Inkolelo yamaxoki kaCal Liteman

Abantu bahlala becinga ngento enye, kodwa bathi enye into. Ngokuchasene nayo yonke into, akwenzeki ngokuqinisekileyo oko akucingayo kwaye athethe. Isimo sengqondo asikwazi ukuhambelana neengcinga, intetho okanye izenzo. Izinto ezinjalo eziyinkimbinkimbi ngabo bantu.

Ngobunzima obunzima kulo lonke uchungechunge oluthi "Ndikhohlise" usebenza nguDkt. Cal Lightman. Uhlalutya ubugebengu, asebenze neqela lakhe I-Lightman Group. Leli qela labantu bafunda iinguqu eziphambili zokufunda ngabantu, ukuhlalutya ulwimi lomzimba. Bancedisa i-protagonist ekufumaneni ubugebengu.

Yintoni eyenza isiseko soluhlu

Isiseko sochungechunge lwama-American Lie To Me, okanye "Ndikhohlise," sasisekelwe kwizinto ezivela kwincwadi ethi uPaul Eckman, owayengumsebenzi wengqondo yengqondo ebomini bakhe bonke. Uphando lwe-microexpress of people from people of different professions, beliefs, beliefs, way of life. Ukusebenza kwisibhedlele seengqondo e-San Francisco, isazi sengqondo esincinci senze i-interviews kunye nezigulane, ukuyifotela. Emva koko wayekhangela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiikhilomitha ezininzi zeemifanekiso, ekugqibeleni impawu ezenza izigulane ziboniswe, zomeleza iimvakalelo zabo. Ukuzithemba kwakhe ukuba, esebenzisa yonke into ayisebenzisayo, unokuxelela ikhulu leepesenti, uthetha ubuxoki okanye uthethe inyaniso umntu, ngokungekho nto eyenzekayo kwisibhedlele sengqondo.

Kule filimu kukho ividiyo yokugcina ingxelo enerekodi yangempela yesigulane Ekman. Ubuso bakhe obuphambukayo bufunyanwe nguthambo lwangqondo ngengozi ngelixa bebukela izinto eziphathekayo, besetyenziselwa isakhelo sesibini sefriji, kwaye yaba yiseko yesayensi yokuqonda amanga. Oko kukuthi, kwiqhezu lesibini umntu obuso ngobuso ngendlela yovakalelo ekhanyisa inyaniso, ngokukhawuleza ehlanganiswe ngamanga. Kuloluhlu, uCal Lightman wabonakala njengendoda eyaziwayo kubantu abathandekayo kunye nenyaniso, ukufunda amancinci-mbonakalo ebusweni babo nokunyamekela imiqondiso. Oku kwamnika uPaul Ekman kunye negama lokugqibela lafika kunye ne-Lightman, leyo, ngesiNgesi, isandile njengomntu oqaqambileyo.

UCal Lightman - umgca wecala loluhlu

Icala kwisibhedlele seengqondo sisendaweni yechungechunge. Ngokwebali likaCal Lightman, ukufa kukaMama kukhokelela ekufundeni inkolelo yamanga. Wazibulala. Ukhangelelana kwingxelo yengxoxo yakhe kunye nengcali yeengqondo kwaye, ekunciphiseni ifilimu, ubona ebusweni bakhe imbonakalo emfutshane yomgubo lowo umbhali wencwadi, owaba sisiseko soluhlu, uPaul Ekman, wafumanisa yena.

Abaninzi ababukele le ngqungquthela bayazibuza ukuba, ngokwenene, unako ukufunda abantu abanjengoCal Lightman njengencwadi? Le ngcamango ibangelwa ziziqendu zefilimu, apho kucacile ukuba akukho bunzima ekuqaliseni amanga. Umqambimanga ngokwakhe unikeza iimpawu ozifunayo nje ukwenza oko uCal Lightman engumfundisi. Ukholelwa ukuba wonke umntu ulala. Imizuzu yokunxibelelana nomntu inika izinto eziphathekayo ukuze enze isigqibo esinjalo. Ukholelwa ukuba utyhila ubungqina bezinto ezichanileyo, uhlalutya ukuziphatha komntu. Ngokomgaqo, ukuba umntu ukhokelwa kuphela ngokuvavanya indlela yokuziphatha komntu ngemisebenzi yakhe, izigqibo ezichanekileyo azikwazi ukutsalwa. Umntu unesicatshulwa esicwangcisiweyo, esivela kungakhathaliseki, njengokuba ngaphambi kokuvavanywa, okanye eqinisweni nje ukudibanisa impumlo yakhe, kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba ngoku umntu uya kulala.

