Ukujongelwa - ukuba ... Luhlobo olunjani lwabantu kuthiwa mncane?

Ukujongelwa - yinkqubo yendalo. Abanye akukhathalwa njengento embi. Kodwa ke akunjalo. Ngaphezu koko, ukujongelwa kunokuba HIV. Ngapha koko, le esinamandla kuphuhliso woMntu. Abantu abaninzi abadumileyo baye esingelwe phantsi. Ukuba umntu into eninzi kunene ufuna, ngoko kungekudala oku kuya ngokuyimfuneko kufika. Ngoko ke ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukuze akwazi ukufuna into ethile. Kodwa zisengelwa bavame ngqalelo. Izizathu zoku abaninzi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba zezikhali, kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuqonda intsingiselo yelo gama.

Yintoni ukujongelwa phantsi?

Ukujongelwa - inkqubo apho umntu ekuhlanganeni kweendlela ezininzi amaqela asekuhlaleni kwaye musa bazive bebanye namnye kubo. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo iziganeko:

• War okanye revolution.
• Ngenxa yeengxaki eluntwini.
• Ngenxa yobukho yokugula ngengqondo.
• Ngenxa yokuziphatha koluntu okanye lukhona.

Ezi izizathu eziphambili zokuba abantu babe esingelwe phantsi. Kodwa njani le nkqubo? Zeziphi onobuhle kwabantu amakheswa abantu? Makhe uphando.

Njani ukujongelwa phantsi?

Umntu ngamnye unalo ukujongelwa eyahlukileyo kwenzeka. Le yinkqubo entsonkothileyo kakhulu, nto leyo kude kube ngoku sele okwangoku zingavuthuluka yokuhlalisana kunye Social Psychology. Kunjalo bucala ingaqala ukusuka ekuqaleni kwaye ube uhlobo lithathelwe lwentlalo. Ngoko ke, kuxhomekeke umqondiso inkqubo (elungileyo okanye embi).

• Ikheswa maladjustment.
• Bucala njengenkqubo maladjustment.

Njengoko ubona, kunokuba eyahlukileyo. Mhlawumbi wonke umntu ngonaphakade oziva esingelwe phantsi. Kwaye ke umahluko phakathi ntshikilelo ukuba amaqela ahlelelekileyo baphathwa njengabantu emigulukudu kunye otywala eziqhelekileyo. Noko ke, umntu usho imizekelo emihle. Ngokomzekelo, omnye olwela elungileyo ngokwenene, ngubani khutshelwa ngaphandle ngoo- kuluntu, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ukudala amaqela bakho lwa indawo kubume bentlalo.

bendlela amakheswa xa

Kucacile ukuba iingcali ezininzi kakhulu nezingalunganga. Kuqala kwinto zonke, bahambisana ubuhlungu psychological umntu ubanjwe phakathi kwamaqela ezahlukeneyo kwezentlalo. Oku fixable. Ngaphezu koko, ungafumana ngaphambili. Kodwa le indawo ukuze bakuthathele ingqalelo kuyimfuneko. Kwakhona, kukho ezinye ezingalunganga yokwenziwa kwabantu amakheswa xa:

• Ukonakala nokuzixabisa.
• Ekuncipheni isikhundla ekuhlaleni.
• ubunzima okuphila.
• Ukungabikho ukuzinza.

Ngabo aba neengxaki kwabantu amakheswa. Kunzima ukuba inkqubo yabantu. Enyanisweni, umntu kufuneka athathe ukuphinda-elihle kwezentlalo, ukuba uthe wafumana ngesiquphe ngokwakhe ekwahlukaneni kweendlela, amaqela asekuhlaleni apho ayamkelwa ngokupheleleyo njengelungu ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye enye ndigxothwe ngokubanzi ukuba non-ekulandeleni izithethe zentlalo. Kwaye ke kuvela.

kwizazi amakheswa xa

Ukujongelwa phantsi ineendlela ezininzi. Abantu abaninzi kwabona kunokuba eziphantsi iwonga ekuhlaleni. Kodwa ekubeni zonke ihlala izinzile, kodwa musa ukufuna yokuthsintsha nantoni na. Xa umntu zihlelelekile, uvakalelwa usongo womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba kwintlalo-ntle yabo. Kwaye ngoko ke uya kumaqela esingelwe phantsi. Ukuba angabenza indawo phantsi kwelanga, indoda ihashe.

Bucala ingaba stimulus kuphuhliso self yabantu, ngaphandle kokungena kula maqela. Phezu kwabo kuya kuxoxwa kamva. Kulo mzekelo, inkqubo omnye afune ukuphakama ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ugqiba ukuba bazibandakanye nobomi edlulileyo, ngoko ke kuba yimpumelelo kakhulu namandla. Kukho imizekelo emininzi ukuba ukuqinisekisa oku.

namaqela ajongelwe phantsi

Yintoni na amaqela abekelwe? Lo ngumbutho zisengelwa phantsi. Bona agcwele mba yokwenziwa kwabantu amakheswa xa yoluntu. Elikhulu olu hlobo amaqela, i ucaca ngakumbi le meko kubume bayo ekuhlaleni. ukujongelwa phantsi kakhulu kakhulu lubonisa ngokutsha nokwakheka yoluntu. Izizathu eziphambili ezibangela ukujongelwa phantsi loluntu - ukuba nje ezinxulumene utshintsho kubume bentlalo isenzeko. Umzekelo, imfazwe, imvukelo, ukungaphangeli, njalo njalo.

Bucala eRussia

ERashiya, ukujongelwa ubanzi umfutho ngokwaneleyo. Ekubeni lizwe mkhulu ngokwaneleyo, mayingabi sakhululwa kuthathwa kumaqela zentlalo yinxalenye enkulu. Xa kunjalo, kukho inkululo phakathi kwemimandla kunye iimpawu ezahlukileyo engqondweni. Njani na okanye hayi, kwaye Russia - yimeko zokwenziwa. Yobuhlanga Russian kuwo incinci ngokwaneleyo. Kodwa ixesha elininzi abantu bezinye iintlanga. Konke oku kwandisa iinkqubo ngaphandle kuluntu lwethu.

Esinye isizathu sokuba ukujongelwa phantsi ukuba amandla nangaphezulu, akukho butywala. Le ububi loluntu kugwetywa uluntu - nguewe. Kodwa ke, kwelinye icala, utywala kukade icangcisiwe, kwinkcubeko yethu.

Ngaba uyazi imfihlelo French okanye amaJamani abazinkcinkcayo, kodwa musani ukuba otywala? Le yinto yokuba abakhange ivume yokuqala ibakala butywala. Kuba thina ngoLwesihlanu ukunxila kuqwalaselwa eqhelekileyo. Kodwa iingcali iziyobisi bathi ukusela ngaphezu kanye qho emva kweeveki ezimbini, uya ekugqibeleni kukhokelela ubunxila kunye, ngenxa yokwenziwa kwabantu amakheswa. Ngokubanzi, nezihlandlo ukusetyenziswa idlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ngaphezu komthamo wazo. Nangona le yakamva nako. Ngokubanzi, asazi indlela kusela ngokulinganisela. Yaye phantsi utywala eziqhelekileyo sithetha kwinqanaba lokuqala butywala, leyo buhlungu gqitha.