Ukuthotyana okuhambelanayo kokuphantsi: ubuqili, isicwangciso, ukuhluka

Ukungeniswa okufanayo kwezigatshana ezingaphantsi kwezona zintathu zintlupheko yokuthotyelwa kweengxenye zesibini (okanye ezithembekileyo) kwisigwebo esinzima. Uhlobo ngalunye lunamaqhinga kunye neziqhinga, ukwazi ukuba unokukwazi ukuluhlula olu hlobo.

Ulungelelaniso oluhambelanayo nolungqinelanayo oluphantsi

Zonke iintlobo zontathu zibonisa umyalelo apho impendulo yombuzo ovela kumxholo oyintloko wesiphakamiso senziwa. Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba iingxenye ezingaphantsi ziyakwazi ukuba (kunye nokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba zikhona) iziqendu eziliqela kwaye zinokuma zombini phambi kweyona nxalenye enkulu kwaye emva kwayo.

Ukuthotyelwa kwamanyathelo athile kumanyathelo athileyo, xa zonke iinqununu ziphendula kumbuzo ofanayo. Njengomthetho, abaphantsi koko banxulumene ngokufanayo okanye igama lamanyano. Ngokomzekelo: "Umama wandixelele ukuba yonke into iya kulungela kwaye uya kundithenga i doll." Kule meko umntu unokubona into efanayo "yintoni" inyunyana. Nangona kunjalo, kukho neemeko xa umanyano uphoswa, kodwa kuthethwa. Umzekelo kwesi sivakalisi esilandelayo: "U-Nastya waphawula ukuba wayemjonga kwaye wayenentlungu emathunzini akhe." Kule nguqulelo, umanyano uyashiywe, kodwa intsingiselo iyahlala enye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sibone ngokucacileyo le nyunyana eyashiyiweyo, ekubeni iziphakamiso ezinjalo zifumaneka rhoqo kwiimviwo.

Ukungqinelana okulandelelanayo kwamagatya angaphantsi kuluhlu lolo hlobo xa amalungu esibini ephendula umbuzo wabo "owandulela", oko kukuthi, imibuzo ibuzwa kwinqanaba ngalinye lesiphakamiso kwilungu elilandelayo. Umzekelo: "Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukuba ndifumana amanqaku amaninzi, ndiya esikhungweni esihle semfundo." Nantsi ukulandelelana okuchaziweyo: Ndiqinisekile (kwintoni na?), Yintoni ..., ngoko (kuya kwenzeka ntoni?).

Ulungelelaniso olufanayo lwamagatya athile lunjalo uhlobo lokuthotyelwa, xa iinxalenye zesibini zivela kwelinye ilungu eliphambili lesivakalisi. Awuphenduli umbuzo omnye, kodwa kunye bayichaza intsingiselo yenkcazo eyintloko. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuqulunqa izicwangciso zezivakalisi eziyinkimbinkimbi zolu hlobo ukuze ungaphambuki kwinkcazo yoluhlobo. Ngoko, umzekelo wokungeniswa okufanayo: "Xa ikati yaphuma ewindow, uMas wazenza ukuba akukho nto yenzekile." Ngoko, inxalenye ephambili isiqingatha esisisigxina (kwaye ukusuka kuyo unokubuza umbuzo njengowokuqala, kunye neyesibini): uMas wenza sengathi (nini?) Kwaye (kwenzekani ngoko?). Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba isivakalisi esilulayo asiyi kubakho naluphi na uhlobo olufakwe apha ngentla. Njengomthetho, zakhiwa kuphela ekuxhumeni kokudala phakathi kwamalungu.

Ngaloo ndlela, kunokugqitywa ukuba kwisigwebo esisigxina iindawo ezixhomekeke kuzo zineentlobo zentsebenziswano: ukuhambelana okufanayo, okuhambelanayo nokuhambelana kwamagatya athile. Uhlobo ngalunye lunquma ukuxhomekeka kwekota eliphambili kunye nokuxhamla kunye neengxenye ezincinane. Ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo olu hlobo, kwanele nje ukuba ubuze umbuzo ochanekileyo kwaye udwebe izicwangciso zezivakalisi eziyinkimbinkimbi, ukuphawula le mibuzo ngeentolo. Emva komzobo obonakalayo, yonke into iya kuvela ngokukhawuleza.