Imizekelo ngokwemvelo. Self-ulondolozo, indlala, nokusinda

Nethuku i isakhiwo ebalulekileyo ubuntu bethu, ngenxa yomsebenzi wabo kuxhomekeke ikakhulu ukhuseleko lwethu. Xa ungasiphumzi isandla sakhe, ufuna ukutya, okanye ukufunda into entsha, siphila, ukusebenza kunye nokuphuhlisa. Man, akuba ezelwe, nethuku okanye ikhaliphe ukuba sizalwa nguThixo ophilileyo. Umntwana omncinci akayiqondi ukuba lithe lalamba; kodwa xa ochukumisa ezikoneni zomlomo wakhe kusincede Umntwana uqala kufuna ibele likanina ngenxa kufumaneka bantu.

Kuyinto ngenxa neemvakalelo siphila ebuntwaneni. Kwaye ke inxenye kubo ezibalaseleyo, ekubeni kwakungamandla awayeqhuba ukuba yonke yobomi bethu. Makhe sibone ukuba yintoni na neemvakalelo, nendlela abonisa ngayo ubomi bethu.

Nethuku kunye nezimo yabantu

Kubomi somntu ngamnye kubaluleke kakhulu nethuku indima. Zibalulekile kakhulu kuthi, kuba maxa wambi ubomi abaxhomekeke kubo. Kodwa inqanaba bhetyebhetye yabantu lixhomekeke isiphelo sayo. Kusenokuba ubuchule naso okanye ezifunyenwe ukuqhelana nayiphi na imeko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iimeko apho umntu lowo. Xa sincokola ngayo ukuziqhelanisa yabantu, kunokuba phezulu, phantsi kunye neziphakathi. Xa umdlalo nezimo isegazini ziquka sawo, neemvakalelo zokwemvelo, inkangeleko, le makings ingqondo, isakhiwo umzimba, ubuchule isegazini, iimvakalelo kunye nempilo ngokwasemzimbeni.

Kukho ikho into lithathelwe. Ibhekisela amanqanaba nolwamkelo umntu, isikhundla sakhe ekuhlaleni kunye nemvo lokwaneliseka okanye ukunganeliseki kwabo ubomi babo ngokwabo. Nezimo ngumntu omnye nakanjani awohluke ebuntwaneni endalo kunye nolwalathiso lakhe lobuqu. Ukuba xa ezithuku ingqalelo inxalenye yokuqala nokubaluleke ngemvelo yabantu, nto leyo enika bhetyebhetye.

Ingaba kukho ithuku koomama zooyise?

Ngomhla ingqikelelo ezizezemvelo emangalisiwe izazinzulu ezininzi, waqhuba umsebenzi omkhulu yesayensi. iintlobo eyakhiwe ngayo le isipho hlobo eyaziwa isazinzulu Garbuzov. Yena ichazwe neemvakalelo esisiseko, kodwa abazange kufakwe umba ezizezemvelo koomama kunye zooyise. Loo Umphumela bagxeka abanye umsebenzi wakhe, namanye. Kucingwa ukuba la magama zithathwa nethuku ezinemiqathango, ngenxa yokuba izikhohlakali zingamoyiki kuvela kwaphela. Zinakekela abantwana babo ukuchazwa lokuyeka of self-ukulondolozwa okanye ukwandiswa uhlobo.

Kodwa kokucaphula imizekelo ezizezemvelo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uqaphele ngokubonakala nethuku nabazali. Kwaye akukho nto unokuyenza ngaloo nto, iMbonakalo-ngqo yoBume kangaka. wemvelo zokubelekisa kuthathwa ukuba ibe yokwenene kakhulu kwaye zisekelwe phezu ngemfuneko zembali ukulondoloza ikamva kwaye siqhube iintsapho zabo. Zonke izidalwa eziphilayo wemvelo koomama mammalian, ngaphandle kokuba ngamanye amaxesha abantu kuthabatha ifomu asanelanga. Oku kuba phezu igunya lokugcina akhulise abantwana abadala okanye ukungakhathali alwamkele zabazali. Ukuba sithethe ngayo neemvakalelo angaphakathi, ngoko ke unina esibonakaliswa amantombazana ukusuka ebuntwaneni. Ecace ukuthi kuziveza khona abafazi aphantsi kid intliziyo yenu, nabo sele unike ukuzalwa. nokulawula ithuku lobulwanyana ngumama eyahlukileyo kakhulu ukusuka abantu, kuba isekelwe kwinto yokuba uMdali ezendeleyo kuzo zonke izilwanyana. Yaye abantu bayakwazi ukwenza into kunokuba sithembele wemvelo kuphela.

