Uthando: intsingiselo, iintlobo nemizekelo

Yintoni uthando? Athetha ke ezininzi. Siza kuzama nangoku ngandlel 'ukuchaza oko. Ekubeni yonke into elingana qumrhu, ngokuba ukuqonda ngcono imfuneko ukuqaqambisa iintlobo uthando kunye neentlobo ngeentlobo iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ehlabathini.

intsingiselo lungelelanisa

Ukuqala ukuba yintoni intsingiselo lungelelanisa yegama elithi "uthando." Ngokutsho dictionary intsingiselo, lungelelanisa, kuquka iimpawu ziqhelekileyo kwaye efunekayo isiganeko okanye nesenzeko. intsingiselo lungelelanisa ukuya kumda kwi abstract kwaye ayihlawuli ingqalelo iimpawu ezithile ubunyani yinyani. Ngokusekelwe kule nkcazelo yenzululwazi kunye luzizi kancinane ukuba kusekho anyanzelwa ukuba avune, liqhubeka: "Uthando" (intsingiselo yeli gama kufuneka lube) - loo imvakalelo okanye uvelwano umntu okanye into. Ewe, ngelishwa, izinto nazo uthando. Kwaye abanye abantu izinto ezifana, ngaphezu baze.

iindidi zothando

Ukuhlelwa Uthando lungaba kangangoko izazinzulu ehlabathini. Okanye mhlawumbi wonke umntu anganika inkcazelo yayo yokuhlela. Sakhetha systematization ilandelayo:

• Eros.
• Wazihlanganisa.
• Storge.
• Agape.

Rhoqo saziwe ngalinye.

Eros - ndiyayithanda. It "fly" apho ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngokomphushu kakhulu ngokukhawuleza. Kuxhomekeke iimpawu zangaphandle le into. Ngamanye amazwi, eros - uthando ngaphandle Lubo namanye amacandelo.

Phileo - uvelwano ngokunxulumene nenye. Olu hlobo lothando ayisekelwanga ubuhle. Kulo mzekelo, umntu ababetsaleleke iimpawu ngaphakathi komnye. Kakade ke, lo imvakalelo ehlalayo kuneyokuqala kwaye ngaphantsi ziyatshintsheka, kodwa kuza lufikelele esiphelweni, xa umhlobo kuyakudiza okanye ngezithuko.

Storge - uthando abantwana kubazali babo okanye abazali ukuba abantwana. Kuvakala phantse kusincede. Ukunyulwa komntu akuxhomekekanga ekuzithandeleni kwi iimpawu zangaphandle yenjongosenzi, yaye enze kaninzi abantwana (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abazali) azithathelwa ngqalelo. Imizekelo ngokungenammiselo. Abazali bayaqhubeka ukuba siyabathanda abantwana ngamakhoboka eziyobisi kunye otywala. Yaye abantwana bakhulela kwikhaya leenkedama, ngokufuthi ekhangela abazali babo ngokungakhathali. Le storge.

Agape - luhlobo elikhethekileyo uthando ngokomoya eluntwini, leyo, kwelinye icala, olungenamiqathango, wazincama kwaye akanyanzelisi nto, kodwa kwelinye icala, uyakuqonda uxolela yonke into. Umzekelo, umama omthandayo umntwana wakhe kunjalo, akubona iziphako zayo, kodwa baxolele, kwaye Ukusiqwabazel ngoyaba iingxaki yobuntu, njengakwimeko yangaphambili.

Kuyinyaniso ukuba zokuhlela nganye efanelekileyo yayo. Agape, njengokuba umthetho, akukho ifumaneke kumntu oqhelekileyo (ngaphandle ngenxa yokufika waphezulu) umthande eli ilifa abaprofeti (uKristu) kunye nosaziwayo zikarhulumente (M. Gandhi).

Njengoko kubonakala hlulwa kunye nemizekelo uthando (elithetha ngokukhethekileyo) yi eyahlukeneyo kuxhomekeke yintoni na intsingiselo yalo mbono lamakhonkco kwimeko ethile nento uveza:

• Friendship.
• uthando inkanuko.
• Uthando abazali / abantwana.
• Uthando ngokomoya ngokuzidela.

Kwangaxeshanye kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba, yaye oku akuyi kuba abekho ukwahlukana ecacileyo izivamvo apho unako, kuba eneneni isiseko isiphithiphithi. Noko ke, ukulungele ukuthetha uthando lukamama kunye ukungacaci yawo thina.

uthando lukamama

Ngokusesikweni, uthando lukamama mhlawumbi storge okanye Agape. Omnye kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba lo wesibini - iqashiso kweeyunithi. uthando lukamama kwamiselwa ngokwemvelo. Ukuba ebengenguye, abantu akukugcinanga kwiminyaka yokuqala kubomi babantwana babo. Ootata nzima kufuneka basebenze ngaphandle nobuchule bakhe kwezentlalo uthando ebantwaneni. Kungenxa yoko le nto uthando lukamama leyo inemiqathango - sisipho wamazulu, nothando kayise, unako ukufumana aze alahlekelwe. Unina lonke ixesha uqhubeka ezithanda.

Ngoko ke, ukuba umfundi uza kuyeka esitratweni kwaye abuze, "Iyintoni na intsingiselo yegama elithi" umama uthando "," - waqhubeka intloko yakhe waza waphendula. Kodwa loo nto bonke. Kubalulekile ukugxininisa ingxaki le ubumbaxa uthando lukamama.

Omama kanye nothixokazi

Ewe, xa umama ifanelekileyo Uyaziqonda yonke, uxolela yonke into, njalo inkxaso. Kodwa abantu bayinyuse bengengabo oothixo, kodwa abantu. Siye sifunde wabazali elungileyo nje kuphela kodwa ezimbi. Umama ayikwazi kuphela babathande abantwana babo, kodwa ukuba uxinzelelo phezu kwabo, kusetyenziswa njengesixhobo ukuphumeza iinjongo zabo ukuba akazange athumele.

Woman kwiimeko ezithile kunye namatyala, ngenkohlakalo ngaphezu kwabantu. Kodwa le nkcazelo ayamkelwa kuba utshabalalisa omnye zeemposiso yenkcubeko esisiseko ukuba unina - luthando olungenamiqathango nokulunga.

Kodwa ke abantu bamandulo babesazi intliziyo umfazi njani edlulayo, kungekhona kuphela kubantu kodwa abantwana. Kwanetempile yothixokazi omkhulu amanye amahlelo akudala ikwanoxanduva ukuzalwa kunye ekufeni, ukufa ke ngequbuliso, ezingenangqondo kunye ezitenxileyo. Igama elithi "ukufa" Kwakhona, ngasendleleni, kukho esobukhomokazi. Kwaye oku akukho ngozi.

Ngamanye amazwi, akulula ukuba ukuphendula umbuzo wokuba yintoni uthando. Intsingiselo yegama elithi utoliko olwahlukileyo.

Ubunzima kuzo uhlahlelo intsingiselo yala magama kukuba, kwelinye icala, Izicatshulwa kakhulu - Ngumfanekiso mali okukhulu ixabiso, yaye kwelinye icala, ngqo kakhulu xa esebenza abantu abangenamava. Ngenye indlela, sikholelwa ukuba lo msebenzi sele kugqityiwe. Kwaye ukuba nabani na uthi kumfundi: "njani ukuqonda intsingiselo yothando, chaza ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo!" - waqhubeka intloko yakhe waza waphendula.