Yintoni inceba? Le nto ungayifunda

Njani namhlanje ukuhlukanisa ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka kwinyani? Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde uhlobo lunikelo lobubele ngokubanzi. Ingaba yindlela yokufezekisa iinjongo zomntu okanye umlinganiso omntu wonke umntu onyanisekileyo kufuneka abe nayo? Ngaba abantu banokuthanda ukufunda kwaye njani? Uhluke njani ngokububele?

Yintoni inceba?

Ububele buyingcamango ebandakanya uthando loluntu, ukuzimisela ukunceda abantu kwimeko yobomi obunzima, ubuntu bembono yehlabathi kunye nokwazi ukwenza izenzo zokuzidela ngenxa yomnye. Ngaloo nto uquka umntu oqhelekileyo, oko kukuthi, ukufumaneka kwabantu ababajikelezile ngokuziphatha, ukungabi namkhethe kwabanye abantu, ukungabikho komsindo kubo.

Ububele buhlala kwiindawo ezininzi kwiqela lefilosofi. Kuye kwaziwa kwihlabathi ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye kuye kwathathwa njengentsikelelo; Ngoko, imizekelo yokubonakaliswa kobubele ekhoyo kwiimbali ifakwe njengomzekelo kwisizukulwana esincinane, kwaye abadala baxabiswa kwaye bahlonishwa.

Yintoni inceba?

Ububele buyingcamango engqongqo, equka ukuzaliseka kwenkxaso encedo ngokukhethekileyo kwabasweleyo, kunye nokuphunyezwa kwenkxaso egameni lokuphakama ngokubanzi kwimilinganiselo yokuphila. Eli gama lasetyenziswa ngokubanzi kwiNkcazelo; Kamva, kuxhomekeke kwilizwe kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo eqhutyelwe kuyo, le ngcamango yayigcwele imixholo eyahlukeneyo yaye yayihlala ishintsha.

Ukufumana ububele, ukunyaniseka kwenyaniso akusoloko kuyimpawu: umntu kufuneka aphenduke kwimisebenzi yenkcubeko ukuze aqonde oku. Ngokomzekelo, kumjikelezo odumileyo weencwadi zikaHarry Potter ngumbhali uJoan Rowling, uLucius Malfoy, uyise kaDraco, wanikela ngemali enika uMphathiswa Wemilingo, kodwa ngenxa yoko, oku akuzange kumthinte ekwenzeni imfazwe ecaleni lobubi. Okufanayo kufumaneka kwingqungquthela ethi "Ingoma ye-Ice kunye nomlilo", apho i-series ye-TV eqhelekileyo ethi "Umdlalo weZihlalo zobukhosi" ifakwe. Apha, enye yamaqhawe, uMargery Tyrell, wasebenzisa uthando kunye noncedo kubantu abahluphekileyo ukwenzela ukudala uluntu umfanekiso wendlovukazi enhle, ukuphucula umfanekiso wakhe nokuphakamisa igunya lakhe.

Ukufana nokungafani

Ukususela kumacandelo achazwe ngasentla kuyacaca ukuba uthando lomntu aluhlali lufana nolunye uxolo, oludla ngokuba lukhuseleko lwaloo nto, ngokuqhelekileyo lusetyenziswe ngokusemthethweni nangenjongo ezingafanelekanga. Umbhali odumileyo waseBrithani u-Oscar Wilde wayekholelwa ukuba akunakuncika kakhulu ekuthandeni, mhlawumbi uya kulahlekelwa ngumntu onothando. Ngomlomo weqhawe lakhe lencwadi, Nkosi uHenry, wathi: "Abaphilileyo, bathathwa ngothando, balahlekelwa bonke abantu".

Namhlanje, kukho ukukhula okunyukayo "kwenzeni yothando" - isebe elibhubhisa lobubele, abathathi-nxaxheba babo abakhokelwa yimigaqo yabo yangaphakathi kunye neembono ngexesha lokubonelelwa ngoncedo, inkxaso, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwizenzo ezinobungakanani kuluntu. Benza oku ukuze bathengise imali kubemi abathembekileyo abathembekileyo ukuba banikele ngokukhawuleza imali kwi-fund entsha nje ngenxa yokuba wonke umntu uyayenza. Kule meko, ububele abuyilo luncedo, kodwa lulimaza yonke inxaxheba.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, imbali yanamhlanje iyayazi imimiselo yangempela yokubonakalisa ukungabi nantoni kwaye ingabi nantoni na yokubuyisela inceba nesihawu.