A phenomenon ezahlukeneyo kancinane (kwaye akusoloko ezinxulumene ne kokufika wosana) uthathwa ukuba ibe ezizezemvelo kayise. Oku kuthathwa ngumkhuba conditioner ngakumbi ngokwentlalo, nto leyo ehambisana kunye nezithethe zoluntu mihla iqhutywa imilinganiselo.

Iintlobo nethuku Inkcazelo Garbuzova

Ngokutsho ingqiqo yalo njingalwazi, neuropsychiatrist sobulumko, ezi nethuku ezisixhenxe ezisisiseko. Ezi ziquka: i ukuzala Bemvelo self-ulondolozo, inkululeko uphando, isidima, yokuzinikela kunye ubunganga.

Kukho dyads ezintathu, neyohlulwe ngayo neemvakalelo. Hi xikombiso, le dyad "A" kucingelwa ukuba isiseko, ibonelela kusinda ebonakalayo ngamnye kunye iintlobo. Le dyad ibandakanya ezimbini nethuku: self-ulondolozo nokuzala. Kodwa dyad "B", ebandakanya uphando kunye ezizezemvelo wenkululeko, ubonelela ngokwasentlaweni ephambili woMntu. Ekugqibeleni, owesithathu, lo dyad "B", ebandakanya ithuku kobunganga nesidima, ibonelela self-ngoluvo kunye self-lokugcina olu lwabasebenzi kweli aspect yengqondo. Ndawonye, bonke zontathu dyads kuqinisekisa lithathelwe abantu ebomini.

Self-ukugcinwa njenge kwakuthi esisiseko yoluntu

Belawula umntu kuthathwa ukuba abe omnye okanye ngaphezulu neemvakalelo, abanye va buthathaka kakhulu. Ukukhumbula imizekelo ezizezemvelo, asingekhe silibale ngayo self-preservation.

Nawuphi na iindleko naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, abantu lithemba nje ukuze baphile. Kunye nohlobo izicwangciso omzimba womntu abantu sele bafunda ukuba bajongane neengozi silindele ukuba yonke indawo. Oku kubonakala kwinto yokuba xa eshushu - umntu osusa isandla ukuba banikwa ukutya ibitheni - ukwala oku, ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuqubha, ngoko, Kakade ke, akazange aye nzulu emanzini.

nokulawula ithuku lobulwanyana nako ngokuba uhlobo self-kulondolozwe lithuku. Le lokuyeka of self-kulondolozwe kuthathwa esisiseko ngenxa yokungabikho kwazo zonke ezinye nethuku balahlekelwe intsingiselo yazo. Kwaye isizathu sokuba oku izicacele: into yokuqala ufuna nawuphi na umntu, kubandakanywa umntu - kukukhathalela yokugcina khona, kungenjalo akusayi kuba nako ukusebenza kwaye elula ukuba ube luncedo kwihlabathi. Ngendlela, ukuba ithuku of self-ephuhliswe ngayo abantwana ukususela ekuzalweni.

Genofilny Uhlobo - ntoni na?

Xa Uhlobo genofilnom ilawula ithuku yokuba zizale. Ukuba kanye ebuntwaneni, umntwana ukhulela kuluntu apho umdla ayinakutshintshwa kuphela intsapho, kuya kuba cwaka kuphela xa yonke intsapho kunye, wonke kulungile kunye nempilo kunye mood elungileyo siyema. Kuba abantu abanjalo, ikhaya lakhe uthathwa ukuba inqaba, kodwa izilangazelelo ilungu ngalinye lentsapho - ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into. Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu beli hlobo bakulungele ukuba zizinikele ngenxa yabantwana babo kunye neentsapho. i lokuyeka ukusinda kule meko ayikasebenzi, kuba uhlobo genofilny lujolise kungekhona ngokwabo, kodwa iintsapho zabo. Unga sebenzisa oku umzekelo ithuku wokusindisa abantu ukusuka kwigumbi emlilweni. Le ndoda kunye ithuku olongamileyo self-kulondolozwe Akanakufane yena eya kubasindisa abantu ngexesha umlilo. uhlobo Abantu genofilnogo kuyenza ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo.

