Ukuba bathethe intombazana on the phone

Njengoko usazi, umthandi eninzi yabafazi uthethe ifowuni, kodwa athethe namadoda njengoko elide? abafana abaninzi musa ukuchitha imizuzu ngaphezu kwe-10 iintetho, kuba nje wayengazi ukuba bathethe intombazana on the phone.

Uninzi la madoda inombolo yefowuni intombazana, akazi ukuba baziphathe njani emva koko. Kodwa yonke into ilula, wena kudingeka nje ukuba ukucofa amanani alithandayo. Tsalela ngoko nangoko emva kokuba wadibana kufuneka alinde kweentsuku ezimbalwa, kungenjalo wentombazana uya kucinga ukuba nje nanto yakwenza, yaye oko kuphela umdla. Kodwa Kwakhona kakhulu emva kwexesha kufuneka, okanye ixesha elide umdla kuni nje kulahlekileyo. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo intsimbi yokuqala iya kusebenza ngomhla wesibini emva kokuba badibana.

abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthetha kunye namantombazana njengokuba kunye nabahlobo babo, nokuba bayaphazama kakhulu kunene. Ngaphambi kokuthetha intombazana emnxebeni, kufuneka uqonde ukuba awukwazi ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluthukayo, ukuqalisa incoko kwisihloko banal kakhulu. Ukuba kubi kakhulu, kakhulu, ekungekho nzuzo ngayo. Ngamadlelane amantombazana uthando intuthuzelo, ngoko uhlale emva, Tune kwaye lubonwabele ukubiza.

Akukho sizathu ukubiza akukho kuyimfuneko, kwaye ukufumana nento olunokuncokola ngayo intombazana efowunini, izinto ngendlela banal encinane njenge: "Cebisa oko movie ukuze ubone," okanye "Ndixelele, yintoni esityeni ukupheka." Xa sihloko ziya kuba nomdla kuzo zombini, incoko njengesiqhelo baya uqale ukususa ibe kwincoko umdla obuluqilima nobuhlala ixesha elide. Xa kungekho tyala musa ukuqala ukunxibelelana emisonto kuphela into eyindoda. Libala nje nezopolitiko, ukuloba, kwibhola ekhatywayo kunye neemoto.

Phambi ikhwelo yokuqala kunzima ukuqonda indlela ukuthetha intombazana emnxebeni, ngoko musa ukulibala ukuba kukho SMSes. umdla Preheat ukunxibelelana ngokubhala igama elithi, "zinikele ukuya kwi movie" okanye "Indlela malunga isidlo kwindawo yokutyela." Emva kokuba umyalezo enjalo yena uya kulindela ukuba ulandele-up iminxeba, kwaye umbuzo ukuba uthethe intombazana emnxebeni, yimani ayisekho.

Ukulawula ingxoxo akuyomfuneko kuba akusayi kusebenza, kodwa kungcono ukuba ukugqiba kuqala. Umele ukuba uyindoda kwaye ukulawula imeko.

Zilungiselele ngenxa yokuba ixesha lokuqala uya baziphathe zathi zavela kuwe, kwaye amaxesha zokuqala ezimbalwa ekuya kufuneka uthethe naye ixesha elide. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kwaza kwangena kakuhle phezulu imixholo abstract. Zama ukuba echwayithileyo kwaye ekhululekile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye abafumana ezibuthathaka kunye neqabane. Phulaphula kakhulu, ngoko ke umbuzo wokuba yintoni ukuze athethe intombazana emnxebeni, isigqibo ngokwayo. Kungakuhle anjengeli umxholo ube neempahla ezinamagama kunye nendlela, ukuxoxa iindaba zokucwangcisa ishishini, kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba kufuneka ukuba ube athobekile kwaye unembeko. Iziqhulo ukuba inkampani yakho ingqalelo eqhelekileyo, ukuze ukoyikisa nje le ntombazana, kwaye nagoko akubonakali uya kukwazi ukutshintsha imbono yakhe kwi-akhawunti yakho.

Ukuba bathethe intombazana emnxebeni, kunokunceda ukufumana abahlobo okanye abahlobo bakhe. Ukuba kunjalo, zama ukufumanisa malunga neemfuno zakhe. Umzekelo, umfazi ukuba uthanda ukudanisa okanye uthanda ukucula, uze uthethe malunga ukuya yeqonga okanye karaoke uyakwazi ukuphuhlisa kakuhle kakhulu. Xa ufowuna isibini zemihlathi ezifana "Ndinento amatikiti ezimbini ukuya show" okanye "Mna kudala ndifuna ukwenza duet," wena ngokuqinisekileyo uya kudlala "busondele" kwaye kukunceda ukuba ufumane i interlocutor.

Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ukuba ukufumana umxholo eqhelekileyo ilula. Ukuba bathethe intombazana emnxebeni likuxelela, phakathi kwezinye izinto, intuition. Into engundoqo ke, ukuba azive ngumkhinkqi kunye yengxinano, ngoko yonke into aya kuba, mhlawumbi zonxibelelwano eziqhelekileyo iya kukhula ibe njani into ngakumbi. Musa ukulibala ukuba ulwalamano kaninzi iqala kwizinto ezincinane, yaye akubonakali kulomgaqo kukho ukuxolelwa.