Umzekelo wobubele ebomini ... Akunjalo namnye!

Uvelwano lwaboniswa ngumgcini wamajoni uR. Barnett, owathi ngo-2003 wasitywinwa nomntwana ezandleni zakhe. Kubonakala ngathi akuqhelekanga? Into eyenzekayo, into eyenzekayo e-Iraq, kwaye umntwana wayengenguRichard. Usapho lwasana lufile ekuhlaseleni.

Umzekelo olandelayo ukhankanya indlela ukuphilisa ngayo kunokunceda ukushiya inzondo egazini ehleli iminyaka. Ngokomzekelo, kukho isithombe kwiNethwekhi Yomhlaba apho oogqirha abanombala wesikhumba omnyama bahlangulwa ngummeli weKu Klux Klan, uluntu oluyimigaqo ebalulekileyo ekucaluleni nokulwa nabantu abamnyama.

Kwimeko enye: ngowama-2013 eYiputa umfazi oqhelekileyo nguye kuphela owayemi phambi kombonisi owonzakeleyo, apho umkhosi wamasosha wayehamba, ukukhusela loo mfana ngokusemzimbeni wakhe.

Enye ifoto esaphila ibonisa iqela laseFransi elinceda umfazi waseSpeyin kunye nabantwana bakhe ukuba balethe impahla yabo kwindawo ephephile emva kokuba bawele umda ngexesha lowe-1938 imfazwe.

Enye yezithombe zembali zenzeke ukuba zithathe ijoni laseJamani elibhinqa intombazana engxwelerha yaseRussia emsele. Ixesha lokudalwa komfanekiso ngowama-1941.

Ngendlela, namhlanje kukho iziganeko ezininzi zokubonakalisa uluntu ngexesha lokulwa, kungekuphela nje ngokumalunga nabantu, kodwa nakwabahlobo abane abaneemilenze zomntu. Ngoko, kwelinye lezithombe, amasosha aseMerika anezintambo zokunyathela amanxeba enja. Umfanekiso uthathe ngowe-1944. Ngokufanayo, isilwanyana, kodwa, kulo mzekelo, sele sele ikhuni, yancedwa nguFrank Preutor. Kulo mfanekiso, uyondla i-kitten kwi-pipette, eyathengwa ngandlela-thile, kuba unina wengane esweleyo yafa emlilweni, kwaye kwakungekho mntu umnyamekelayo. Le yimfazwe eKorea, ngo-1953.

Iziqendu ezidumileyo zefilosofi kunye namanani enkcubeko malunga nobubele

Ngombulelo kwimimiselo enikwe, kuyacaca ukuba ububele buyingcamango ebanzi kunokuba kubonakala ngathi ukuqala. Enyanisweni, kukuthanda naluphina ubonakaliso bobomi ngokubanzi, ukukwazi ukubonisa imfesane, ukuza kuhlangula xa kuyimfuneko, ukukhanyela ubandlululo kunye nokwandisa isandla sokonga.

Abafilosofi nabantu bobugcisa bathetha ngenceba ngokunjalo:

• "Ubuntu bunentsingiselo ebalulekileyo, kuphela ukukhuliswa kwayo kukhula kwaye kuyomeleza." (Claude Adrian Helvetius).
• "Ukuzikhusela wena kwaye ubuyele kwizinto ezifanelekileyo kukuthi yintoni umntu oyinyaniso: kusemandleni ethu ukuba sibe ngabantu okanye kungekhona." (Confucius).
• "Kuyo yonke into kwaye ihlala ibonakalisa uluntu, siya kukhumbula ngonaphakade imemori yembonakalo yethu." (UGeorge Alexandrov).

Ukuqulunqa

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukufunda umntu? Kakade. Akukaze kube mva ukuqala. Akukho mntu owazalwa ngokusesikweni okanye ulungile. Indlela umntu eya kuba ngayo incike kuphela kwinto afuna ukuba yiyo, yiyiphi imbewu yeempawu kunye nepropati eya kuyitshala emphefumlweni wayo.