Le lokuyeka kuyanda

Le usinga okufana uhlobo yokuzinikela. Abantu abaye alawule eli ithuku ukususela ebuntwaneni ukubonisa inceba kunye nenkxalabo malunga nabantu ababathandayo. Bona ke uphuhliso nethuku, kodwa bonke baya kuxhomekeka nokusebenza kwale ophambili. Le ithuku usabakhokela abantu ukunika ummelwane oko kufuneka abantu. Aba bantu abazincamayo kunabanye ngakumbi, baye banikela ubomi babo umdla woluntu, ukukhusela ababuthathaka, ukunceda abagulayo kunye nabakhubazekileyo. Abantu kunye ithuku kuyanda baphila esithi: "Ububele uya kulisindisa ihlabathi!" Ngokubanzi, ukuba imizekelo emihle ezizezemvelo, ngenxa yokuba abantu abanjalo lwa nobulungisa ehlabathini yaye ukulungele ukunceda abanye, osukuba neli.

Umphandi - imfundo okanye ngenxa yemfuza zabantu?

uhlobo uphando kuthiwe ukwazi ngakumbi. Kolu hlobo sifundo kucingwa ukuba ithuku lubalaseleyo. Ekubeni ubuntwana "Ngubani na owaziyo?", Kabani ukwazi kwinqanaba eliphezulu, yaye bonke phezu babonisa umnqweno ukuya ezantsi. Abantwana olu hlobo kufuneka kusoloko ukufumana iimpendulo ezinzulu nezingqinekayo zemibuzo yabo. Bona bafunda izinto ezininzi kwaye ungathanda ukuba kunjani. Oku kudla abantu sokuyila, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na ulikhoboka. Ngoko ke, lo umphandi - oko kunokuba sisiphumo nethuku zabantu ngaphezu imfundo.

uhlobo lwiimi

Kule hlobo inkulu ithuku kobunganga, kodwa yona ikhona kwaye ukuphila kwakuthi kakhulu. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abantu abanjalo ziboniswa ukukwazi ekulungelelaniseni Imidlalo, baqeqeshelwe ukuba iinjongo zokufikelela kuzo. uhlobo lwiimi uyakwazi ukuqonda abantu ukuba babakhokele. Aba bantu baziva kwaqinisekisa imfuneko ukulawula abanye. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana ukususela uhlobo olongamileyo ukukhula iinkokeli, abaphathi, abezopolitiko, kwakunye nabaququzeleli.

Le lokuyeka kulondolozwe ka inkululeko

Abo niyilwele ulondolozo inkululeko, yimizekelo ithuku lwenkululeko. Ngenxa ilweyile abantwana abanjalo kombisa loqhankqalazo xa ilweyile zabo, kunye naluphi na uhlobo inkululeko kuzakubangela ukungafunwa, leyo ke ukhula kunye nosana lwakho. Umlinganiswa okuvelelayo abantu kuthathwa ukuba babe nomnqweno inkululeko, inkani, ukunyamezelana ngenxa yentlungu, yofuzo kwingozi. Abayi kuyinyamezela ucwangciso kunye uyilandela. Ngenxa yokuba abantu abanjalo baye bacinezelwa ukuba Bemvelo zizale kunye self-nokulondolozwa, badla baphume neentsapho zabo. Batyekele ukugcina inkululeko yabo, iminqweno nobuntu. Abantu abanjalo akakwazi kakhulu ngokunciphisa kwi izenzo, azikuthandi ukuba bathobele.

uhlobo Dignitofilny of nethuku zabantu

Olu hlobo esilawulwa isidima lithuku. Ndisemncinane kakhulu, abantu abanjalo banokuyifumana isigqebelo okanye ukuhlekisa. Abayi kunyamezela naluphi na uhlobo nehlazo. Olu uhlobo lwabantu kunye nabo ukususela ebuntwaneni unako thethana, kodwa oku kufuneka kwenziwe kakuhle leyi khorwisaka. Ukuze kugcinwe imbeko nesidima, umntu onjalo iyakwazi nokuba ukudela nto zexabiso anayo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela kwangoko kangangoko kunokwenzeka kuwo umntwana, ukuze kthen ungubani inkqubo yobomi. Kuba abantu abanjalo kufuneka inkxaso kunye nokuqondwa. Ke bona ngokwabo bazive befunwa yaye befuna.