Ubudlelwane School: uthetha ngokumanga na?

ubudlelwane - kwisihloko zintsonkothile kwaye ubhetyebhetye ukuba uyakwazi ukuthetha ngayo ngonaphakade. Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa ummeli wesini esahlukileyo baguquka abanomdla intombazana okanye umfazi, ngokuqinisekileyo abuze: yintoni na, ukuba inxalenye yayo, kunjani? Ukucacisa imeko ukufikelela kumda othile uncedo ukwanga.

typology eyiyona

• Ngoko ke, yintoni uthi Akundanganga ebunzi okanye emhlathini? Ukuba umntu oselula (okanye umntu oqolileyo) omdala kunawe, yithini, kwiminyaka 5 ezelwe kwenyusa, ukuba ikunceda uphume kwiimeko ezinzima, unika iingcebiso elungileyo kwaye uzama ukuba anyamekele, ukukhusela, uva uvume ukuzinyamezela umntwana - ukuze isicelo kuwe zooyise, okanye emaqandeni, njengoko iqabane abaphezulu kunye umhlobo olungileyo. Ndiyabulela ngokuba kuyo - into ingqiqo kunokuba zikaPlato, hayi ngokwesondo. Ndikholelwe, esi simo sengqondo nayo imali eninzi. Ke ukuba kubekho inguqu kwicala kuwe nto ayinakwenzeka - ukwaneliseka oko sinako, gcina le ubuhlobo, musani asiyifumani.
• Kwaye oko itsho kiss kaloliwe xa imilebe iqabane ayifiki ochukumisa iimbombo lomlomo wakho? Kungenzeka, a ukungazithembi, ukuba neentloni Man. Wena emehlweni akhe, etsala kuwe, ulindele khuthazo yakho. Kwenze kucace ukuba lothando yakhe emehlweni ukuba uzive kamnandi naye. Bonisa linyathelo kancinane - yaye uza kuvuzwa umthandi inkanuko!
• Ngobunono kodwa ngokuqinileyo wachukumisa imilebe yakhe nowenu - into ethethwa ngokumanga na? Isibakala ukuba uyathandwa, ukuba lo mfana ngokwenene ufuna ukuba nawe, uziva Umnqweno womntu, yintoni ubuncwane iveze. Ukuba uziva abayithandi le, ukuqina - khumbula ukuba yabo ethile ubuchule kiss umntu uzama ukuba akhulule kuwe, ndizole, phumla, funda ukuba uyolo kwinkqubo.
• Ezibhabhayo, ukuphululwa ulwimi, ongenamonde, imilebe nokuba obawayo - ubungqina lidumbise neenkanuko, iminqweno frank ubuhlobo - yiloo ithi yintoni le wamanga, eqala ukuba Ndinesiyezi nentliziyo ngokuqinisekisa iyagquma. Ngamaxesha enjalo kulula ukuphulukana intloko yakho. Ngoko ke, xa ulwalamano lobuqu unento ziyabhidisa - zama ukuba lindani ..
• Ibone kwi ngencam impumlo - ibinzana ecacileyo ngokunyanisekileyo uthando, uvelwano kunye trust. Nina basondeleyo ngokomoya kuloo mfo, wena hayi nje kuphela ngenxa yakhe ayithanda, kodwa oku kukhulisa ixabiso iimvakalelo zakho amaxesha. Akukho akwenzeki ukuba nentandabuzo abathi ukuzanga kakhulu nobubele. Wachukumisa imilebe yakhe iinwele zenu ubaqononondise efanayo. Ndikholelwe, akukho mntu uya kuba ngathi bephuzana umfazi ungowasemzini kuye!

Ngoku makhe nisinga ezandleni. Liqabane kudla ubeka izandla zakho ezidleleni zakhe, ngobunono kwaye nobubele ukwenza emlonyeni wabo? Yintoni na amadoda bephuzana kule meko? Kwakhona, ivoti lithemba, ukunyaniseka, intlonelo, nokuzinikela. Into yokuba uyabathanda, kwaye uyakuthanda kakhulu. Amadoda abaninzi bayoyika ukubonisa ubuthathaka babo phambi mfazi, ukuzikhusela, ayikwazi ukuvula ngokupheleleyo. Okuvusa ngezandla, kwaye ngaphandle iibhrashi (ngaphandle kokuba wamkelekile ezisemthethweni) - umqondiso kuwe ukuba lenjenjalo nakuni ke ukhululekile ukuba - amaqabane umphefumlo, isiqingatha ngasinye enye.

Umlomo wayo ahambela entanyeni yakho, umqala, indlebe isithinzi? Oku kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho ufuna ukukunika iimvakalelo, amava mnandi, amathuba ecacileyo, ulonwabo inkanuko. uthando anjalo uhlobo umdlalo, ngokulula adlulele foreplay inyathelo ezikwekwayo ngakumbi.

Kakade ke, uluhlu lwethu alupheli. Kodwa isekelwe phezu ezahlukeneyo mfundo kunye esebenzayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba inokuthenjwa. Ukuthandwa, uthando ngokwabo - koko bamkela elowo wamnika kiss akuzisele mathuba sonwabe ebomini.