Ukomelela isiphelo - it ... The iingxoxo malunga elizayo nekamva

Elidlulileyo, ixesha langoku, elizayo ... Yintoni na ixesha? Nokuba umntu ulilungu ngokupheleleyo le "action", okanye ngaba nje "abangaphantsi" cwaka Bya mhlekazi wakhe? Kunzima ukunika impendulo ecacileyo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba elona xesha - an intshukumo vuhlayiseki, esenzekayo kwicala elinye kuphela - ukususela mandulo nge langoku ukuya kwixesha elizayo, yaye abantu abakwazi ukuba ukhethe njani ukuba kudlulwe phezu komlambo ... Abanye bakholelwa ukuba elizayo - unekhasi blank lwephepha, kwaye yethu iminqweno, iingcinga, izenzo - ezi imibala ezikhanyayo ngokuxuba ngazo ukudala umfanekiso ubomi. Noko ke, kukho kwakhona imbono malunga - kukho inkolelo eyimfama ukuhamba, ukuba zonke iziganeko siye sele bamiselwe, kwaye umntu akanalungelo ukukhetha. Kuthetha ukuthini nxi ...

Akunakuphepheka of Isiphelo

Kanye phakathi kwe waseRoma uDomitian (51-96 gg. BC. E.) Yaye nabakhwitsi odumileyo Askletarion intetho malunga akunakuphepheka isiphelo. Lo mlawuli wabuza ukuba iinkwenkwezi zithi malunga imizuzu yokugqibela yobomi umprofeti. Impendulo yaba engalindelekanga - iya kufika kungekudala kokufa kwakhe, yaye umzimba wakhe uya kwaphula ipakethe izinja. UDomitian wahleka, yaye ngoko nangoko wayalela okubulala lo fortuneteller. Kwi ngokuhlwa, ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa, umlawuli bamakhazikhazi endaqhayisa abahlobo nezakhono nenkalipho yakhe, kuba wakwazi ukuba bakope kanye nxi, kwaye umiselwe ukutshintsha. Bonke abo babekho inkxaso umlawuli ayikho enye iglasi yewayini, ngaphandle umntu - mime weqonga Latina. Waba engatyhilekanga yaye cwaka. It arhola ingqalelo uDomitian acela kuye kwenzeke ntoni, kutheni akazange ukwabelana nemihlali jikelele? Ukuba umdlali uthe nje namhlanje agqithayo indawo apho udla batshise izaphuli-mthetho, waza wabona umzimba eleza nabakhwitsi. Umlilo wasilela phemba. Uhlale ungacimi yi zemimoya olomeleleyo umoya. Kwaye emva komzuzwana eliqhula wabona pack izinja zasendle ndisachitha isidumbu Askletarion kakuhle ...

Ngoko ke yintoni na ubomi bethu - idalelwe inkululeko?

Kwaye ukuba ucinge ubomi umntu omnye abe uhlobo lohambo, bathi, kuloliwe ukusuka kwindawo A ukuya kwindawo B? Apha umkhweli ehleli ecaleni kwefestile, ilindile ephunga iti ne lemon, kunye betshayela zonke ngoku ke, iintlobo ezilandelelanayo - ehlathini, umlambo, ibhulorho, amasimi ndatyala, iidolophu ... akanako ukubona kwangaphambili umthi emi elilolo okanye etyeni elikhulu ecaleni kwendlela. Uya baziphawule kuphela ngaloo mzuzu amafutshane xa lifika kuye. Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba akazange ayisekho umthi kunye ilitye kude kube ngoku. Baba uhlale apho. Ngoko ke, yintoni eyenzekayo kuthi iziganeko elizayo abazalwa kunye aziyo ngenxa ethile okanye into ethile, okanye mandithi, baya kuvela ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Ubuhlobo imbangela ikhona, kodwa oko kwenziwe nayiphi na imeko sele "ekhoyo", njengoko yimiqolo ngaxeshanye wabeka ziintsimbi, kuyimfuneko kangaka intshukumo koololiwe, kwaye lokuhlela uhambo hambo, kwaye kufuneka ihlangane ecaleni kumhlaba endleleni ... Ngamanye amazwi, awukwazi nefuthe okanye ukutshintsha isiganeko elizayo, kwaye ungakhe uzifumanele inyathelo ngaphambili. Nazo ezalanayo, kodwa ukususela kwixesha lokuzalwa bezibhalwe leempendulo yobomi. Ngenxa yoko, udibaniso ingqikelelo isiphelo ngokwayo. Yinto nxi, ngaphambili, zombini ngo "dibanisa" - uThamsanqa, izisa amathamsanqa kunye novuyo, kwaye ngengqiqo negative - iliwa owaziyo, ndawonye nolunya enobuqhokolo.