Indlela yokuqonda ubuxoki

Ngubani owalumkele ngenyameko yonke uchungechunge lwe "Theory of Lies" kwaye wazama ukuhlalutya indlela ubuxoki obonakala ngayo, mhlawumbi kwafika kwisigqibo sokuba abalinganiswa beenqununu uRia Torres kunye noCal Lightman abangekho buxoki, banomdla kwiimvakalelo zabantu. U-Lightman ubuza umbuzo aze abone impendulo ebusweni bomntu, nangona uthe cwaka. Abadali befilimu banika esi sibini ngesicatshulwa esiphezulu sengqondo, esichazela ukuba bakwazi ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuqonda imiba yabantu. Kwifilimu, bajamelana nomsebenzi wabo, bahlalutya ubuso babo, baqonde oko umntu akuvakalelwa ngethuba: baqonda amanga, bawasindisa entolongweni yabantu abangenacala, izigwenxa ziya ejele.

Yonke indlela uKal Lightman "ayifumana ngayo" umdibaniselwano waba kunye nokufunda izitishi ezinhlanu zolwazi ezivela kwi-interlocutor. Ezi zibandakanya umntu, izibonakaliso ezingekho ngezwi eziveliswa ngumzimba, ilizwi, isitayela kunye nokuxhumana ngokwawo. Ukuhlalutya oku, bagqiba ukuba umntu ulele okanye cha. Nangona sicinga ukuba umntu unokuzama ukukhohlisa umceli-ndlebe ngoqeqesho, akayi kuphumelela. Ubuxoki buyinto enzima. Kufuneka ihlolwe.

Iindlela, ngaphandle kwengqondo ye-psychodiagnostics ...

Akunjalo yonke into elandelwayo ekwakhiweni kwenkqutyana yeenyaniso kunye nokuvuma kuphela kwii-psychodiagnostics ezibonakalayo. Iindlela ezenziwa nguMazisi kunye nabancedisi bakhe ngamanye amaxesha ayifaki indlela yeengcamango zobuxoki. Ezi zingongxaki, uxinzelelo lwengqondo kunye nokukhwabanisa, kuncedisa ukufumana inyaniso ngenye indlela. Kungatsholwa ukuba kukho ukudibanisa iindlela zokukhipha ulwazi oluyimfuneko yophando.

Yintoni eyenza uxoke

Kuloluhlu, umntu unokubona ubomi bomntu woLuntu. Umama uzibulale, kunye nomfazi ekuqhawuleni umtshato, kukho izimo zengqondo, kodwa azinakho ukuphuhlisa. Kunzima kakhulu ukuvuyiswa xa uziva uxoka ngokuqinisekileyo. Nobuxoki, soloko kulungile. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba inyaniso ukuthetha ithetha nje. Wonke umntu uhamba ngeemaski, ezinzima ukuzinqumla. Ngoko ke, ubudlelwane boluntu luyakhelwe ekukhohlisweni. Ukumamotheka kokuqala kukuguqula umntu, ifihla imizwa engakhiyo: umsindo, ukwesaba. Ukumamatheka, kulula ukukhohlisa umnxibelelwano.

Iingcaphuno ezivela kuluhlu

"Akukho mntu unokuthetha kuphela inyaniso - emva kwayo yonke into yokuzimela; Sivavanya zonke iinjongo zobomi bamava - yinyaniso, "- utsho uCal Lightman. Iingcaphuno kunye ne-aphorisms ye-protagonist, emva kokukhishwa kweedityhulwa kwizikrini zethelevishini, ngamanye amaxesha ziphazamisa ukunxibelelana kwabantu. Ngokuchanekileyo kakhulu kunye nekhono, Ummeli kulolu chungechunge unikeza iimpendulo, ubukhali, ubeka phambili iingcamango. Ewe, umzekelo, iingcaphuno ezivela kuCal Lightman: "Lo luhlobo lomntu - ukuba kukho iqhosha, kuyimfuneko ukucinezela" okanye "Ukungabi nemvakalelo kubaluleke kakhulu njengoko kubakho."

Bonke abantu bazalwa ngokwemvakalelo, kwaye, njengokuba i-protagonist yefilimu ithi, wonke umntu ulala. Kuphela kuxhomekeke kuyo yonke into, yiyiphi iiglasi ezibalalini ekhaleni lomfundi weqiniso.