Indlela yokukhuphela umntwana kwesinye isikolo, nokuba ngaba ukwenza oko?

izizathu ezininzi yenza abazali bacinga ngayo izikolo ukutshintsha. Indlela ukutshintshela kwesinye isikolo umntwana? Ngaba ndiya kuyenza loo nto? Ngaba umntwana wakho ngcono iqela elitsha? Ukusuka kule mibuzo, nithe nawaphula intloko, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo. Isimanga, uninzi nguqulelo ayikho onxulumene Umnqweno umfundi. Bantwana, ngokungafaniyo nabazali - ukuba bhetyebhetye kakhulu, bona ukuqhelana naziphi na iimeko, nokuba benza ntoni okanye ongayithandiyo. Ukongeza, abayi eni- amava obomi, Niyabona kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo lula.

Ukuba ukudluliselwa somntwana kwesinye isikolo ngenxa yezizathu Injongo (uhambisa, nakwenzeka wabagagamela le nkqubo, ukugula, njalo-njalo), mhlawumbi, abazali Ninganeli ngutitshala, ingakumbi kumabanga aphantsi. Kukholelwa ukuba ifuthe utitshala malunga nokusekwa ubuntu komntwana esikolweni samabanga aphantsi kakhulu, ngokufuthi abakule minyaka yobudala igunya lakhe "kuphazamiseke" umzali. Ngaba ukucebisa omama kunye abazali ukukhumbula 'ootitshala zabo kuqala. " Kakade ke, ngokusesikweni sibonga nabo, kodwa kwabacebisi banjalo baphupha abantwana babo? Nokuba ngaloo mihla kunye nootitshala nethamsanqa hayi kakhulu, nangona i "smithy" kwenkqubo eSoviet ikuvumela ukuba "siqhubekele" kuqhume ephucukileyo. Ngoku le meko nabasebenzi imfundiso yesikolo amagqabi kangako. Ngoko ke, ukucinga indlela yokukhuphela umntwana kwesinye isikolo, kufuneka ukuba uyazi ukuba ukuze ibe ngcono ngaphezu yangaphambili ngutitshala entsha ibe.

Malunga efanayo kunjalo neqela labantwana. Ukungaphumeleli umntwana ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga babo - na esinye isizathu ofanayo uphendlo kwindawo entsha yesifundo. Kuyenzeka ukuba unyana okanye intombi zintlungu umninimzi eklasini, engafumani abahlobo abalungileyo. Kukho iimeko kubi xa umntwana kakubi bokwenyani eklasini (ngasendleleni, kulo mzekelo, hayi unetyala okungenani ngutitshala, ingakumbi kumabanga aphantsi), ngoko ke inguqulelo yayiza kuba sisisombululo kuphela. Ukuba nje ukungakwazi ukwakha ubuhlobo kunye nabantwana, kubhetele ukuba khawuleza. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka ucinge ukuba indlela yokukhuphela umntwana kwesinye isikolo kuba nguqulelo okuba ukusombulula ingxaki leyo bamala, kwaye kwindawo entsha.

Wonke umntu, kwanokuba kid kakhulu kufuneka bafunde iziseko yonxibelelwano ngokwabo. Fumana indawo yakhe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ukhululekile kuluntu - umsebenzi onzima, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu, nto leyo iya kubashiya uphawu wayo iminyaka emininzi. Ngokucacileyo umnqweno abazali ukuba abantwana babo ilungileyo yonke into, nokuba ukumkhusela lindihlangule embandezelweni. Kodwa ke, emsusa ukusuka esikolweni ukuya esikolweni xa zikhangela "ubomi obungcono", kunokwenzeka ngenkankulu ukuba kufikelelwe ezinqwenelekayo. Kamva, nyana sele abadala kunye nentombi kuyivulela ngohadi zabo, usapho, kwaye asebenze imiba okusingqongileyo ngenxa yenguquko rhoqo. Kwaba bantwana, abazali ukubukelwa rhoqo sikhule "misebenzi akahoywa". Ngoko ke, abazali kufuneka kakuhle kakhulu ubunzima i "nobubi" phambi ucinga nzulu indlela yokukhuphela umntwana kwesinye isikolo.

Ukuba umba sele yasonjululwa ngokucacileyo, kwaye ukhetho kwesikolo esitsha yenziwe, akukho mfuneko ukucothise transfer. umntwana komzali ukuthandabuza amangomso akayi kuzuza. Ukwazi ukuba bonke abantwana kalula, simele siqiniseke ukuba ekunene kwaye tindhawu nentembelo efanayo bubuncwane bakhe.

Le nto yayinzima ngokuziphatha isigqibo translation, kwaye Nngokobuchwepheshe ukuphumeza isicwangciso sayo - oku akuyongxaki. Kokuba ufumene imvume isikolo esitsha yaye isiqinisekiso obhaliso, kufuneka ubonise ukuba kumlawuli endala, achole amaxwebhu ayimfuneko ukwenzela umntwana (ikhadi zonyango kunye namashishini abucala), athethwa isikolo esitsha yaye ukufumana izandla zakho phezu umyalelo wokwamkelwa. ithamsanqa!