesi elikhankanyiweyo, nkqu phambi elinesibini izalamane.

Kodwa xa kukho umyolelo, ipropati unqophisileyo emva kokufa ziya kufumana iindlalifa kwinqanaba lokuqala. Aba ngowenyama yenyama ekufutshane abantu - abantwana, abazali, amaqabane.

Abantwana. Ngokusemthethweni ezaziwayo okanye ngokusemthethweni ukuba wamkelwe. Ukuba umyoleli sele kuvinjwa lwamalungelo abazali okanye umntwana ngokusesikweni yamkela umntu eyahlukileyo - umntwana akanalo ilungelo lokuba ilifa layo. Ukuba eyamkelwa kwi isigqibo senkundla igcina ubudlelwane kunye nezalamane igazi, kuquka nabazali bam - unelungelo lokuba Ifa ngendlela emiselwe ngumthetho.

Abantwana yamitha kodwa bangekazalwa ngexesha ukufa kwalowo unqophisileyo, nako amabango isabelo sawo ilifa. Kulo mzekelo, ezinye contenders banyanzelekile ukuba silinde indlalifa ekukhanyeni kwaye kwangoko yahlula impahla. Faka ku izivumelwano kulo mzekelo, ukuba umama okhulelwe.

abazukulwana umyoleli ukuba kokusweleka kwabazali babo. Enyanisweni, kulo mzekelo, umntwana ilifa yipropathi mpahla, kodwa xa ukufa kwakhe ekuqhubekekeni lasekunene isabelo selifa iya ngabazukulwana. Yaye ukuba abazukulwana ezimbalwa, phakathi kwabo ukwabelana isabelo ilifa abazali babo.

Abazali womfi, ukuba ngexesha lokungena ilifa usaphila. Umama abelwe share uxhulumano kunye noyise, kuphela xa kuye kwaqatshelwa ngokusemthethweni njengoko enjalo ndahlala nomama wakhe umtshato osemthethweni.

Umlingane naye lowo unqophisileyo wayetshatile ngokusemthethweni ngexesha lokufa. Owayesakuba amaqabane awuna lungelo.

Yonke isigaba sokuqala weendlalifa zomthetho banamalungelo alinganayo xa ungena lilifa - abantwana, abazali kunye amaqabane ukufumana isakhiwo alinganayo. Abazukulwana ukufumana isabelo, ethembele abazali babo nomthetho, nale sheya sele ahlulwe alinganayo phakathi kwabo.

Iindlalifa sesibini isigaba na izihlobo iindlalifa kwinqanaba lokuqala. It ugogo, abazalwana noodade. Baya kufika amalungelo ilifa xa kungekho iindlalifa kwinqanaba lokuqala, okanye zabonakala bengafanelwanga lilifa, negolibo ishiywe nje zingene elifeni.

Ilifa ngentando

Ukususela kumhla wokufa komntu ivula ithuba lokuvula ilifa. Ngosuku lokuqala kugqalwa umhla obuchazwe kwisiqinisekiso sokufa, okanye umhla ebekumele, ukuba kucace ukufa kwalowo unqophisileyo yasekwa enkundleni. Ukuba umntu iye yanikelwa kambi, unako ukufuna impahla yakhe banikwa ziindlalifa ngaphandle izibambiso kunye nemali.

Ukususela kumhla lokuvula ilifa elivela kwiindlalifa ezinokubakho kufuneka iinyanga ezintandathu ukuya amabango amalungelo abo ilifa. Eli thuba linokwandiswa ziinkundla, ukuba indlalifa wayengazi nto malunga ukufa kwalowo unqophisileyo, okanye isicelo libe lilifa ngenxa yezizathu ezisemthethweni.

Ukuba umfi zange ashiye umyolelo, khosi ilifa emthethweni, kuqala, Kakade ke, iindlalifa kudidi lokuqala zebango. Musa ukulibala ukuba impahla, kunye nezalamane legophe elikufutshane, ungenza ibango abaxhomekekileyo abakhubazekileyo kwenkathalo umfi kunye iyaqukwa noko enye 7 Ufolo nomini. Ukuba akukho isihlobo, unako kwakhona ibango isabelo, ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni kukho ukuhlala yonyaka kunye unqophisileyo.