Ukwazana - oku okubi okanye okulungileyo? Meaning, izithethantonye kunye nemizekelo

Namhlanje makhe sithethe ngoko yaziwa phantse wonke. Ukwazana - lo isihloko sethu. Khawuve oko ukwazana azinabungozi pick up ntonye kunye nemizekelo.

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Asazi kuphuma elwandle yamagama angaziwayo ngaphandle ikhampasi yethu kunye layita umntu omnye - lwamagama. Kwaye usixelela ukuba ixabiso into ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: ". Sengqondo nabaqheleneyo ntlonelo ngayo abo bafuna ukuhlonipha abantu abadala"

Umzekelo kakhulu phambili nje. Ngokomzekelo, masithi ukuba ezinye gama utitshala Katherine, kwaye apha umfundi wakhe Basil uthi: "? Hi, Katya, njani na" edidayo kancinane, hayi na? Olu lwazi njengokuba kunjalo.

Bafundiswa ngumzekelo? Isibakala sokuba kufuneka sihlale kude. Kwaye hayi kuphela ubudala, kodwa indawo indoda yakhe ukutshintsha imbono yobomi. Masithi umntu nomntu wafundiswa eklasini enye, kodwa kwathatha iminyaka engama-20, yaye omnye usebenza kumzi-mveliso, kunye nezinye likwaqhuba mveliso lokuboleka imoto encinci. Isondlo, ofunda, Kakade ke, nako ukuhlangabezana, Ungathi omnye emagxeni kwaye ukwanga, uze emva koko uye pub elikufutshane, kodwa kunokwenzeka, ukuba ngamnye kubo uyavumelana ukunxibelelana ngaphandle umsitho, kodwa ke ukuba akunjalo? Ukwazana - oku akusoloko nekrwada, ngamanye amaxesha kuzibonakalisa ngokunyaniseka, kodwa kufuneka isivumelwano phakathi kwamaqela.

Woland noMargarita

Nje ndibe encinane senoveli isikhonkwane, igama apho ukukhankanya kakhulu, kuba abalinganiswa bathethe ngokwabo. Khumbula ixesha xa UMargaret phezu ibhola umthetheli yobumnyama, ukuba udlale indima engukumkanikazi inkosikazi mbhiyozo? Esi siganeko angaphambi incoko phakathi intombazana kunye ngumtyholi. Ukubona undwendwe, Woland wayesele eza ukurhoxisa umdlalo yakhe chess kunye ngeBhehemote, kodwa noMargarita Akuvunyelwe ngokungqongqo ukuba enze njalo. Kodwa yaba luvavanyo, nto leyo umnikazi-kweenkosi mandulo, hayi ngaphandle kobunzima esebenzisa Koroviev.

Ke Woland ngokwakhe wacela ukuba athethe naye "unceremoniously", kodwa uMargaret zisagcine kunye ububi ngomoya umgama intlonelo zityalwa kunjalo, kuba ukuziphatha icala igcwele. Yaye kuloo meko, ngoko kwakulula ukuba ziphuma ukuya lwazi, kodwa kuya kuba Lilishwa ukuba iindwendwe. Kodwa wabonisa ubulumko.

Bafundiswa ngumzekelo? Ukuba uvumelekile ukuba ukulahla umsitho omdala, oko akuthethi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa umgama, ajike abe ihagu. Yintoni le hagu? Bonke iya kucaca ngezantsi.

Izithethantonye

Ukwazana - le nto sithetha ngayo namhlanje. Makhe nisinga amazwi, ngohlobo olulo, oko kuya kusinceda siqonde ngokuchanekileyo ngakumbi intsingiselo yale meko. Nazi ke:

• bonhomie;
• yozingiso;
• inkululeko;
• baphelelwa;
• ukwazana.

Khumbula, siye wathembisa ukuba sibuyele abahlobo abafana iihagu? Isibakala sokuba bonhomie - ntonye ukwazana, bona bubonakala evela French ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Abahlobo ezifana iihagu" okanye "amanye weehagu."

Ngaba kukuchitha ingozi?

Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo. Ngokubanzi, ootitshala, nkqu kobokuqala, musa ukwaphula abaphathi-mkhosi, kuba uyakwazi abazenzela igama kule minyaka, kwaye ukutshiza ngenqaku elinye. Ukwazana - lo mhlola, njengoko na ukukhangela kunokuba ezilizothe ezingafanelekanga, yintoni hlobo yaye ulungile.

Ingaba ufuna ukubonisa abantu kwindawo yakho, uthando nentlonelo - balihloniphe, akukho okunye kuyimfuneko. Kakade ke, maxa wambi sokuyivula ukuba "abantu bakhe" kuyimfuneko, kodwa olu khetho akufuneki kuqalwa ngokuzenzekelayo xa umntu othile, nokuba sele uqinisekile ukuba yonke into aya kuba endaweni yaye akukho ntlekele iya kwenzeka.

Bernard Shaw avakalisa ukuba kuphela othungayo na olumkileyo, ngenxa yokuba lonke ixesha kuthatha amanyathelo xa ebona umntu. Kodwa ke abanye abantu azikho wasisebenzisa, bazama ukuba buthi abanye izimvo zabo, baze emva koko nangoku bayacaphuka xa abavumi ukuthobela. Le impazamo eqhelekileyo, musa ukuphinda kwaye, kakade, esiyifundayo ezakudala.

Kwaye ewe, umntu kufuneka izifanokuthi ukwazana, bona ngaphezu uludwe lwabaqhagamshelwa yezinye kwabadlali ukuba azinayo le mbono.