Yintoni na ke umsebenzi? msebenzi ndiyithandayo

Kwabanye abantu, Julayi - inyanga enxulumene, iiholide zasehlotyeni ikhululekile yaye maxa wambi iiholide, lo gama abafundi izolo yakhe basinda ayut hayi kakhulu nice, kodwa mhlawumbi kakhulu ixesha kubalulekile ebomini bakhe. Abathweswe lo msebenzi - okugqiba ukuba yintoni na ubizo, kwaye senze ukhetho apho b udet zixhomekeke ubomi yonke elizayo. Le ukhetho, ngokuqinisekileyo entsonkothileyo, yaye ngoko ke sifanele ngenyameko.

ubunzima of self-determination

Ukuze kumiselwe kakuhle into yokuba loo omnye umsebenzi, into yokuqala ufuna kususa ndiyisuse into yonke into ukubhidisa kwaye ngqo umbuzo ngokwayo alisebenzi. Kufuneka uzame abstract kubahlobo, Abandaziyo, izalamane, izixhobo zabo hayi amacebiso kunye ingqalelo.
Kufuneka ukulibala ngoko kusefashonini, ethandwayo, ehlonitshwe, neengcinga ayikho kakhulu malunga imali, kodwa wena. Ewe, okunempilo kancinci, okanye ukuba ufuna kukuzingca yemvelo zingandenzakalisi, ngenxa yokuba kaninzi kakhulu abantwana abaye phantsi abadala kwingcinezelo (abazali, oomawokhulu okanye abahlobo abadala), ababambeleyo ulangazelelo lwabo iminqweno abanye, wabhekisela kwityala ubomi bakhe yayo; kunye iphupha nabanye abantu kuwo. Ngaba unako ukufumana indlela esebenzayo ngakumbi ukuba zonakalise ubomi bomntu ngonaphakade kunokuba naye ukuba enze ntoni nangakuthandiyo? Lutho.

Calling kunye nento oyithandayo: uphi na umgca?

Ukuphendula umbuzo malunga yintoni umsebenzi, kubalulekile ukuba ukuvumela ukufaka kweekhonsepthi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bayazidibanisa kuyo ishishini ayithandayo, kodwa kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwezi ndidi zimbini zabantu. Ngoko ubiza - kuba akukho "umsebenzi endiwuthandayo" nje, kodwa into abstract ngakumbi yaye ngaphantsi eyiyo. Ngoko ke, kunoko, kukho uhlobo sesindululo kumda wesangqa ye buqu kunye nendawo umdla, okanye ukuba ufuna incopho yothelekiso ofuna yokuphila ebomini. Ngaloo ndlela, injongo, gxebe, udidi bulumko ichaza imbono yehlabathi kunye nendawo mntu kuyo, lo gama "umsebenzi ndiyithandayo" - njengokubonisa eziphathekayo lwekamva kwabantu, aba iibhloko zokwakha udibaniso indlela kweli cala.

Ngendlela, ukuba kukho nto, umzekelo, umahluko phakathi kokuba utitshala ukuba wazalelwa ukuba abe ngumfundisi? Umbuzo-buciko kuphela.

Ukubiza - kuba bambalwa abanyuliweyo?

Injongo, kunjalo, sizalwa wonke umntu, ngenxa yokuba ilungu ngalinye lwesintu iqhekeza enkulu puzzle phantsi kwegama "Ubomi". heroes kuphela kunye buchopho asingabo bonke kunikwa ukuba: abanye bafumana zabo "Mna" kwi osapho kunye nakwabo basenyongweni, abanye baphile, sikhokelwa Ndandilunxanelwe elawula ubuqhawe, abanye liphupha ekuphuculweni yehlabathi. Iitalente zabantu abahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye kulungile, kutheni ukugxeka omnye umntu ukuba ukungaqiniseki, uhamba kunye ukungaqiniseki ukhetha "indlwane efudumeleyo", ufanelwe ngenkankulu. Injongo womntu umele kuxhomekeka kuphela ukhetho umntu ngamnye, kwaye kuwanyashe olo khetho - ukuba ningavumeli nenkululeko, nto leyo ilungelo kweemfanelo lonke ilungu yoluntu.

Ngoko ke, enoba iphutha elibi?

"Ukuze iceba na zabantu", kodwa abantu phezu zeminyaka ikhona, akuzange kube lula ukuhlala nalo, ukuze, mhlawumbi, nkqu isohlwayo.
Ukungakwazi ukuba umxholo ekhoyo kunye nomnqweno ukulwa mngeni kakhulu ukuya phambili. Imposiso - inxalenye yendalo ebomini bethu, unxibe umnqamlezo wakhe umsebenzi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abazange babe nako ukumthintela, ubuncinane, baziziyatha. Iziliphu kufuneka bafundiswe, kodwa kunjalo ingabi sazilahlekisa, ngenxa yokuba ikamva lomntu kufuna kuphela intshukumo umjelo ekhethiweyo, kodwa kwakhona ukukwazi zokoyisa imingeni asakhulayo. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya abaliqela, yaye mhlawumbi unoyolo ekugqibeleni iya kuba kuphela umntu lowo akanako Kwathi, kodwa uhlangabezana njani nale kokutshatyalaliswa imiqobo nolulahlekisayo kungekhona iphupha apho.

Njani ukuba aye ilahlekileyo?