In okulumba cinga propati eziziziqalelo isiphelo njengoko iphelele, ukuchaneka ngokuphathelele lo mba kunye elinegunya. Khangela ezi zinto kunzima, mhlawumbi nokuba nzima. Ngoko ke, iimpawu ezisisiseko isiphelo, sicingela ntuthuko kunye ukungaguquleki.

Yaye yintoni na inkululeko?

Inkululeko ngengqiqo yokuba yena uyabazi abantu bakhe - ithuba ukufumanisa ukuba bakhethe ezithile ebomini babo, akukho nto kodwa engekhoyo, isiphoso mkhulu, yaye anobungozi. Ingcaciso ecacileyo nokulungelelanisa inkqubo ukwenzela ukuhamba rhoqo kwexesha - okwesibini, imizuzu, iyure, imini, nobusuku, imihla, njalo-njalo - abantu aba lagaxeleka uhlobo umdlalo. Lo mfanekiso enye sahlukana saziinxalenye, kwaye njengabantwana thina, ubuthe yonke kwezahlulo puzzle kunye. Ekuqaleni, kumnandi, umdla kunye kunceda ukuba uzulazule kwihlabathi eziphathekayo. Kwelinye icala, le ndoda yayibamba nengalo, waza yena engazi uba bathinjwa le "mdlalo 'eyonwabisayo. Yena ufumana kunzima ukuba ahlukane elidlulileyo, kwamathandabuzo kuhlutha le intshukumo, kwaye kukho uloyiko ezisingisileyo elizayo. Yaye ngaba sithethelela njani ukuba akukho nto yakoyika, kungakhathaliseki esiya kuwamisela ucango entsha, namandla kunye nezitshixo amawaka, yaye akukho iintanda kokutyatyekwa malunga ixhala ezahlukeneyo kunye noloyiko, ngokubuyisela omnye komnye, ingafumana indawo kroba wayirhubuluza. Kutheni? Ukuba kucingelwa uxanduva, macala onke ubunzima, kulinganiswa, waziva, kwaye ekugqibeleni wanikela zonke izinto inkcazelo, oko kuthetha ukuba siyakwazi ukugweba oku ezinkulu "kuqoqosho." Kwaye ngoku silapha, Kakade ke, elele ebeliza kwenziwa ngayo le mgibe. engqondweni abanekratshi akanakho ulwazi okanye umoya, okanye amandla ukuba 'ukuma umqhubi ", kwaye ngexesha elinye akakwazi kubuya umva, ukuba asuke," umlawuli ezindaweni ", kwaye imperceptible ezandleni wekamva. Ingaba le nkululeko?

Kuthekani ukuba ekuqaleni ukuqaphela ukungafezeki yayo, ungafaneleki, lithabathe, kodwa hayi nje nokubi, kodwa esimangalisayo kunye nesidima sethu bucala kwenye. Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Mhlawumbi, ngoko, ukuba ahlale zizisulu isiphelo - engafanelanga ukuba phantsi ubunzima kunzima ngokuba, namanwele ngala mazwi "amashwa" okanye ukulahla inkululeko sibe lento kuthiwa likhoboka isiphelo, nto leyo ithetha ukuba uphila ubomi emangalisayo, ngaphandle ejonga elidlulileyo, ukuze amava, iingcinga, izimvo zabanye, ngaphandle kucinezele yokoyika elizayo. Ngaba kufuneka into - kwaye iya kuba iya kuba yintoni. Kuba noxanduva nyathelo ngalinye, kodwa kungekhona kukoyika, kodwa uthando, kwaye ngoko, mhlawumbi, amandla isiphelo - yindlela enamandla, akhe, kodwa "umoya umsila" enye, leyo unqwenela bonke oomatiloshe ngaphambi kohambo olude.