Uyakwazi kukuphonononga baxoxe le isihloko, kodwa imfihlelo yempumelelo liyi- ilula: kufuneka ukwazi ukuphumla. Kubalulekile ukufumana iplagi, i eziko efudumeleyo, apho ukwazi ukuncokola nize ezingqondweni. Akunyanzelekanga bangenakho ukuba ku luthuthu ngenxa yokuba "samaxesha" - kuthetha ukuba bafikelele ethile ingongoma kungekho kubuya, xa ubomi ngesiquphe ulahlekelwa ipeyinti yayo, kunye nentshukumo phambili kwenzeka kuphela inertia. Ukuziva udiniwe ithande ukuba nomzi, kwaye ngaphezulu ayokubekwa kwenye kwi imigqomo umphefumlo womntu, impembelelo etshabalalisayo ngakumbi ubuntu kuye. Yilonto xa mission iba inkuthazo, nentshabhiso, umtya obungunaphakade, ukuba yeyiphi na, nje ayisebenzi a abanduluka. Apha iqala isimiso, unxunguphalo, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukudakumba, ukungakhathali, breakdowns luvo nokudandatheka ixesha elide. Lo mbuzo nje emzimbeni, kodwa ngokwasemoyeni, impilo ngokwasengqondweni, kwaye ke ngoko oku nokungahoywa kuyo nayiphi na imeko engenakwenzeka.

Apho ungajonga inkxaso?

Akekho umntu othandabuzayo ukuba "umntu kufuneka umntu." Noko ke, abantu abaninzi lula ukubandakanywa abanye abantu ebomini babo. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokukhetha, elowo kuthi bayazi imvakalelo, apho kanye waba uDiogenes, kunye itotshi eya zikhangela umntu. Lo mnqweno, akukho unxano ngakumbi kungcwaba impumlo yakhe ibele yabantu, ukuze ububele, uthando, ukhuthazo, inkxaso, ukuvakalisa yonke into endifuna ukuyiveza, size sihlale cwaka malunga kufuneka ibe yintoni ecacileyo kwaye ngaphandle amagama.

Emva zonke ezinkulu okanye umntu ngempumelelo babengabahlobo abasenyongweni, izalamane, abazali nomxhelo owonwabileyo, wasithuthuzela ngamaxesha buhlungu kwaye safakwa endleleni. Musa ukuzama nzima ukuba umntu ngaphandle kwakho, akukho amcele kunokuba uzame kuphela ngenxa yayo? Ukubizwa High bonke abantu ngenxa yokuba kuyo nayiphi na imeko, enye into - ukuthanda nokuthandwa. Le nto yenza ukuphila kube nenjongo, yaye ngoko, mhlawumbi, akukho ukoyika kufa.

Injongo kunye neendlela zokufikelela kuyo

Umba ubizo kudla intumekeka eyothusa, ngokuba kwindlela eya impendulo kubantu bakhe kudibana ezininzi izinto impenduka. Ngokuba lo hlobo zinto ziquka, umzekelo, umnqweno ukufumana okuninzi. Kakade ke, akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kodwa kanye nje ubutyebi akukwenzi ube isiphelo ngokwayo hayi indawo onke amaxabiso zabantu. Kwindawo yokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba ukuwela umgca xa isiphelo iyayixhasa na indlela. Ukubiza kunokuba mnandi kuphela xa kungekho kukwaphula umthetho ephakamileyo yokuziphatha. Imbali yabantu, amava, uncwadi kubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ulonwabo yakhelwe phezu "ngegazi abanye 'ulonwabo, enyanisweni, akunjalo. Kwaye ukuba Ukuqonda oku kuza indoda ngentshuntshe ngasihlandlo sinye, uya ngokuqinisekileyo luwufumane kwixesha elizayo, ebangela ngokuqatha ukuhlawula amatyala ubudala.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba badana ndakudanduluka yakhe?

Kodwa okubi kuphela isenza bangonwabi. Umsebenzi umphefumlo idla uthelekiswa umsebenzi imali, ngoko ke kule kulele esinye sezizathu ekugqibeleni abantu ningayekeleli ubizo abawukhethileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba xa ngaba ezi ngcamango zimbini emacaleni esahlukileyo, le ngxaki iya kusonjululwa?

Umntu ubotshiwe ukuba abe zizityebi xa ungafika lwenu nongezelele ishishini ozithandayo, kodwa ukuba kutshizwa kwi yokuba akazange waba intliziyo, ngethemba ezintabeni zegolide, impumelelo akunakwenzeka a priori. Ukuze wonwabe ngokwenene, kufuneka ubeke intliziyo yakho ubizo lwenu. Kumongameli, umzekelo, unako ukubhala iingoma, ukuzama ukwenza ukwanelisa abaphulaphuli umnqweno kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze imali, kodwa ke kufuneka sizilungiselele oko mhlawumbi kuya kufika ixesha xa akabanga saba nako ukuhlangabezana iminqweno isihlwele akulinikwanga, yaye uluntu ndiya kukubuyisa kude kuyo. Yintoni eya kuhlala naye, kodwa bayazisola ixesha elichithwa ilize?

Le mvumi lokwenyaniso idala ngokusuka entliziyweni, ngoko musa ixhomekeke fashion edlulayo kwaye lihlale kwinkumbulo abantu bakaThixo kwiminyaka okanye amashumi eminyaka. Apha umntu ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba lizaliseke ikamva lalo. Ngapha koko, ekugqibeleni, yintoni na umsebenzi, ukuba ukukwazi ukuphulaphula entliziyweni yakho?